3774 Hit Me with Your Best Shot
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Life is not going to ever be easy or simple. But simple decisions bring greater rewards, specifically in your health. Hit me with your best shot. If you think your health will just take care of itself through the ups and downs, you’re setting yourself up to fail. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . The truth is, simple, clear decisions—made every day—are what stack up into real health wins. When everything else feels out of control, your commitment to these basics becomes your shield and sword. What are you doing now to protect your...
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3773 Carve Out the Time
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Life has a way of pulling us in every direction at once. The endless responsibilities, personal passions, and career demands—whether inside or outside the home—can all collide, leaving you gasping for a moment to breathe. If you’re feeling stuck, trapped by your own series of “YES” commitments, it’s time for a reset. It’s time to carve out the time. Because that time belongs to you! Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Pause for just a moment. Recognize that what you’ve been doing isn’t working. That’s not a failure. It’s...
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3772 How Rhythm Beats Speed Every Time
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We all want more time. More hours to get more done. Faster moves mean faster results, right? Wrong! The problem isn’t a shortage of time—it’s how rhythm beats speed every time. We could all use more time to accomplish more. However, unfortunately, all we get is being backlogged with thoughts of "I wish I had more time" and "Why can't I move faster?" Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . "Distractions hijack your actions." ~ Kristianne Wargo Interruptions speed up time, making it slip through your fingers even faster. Rushing only fragments...
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3771 Oh Lord, You're Beautiful
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“Oh Lord, You’re beautiful, Your face is all I seek. And when Your eyes are on this child, Your grace abounds to me.” This heartfelt song, written by Chris Tomlin and Steffany Gretzinger (2022), captures a truth that unwaveringly stands through joy and hardship alike: God is beautiful. Not in the way the world measures beauty—with fleeting success, perfection, or ease—but in His eternal character, mercy, and unfailing love. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Beauty in the Midst of Hardship Life rarely unfolds according...
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3770 When the Feeling Fades
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
There’s a kind of magic in falling in love. It hits hard, sparking joy, passion, and an overwhelming sense of connection. When you say “I do,” it feels like the beginning of forever—a forever fueled by those electrifying feelings. But what happens when the feeling fades? For most married couples, the intense emotional need—the attraction, the butterflies, the all-consuming desire to be near one another—lasts about two years. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . After that, reality creeps in. The daily grind, the frustrations, the...
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3769 Stop the Entitlement
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Let’s be real—teaching your child appreciation in today’s world is like trying to hold back a tidal wave. Everywhere they look, the message blares loud and clear: “You deserve it.” Stop the entitlement and encourage the appreciation. Because if we are real and raw, no one wants to wait for anything. If you are older and wiser, you probably understand the importance of hard work and saving. We didn't get to have something just because it was newly released. We had to save and plan. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . From flashy ads to...
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3768 Challenge Yourself
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Life doesn’t hand out easy cards. Sometimes the lemons coming your way aren’t the kind you can just squeeze for lemonade. They’re heavy, sour, and downright stubborn. Yet, excuses won’t get you anywhere. When the chaos of life has you tangled, this is exactly when you need to stand up and challenge yourself. Sure, motivation feels like an elusive friend. Some days, the right words—the spark to keep moving—slip right through your mind. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . It’s easier to sink into that quicksand of defeat, letting...
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3767 Choose Discipline Over Temptation
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Life is full of tough decisions, especially when it comes to our health. Every day, you're faced with a choice: give in to temptation or stand firm with discipline. The difference between these paths isn’t just about what you do in the moment—it shapes your entire future. Choose discipline over temptation. Think about your everyday choices. What do you choose normally when it comes to healthy living? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Temptations feel easier because they come with built-in familiarity. You know the comfort of that junk...
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3766 Stand in Victory
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Life rarely unfolds exactly the way you plan. You’ll face moments when the bitter outweighs the sweet, when the lemons piled in front of you seem endless and your lemonade is nowhere to be found. But your circumstances don’t define you. No matter how hard it hits, stand in victory. Don’t carry your mistakes like weights dragging you down. Stand on them. Let your failures be the stepping stones that elevate you, not the burdens you lug around. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Every misstep is an opportunity – a lesson carved...
