297 - Aha! So That's the Lesson Among the Lesson!

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Jill spends some time this week reflecting on some of the lessons that she has been learning as she plans her upcoming event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast! She gets into the personal growth that she has experienced via planning this event, acknowledging her tendency to take on too much responsibility and do everything herself, even though this often leads to burnout and resentment.

However, after realizing that she was slipping back into this pattern as she planned the event, Jill had an epiphany - the true lesson was not about her own limitations but about fully surrendering and trusting that the universe will provide what is needed, so rather than trying to force herself to sell every single ticket, Jill has decided to let go and allow the seats to fill organically. She declares that there will be 200 women in that room, and she is going to "dance, breathe, sound bathe" her way to that outcome, rather than grinding and hustling.

Jill also shares that this event is not just for the attendees but is also a gift to herself, acknowledging that she has often put others' needs before her own. She invites listeners who may also struggle with holding too much responsibility to reflect on their own patterns, and consider how they can let go and allow the universe to support them! Enjoy this vulnerable and insightful reflection from Jill this week as we get closer and closer to the big event!

Show Notes:

[02:14] - Jill asks listeners to please subscribe to the show and also to rate and review it.

[04:49] - Jill discovers how stepping outside of her comfort zone reveals hidden strengths, resilience, and even surprising superpowers!

[07:13] - When Jill carries too much, her body crashes, reminding her to delegate instead of be a martyr.

[09:47] - Even though her perfectionism still resurfaces, Jill accepts help, hires support, and confronts her old “do it all herself” pattern.

[12:43] - Hear how Jill learned the lesson on top of the lesson - catching herself before repeating the toxic cycle.

[14:58] - Jill saw her nervous system crave safety, but delegation and support prevented old destructive habits.

[17:48] - Determined, Jill knew that she could sell 200 tickets through sheer grit, creativity, and drive!

[20:18] - Instead of proving herself through exhaustion, Jill embraced surrendering and trusting that the right women will come to the event.

[23:04] - Hear how Jill realized that the lesson wasn’t settling but rather receiving abundance and trusting support to arrive.

[26:21] - Jill reflects on having realized that the event is also a gift for her, not just attendees.

[29:10] - Jill declares that 200 seats will be filled via joy, creativity, prayer, and absolute trust.

[31:26] - For Jill, taking care of everything herself tends to feel safe, but embodiment work helps release old burdens without self-criticism.

[34:10] - By loosening her grip on control, Jill invites magic, ease, and unexpected gifts to unfold!

[38:01] - Listen as Jill reframes attendance: focus not on sacrifice but on potential gains, growth, and connection!

 

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