Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Life drags us down. It spins us around, until the weight of it all crashes heavy on our shoulders. Deadlines stack higher than our energy. Responsibilities pile up faster than the hours in the day. In the middle of this chaos, Jesus gives refreshment for your soul. The invitation comes from Matthew 11:28-30 ~ “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." What does that “rest” really mean...
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When life gets messy — and let’s be honest, it always does — both parents and kids face the terrifying question: “Where do I run first?” It’s not just about geography; it’s about the who and what that can catch us when we’re falling apart under overwhelm and struggle. If parents don’t provide a safe fallback, kids often sprint toward friends, teachers, coaches, or romantic interests — places that might get them, or might just judge and reject them. This question strips parenting to its core responsibility: Are we raising kids who know our love...
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Life isn’t a constant stream of roses and rainbows. More often, it’s weeds choking the garden and storms darkening the sky. But from those weeds and storms come blooms and skies painted with the kind of beauty you cannot fake or force. It's no wonder it's hard to wear your smile. Maybe you're struggling to smile today? I get it. Sometimes smiling feels like a mask, like pretending everything’s okay when inside you’re falling apart. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . But wearing a smile isn’t about life handing you perfect...
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You don’t have to like where you are. Maybe your life feels stuck in a loop you didn’t sign up for. Maybe your step feels heavy or your spirit’s been whispering for a shift you haven’t dared to make. Wait though! You’re not trapped. Not by your past, your mistakes, or the weight of what isn’t working. You get to decide how you show up each day. You get to set the tempo of your life—from what you hold onto to what you courageously let go. This is the wellspring of real well-being: the space inside where choice lives. It’s not about pretending you’re perfect or faking a smile....
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It’s almost springtime, and right now, the last thing on your mind might be Christmas. But there’s a powerful kind of energy that Christmas brings, one that doesn’t just come from tinsel or twinkling lights. It’s that deep-down, can’t-keep-you-down spark of happiness and purpose that ignites even when you’re running on empty. Live like it's Christmas! Remember those Christmas nights? The ones where you stayed up late, exhausted but joyful, wrapping gifts, assembling toys, or setting up big surprises for your kids? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women?...
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We build walls around ourselves, thinking they’re shields—to keep others out, to guard our weaknesses and doubts. But what happens when walls don't protect you, the walls of comparison that keep you locked in? When a dream or goal demands stepping outside your comfort zone, you face more than fear or uncertainty. You face the trap of comparison. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . We can peer at what everyone else is doing and forget what we alone bring to the table. Our gifts, talents, and unique value get left behind because we’re too...
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Too much of our lives are spent running our own race—scaling mountains, crossing rugged terrains we've never faced before—chasing after answers and strength as if we must do it all alone. We push ourselves to find solutions, to prove our worth, to reach the other side on our own terms. But what if you were to seek the Lord? What if the breakthrough isn’t found in our striving or in the distant horizon? What if the source of hope and peace is much closer than we realize? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Isaiah 55:6 reminds...
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Discomfort in a relationship is often seen as a warning sign or a problem to be avoided. But what if those uncomfortable moments, like disagreements, frustrations, and misunderstandings, are actually the very gateways to a deeper connection and more rewarding marriage? Strip away the noise and love with tethered hearts. When you strip away the noise of everyday life and the tiny irritations that pull you apart, what remains is an opportunity: a chance to grow side by side, tethered heart to heart. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . Most...
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Parenting isn’t about having the loudest voice in the room or the last word every time. It’s about precision, strategy, and understanding how every move impacts the next. You may be the expert, but be careful how you share the wisdom. Whether you want to admit it or not, you can learn how to win your parenting conversations better. In honor of the Olympics, I want you to think of your parenting conversations like the sport of Curling—where every stone you throw changes the "game," and success isn’t guaranteed just because you have the advantage. Desire to be supported and encouraged by...
info_outlineLife drags us down. It spins us around, until the weight of it all crashes heavy on our shoulders. Deadlines stack higher than our energy. Responsibilities pile up faster than the hours in the day. In the middle of this chaos, Jesus gives refreshment for your soul. The invitation comes from Matthew 11:28-30 ~ “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
What does that “rest” really mean when exhaustion feels like a permanent state? And does it mean all our troubles just vanish as soon as we lean in?
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First, let’s unpack the promise—Jesus isn’t just offering a quick nap or a weekend off. There’s no temporary band-aid here. The rest He offers is deeper; it’s a refreshing reset for the soul that no amount of coffee, vacations, or distractions can provide. It’s a rest where the noise of the world, the pressure, the chaos, all start to lose their grip.
But here’s the catch: this rest isn’t about erasing our struggles overnight. Life is messy; bills don’t stop, challenges don’t disappear, and our limits don’t stretch infinitely. The rest Jesus offers is a change of posture and perspective—a surrendering of the burden to Someone strong enough to carry it with you.
Imagine carrying a heavy backpack you’ve hauled alone until now. When Jesus says “Come to me,” it’s an invitation to lay down the weight. Not to deny the load is there, but to stop pretending you have to carry it alone.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Refreshment for your soul!
So what does “refreshment” look like in practice? It’s giving yourself permission to pause and breathe deeply into peace that isn’t dependent on your circumstances. It’s trusting that your value isn’t tied to how much you do or how hard you hustle. It’s letting go of self-imposed expectations and guilt.
There is absolutely a better way than pushing through sheer willpower until you break. The better way is leaning into the invitation: Stop fighting solo. Stop measuring worth by productivity. And start living in the reality that rest is not weakness—it’s strength.
If you’re holding onto a “someday when I get there” version of rest, stop waiting. The rest you crave is available now—right in the invitation to come as you are, weary and worn. That doesn’t mean your troubles disappear immediately. But it does mean you don’t have to carry them like a punishment.
Answer the call to refreshment Jesus offers. Put down your heavy load. Find shelter in a rest that renews, steadies, and rebuilds even in the hardest seasons. This isn’t a fantasy—it’s a hard reality that many have walked into and found freedom.
Stop spinning. Stop dragging. Come for the rest you deserve.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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