Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Parenting is a never-ending, rhythmic song that plays over and over again. Some of the melodies are soothing to the heart — a sleepy child curled into your shoulder, a shared laugh over something silly at the dinner table, a "thank you, Mom" that comes out of nowhere and undoes you a little. But many more of the notes disrupt the nervous system. The 2 a.m. cries. The slammed doors of the teenage years. The days when you've given everything and it still doesn't feel like enough. However you hear it, you can't run from the most important responsibility in your life. Never miss a beat. Parents,...
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There is a particular kind of tired that comes from walking in circles. You look up and realize you have passed this same tree, this same doubt, this same conversation with yourself, more times than you can count. You are moving; your legs ache to prove it, but the scenery refuses to change. And somewhere in that repetition, you hope that the circle isn't wasted. Because the real question, the one that keeps you up at night, is "does any of this matter if I don't even know where I am?" Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . #Inspiration...
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Life doesn't always unfold the way we planned. One day the road looks clear, and the next, it curves somewhere we never saw coming. Unexpected turns can leave us feeling disappointed, confused, or uncertain about what is happening in our world and what God is doing in the middle of it. But here is what remains true even when everything else feels shaky: God is never surprised by the path ahead. Just because life takes an unexpected turn, God was not caught off guard, and He is not scrambling to figure out what to do next. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord in...
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There is a particular kind of tired that has nothing to do with sleep. It's the tired that comes from carrying a dream for longer than you expected to carry it, from praying the same prayer for the hundredth time, from showing up to the same unfinished work day after day and wondering if today is any different from yesterday. If you're in that kind of tired right now, know that you are not stalled. You are in the middle. And the middle is where most of life actually happens. So keep walking when the miles feel long. We tend to picture progress as a straight, visible line — one clear step...
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A journey lasts a lifetime. It requires a chosen mindset, intentional thoughts, and actions that put an exclamation point to movement. Not a comma. Not a question mark. An exclamation point—a declaration that you meant to keep going. As you travel the various paths set before you, let this settle into your spirit: you didn't come this far to come this far. You kept what was valuable in front of you. You pivoted where necessary. You became consistent as time moved on, even when consistency cost you something. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at...
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There's a moment right before your feet hit the floor. The alarm has gone off, the day is waiting, and for just a second you get to choose what you reach for first. Most of us reach for the phone. We reach for the to-do list already running in our heads. We reach for yesterday's leftover worry and let it become this morning's starting point. But there's another way to open your eyes. Psalm 90:14 says, "Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days." Moses wrote those words — the same Moses who spent forty years watching a...
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Marriage was designed for intimacy. God built it that way on purpose — physical closeness is part of the gift. So why in the world would I tell you to keep your clothes on? Because there's a kind of intimacy that has to come first. And if you don't have it, the physical stuff becomes a bandage on a wound that keeps reopening. If you don't have the heart of your spouse, maybe you should keep your clothes on. Cordial Isn't the Same as Connected Think about how you actually interact with your spouse right now — not how you wish you did, not how you did on your wedding day. Right...
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Parents have it rough sometimes. The struggle is real. We want to give our kids everything. The newest shoes. The latest gadget. The experience everyone else is posting about. We work extra shifts, stretch the budget, and say yes to one more thing—all because we want them to have what matters. But here's what we don't say out loud enough: the one thing only you can give them, you already have. It's you. Your presence. The gift that keeps on giving. A lot of times, we convince ourselves that if we just buy this or get that, our kids will know they're loved. And materially, maybe they'll have...
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Not very often do we think about bettering ourselves to the extent of excellence. Yes, we want to do better, but sometimes that gets nullified by the busyness of life and the chaotic moments. So instead of letting go of what you need to grow, take the time to boost your best. You get to decide how you show up in everything that you do. Now, there will be times when you want something different than what you have, but that doesn't mean you slack off. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation It's super...
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There's a moment we all reach eventually. You come to the end of yourself — done, done doing all the things that aren't working. Done pushing. Done grinding a little more, then a little more after that, trying to manage what, honestly, was never yours to control in the first place. And somehow, in the middle of that mess, you find one more ounce of grit. So you dig deeper. You reach further. You tell yourself the answer is just on the other side of one more push. But what happens when trying harder isn't always the answer? What if, for a moment — or a whole season — you let up on...
info_outlineLooking back at your past is natural. It’s part of being human. We reflect on where we came from, what we’ve endured, and how we’ve grown. But there’s a line between glancing at your history and living inside it. Be careful how long you hang out with your past. Like Doris Roberts said, “It’s okay to look back, just don’t stare.”
Some people get stuck in their past like it’s a favorite hangout spot—even a safe one. They replay old mistakes, clutch grudges, or drown in regrets.
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This isn’t reflection; it’s stagnation. And guess what? Stagnation kills momentum.
If you’re caught in that loop, moving forward becomes nearly impossible.
So ask yourself, how does this show up in your life?
Are you the person who can’t quite let go—rewinding moments that no longer serve you, reluctant to step into what’s next?
Or are you someone who sees the lessons, collects the blessings, and moves on with intention?
The K.I.S.S. ~ It's okay to look back, just don't stare!
Because here’s the deal: To become who you’re meant to be, you have to stop hanging out where the failures and disappointments live.
Those places are traps disguised as comfort zones. The longer you stay, the harder it is to break free. And the cost? Your future self never gets the chance to thrive.
Looking back is fine—it’s healthy even, when it fuels learning and gratitude.
But staring? That’s a slow drag into darkness. Don’t get caught there. Use your past as a mirror, not a jail cell. Take a glance, learn what you must, then pivot your eyes forward.
You’re not your past, and your past does not define you.
You are who you decide to become now. So keep moving. Don’t get locked in rooms of memory and misery. Look back long enough to pick up the keys, then be ready to take the next step.
"One step at a time leads to miles of greatness." ~ Kristianne Wargo
It’s okay to look back. Just don’t stare.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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