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3765 Is Your Schedule Stealing Your Purpose?
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
It's hard living a life without purpose; in fact, we are happier because we have purpose. But unfortunately, all that life offers us can lead us down "Distraction Boulevard." Is your schedule stealing your purpose? Purpose isn’t just a feel-good buzzword—it’s the fuel that drives the passion from within. When you wake up knowing why you do what you do, life suddenly feels worth living. But here’s the blunt truth: your schedule might be stealing your purpose right under your nose. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . We live in a world...
info_outlineParenting today is not the easiest. There are many different approaches that the world encourages, ranging from letting the kids rule the roost to old-style harsh punishment. Regardless of where you fall on the spectrum, one size does not fit all. It takes a dash of this and a sprinkle of that to raise a well-balanced child. And that includes using the power of No.
Think of it this way: If a child always gets what they want, where is the lesson? Saying No isn’t about control or punishment—it’s about teaching your child that the world doesn’t revolve around them, and life comes with limits and boundaries.
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Without this, children risk growing up entitled or ill-prepared for the real world.
One Size Does Not Fit All—Know Your Child
Parenting is not a cookie-cutter effort. Each child has a unique personality and temperament. What works perfectly for one won’t necessarily work for another.
As James Dobson wrote, “The heart of parenting is creating an environment where children learn to make good choices”—and sometimes that environment needs a clear No.
If you stick rigidly to only one approach—whether it’s unyielding discipline or permissiveness—you risk pushing your child into rebellion or reliance on you for every decision. When children learn that they can override boundaries through persistence or manipulation, they begin to take control instead of you leading the way.
Adaptability Is Your Secret Weapon
"Parenting is a daily chess match. You must read the situation, the child’s mood, and the bigger picture. Complacency is your enemy. An effective parent is intentional, strategic, and consistent in setting limits while showing love." ~ Kristianne Wargo
The power of No doesn’t mean you say No to every whim. It means you are deliberate—sometimes gentle, sometimes firm—always clear about expectations and consequences, good or bad.
"Boundaries, after all, aren’t walls; they are guardrails that help your child navigate safely and confidently through life." ~ Kristianne Wargo
Don't be afraid to use No as a parenting tool.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Use No!
3 Things to Keep in Mind When Using the Power of No
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Make Your No Clear, Calm, and Consistent
Children need predictability. If you say No one day and Yes the next on the same issue, they will test limits endlessly. As Dr. Dobson emphasizes, consistency is the key to effective parenting. Your calm but firm No sets the expectation and builds trust—your child knows where they stand. -
Explain the Why Behind the No
Children aren’t mind readers. Simply saying “No” without context breeds confusion or frustration. Take a moment to explain the reason behind the boundary in simple terms. For example: “No, you can’t have candy now because it’s almost dinner time, and we want you to be hungry for healthy food.” This teaches decision-making and patience. Yet, there are times when No is enough! So, don't back down when 'No' needs to be just 'No'! -
Balance No with Empathy and Alternatives
Saying No doesn’t mean shutting your child down. Acknowledge their feelings—“I know you really want that toy”—and then offer a choice or an alternative—“Maybe we can save for it and get it next month, or pick a smaller toy today.” This respects the child’s emotions while maintaining your authority.
Boundaries Protect and Prepare
The power of No is not about being the “bad guy.” It’s about setting boundaries that protect your child physically and emotionally. Boundaries build character—helping them learn limits, responsibility, and respect for others. Children who grow up without clear limits may struggle with impulse control or entitlement later in life.
In the words of parenting expert James Dobson, “Children need to be firmly and fairly guided toward self-control.”
The power of No, wielded wisely, plants the seeds for that self-control, well beyond childhood.
Final Thought
Your job as a parent is to stay adaptable, intentional, and clear. Say No when it counts. Teach your child that life isn’t about getting everything they want but learning how to navigate challenges with resilience and respect.
You’re not just raising a child—you’re raising an adult. No boundaries? You risk raising a child unprepared to face the real world.
"The power of No is a tool—not to break your child’s spirit—but to build their strength." ~ Kristianne Wargo
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