4179 Set the Pace for Your Daily Race
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Release Date: 09/08/2026
Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo
Somewhere along the way, somebody decided that the holiest version of motherhood looks like a woman who has nothing left. Pour out. Give more. Skip the meal. Skip the rest. Run yourself completely dry and call it faithfulness. And if you've ever whispered a prayer through clenched teeth because you had nothing left to give — then you've already bumped into the myth of the empty vessel. But today, you're dismantling it — because that myth was never God's design for you. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama...
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There comes a point in every season where you have to stop and take an honest look at what you've been carrying. Not everything that weighed you down was meant to travel this far with you. And today, right here, right now — it's time to release what buried you. But some of what pressed you into the ground was soil. God placed it there with purpose. It was the covering you needed, so the seed inside you could crack open, stretch its roots, and begin to grow into something only He could design. Yet some of it was never soil at all. It was just weight. Dead weight. And you've been dragging it...
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In every garden, the gardeners watch carefully for the first buds to appear. Not the full bloom. Not the sturdy stem. But the bud. It's the plant's most vulnerable part because it hasn't hardened yet. It's new and exposed, full of potential, yet not strong enough to withstand a late frost or a careless hand. And if you've been doing the interior work lately — pulling up old roots, tilling hard ground, planting seeds of faith in places that used to grow nothing but fear — then you may be approaching a season of tending what's tender. Because what's beginning to emerge in you right now...
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You woke up this morning, and before your feet even hit the floor, there was already noise. Not the alarm. Not the kids. Something deeper, quieter, meaner — a thought that slid in before you had the chance to decide what kind of day this was going to be. And if you're not careful, that thought will try to run the whole show. But you don't have to let it. Today is your invitation to refuse the verdict, because you were named before the noise ever began. WOW!! Sit with that for a minute. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . #Inspiration...
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Some lies announce themselves. They crash into your day with a voice so sharp you know immediately something is wrong. But the most dangerous lies aren't shouted out loud. They whisper. They've been whispering so long you stopped recognizing them as anything other than your own voice — and that is exactly what makes the lies that feel like home so hard to leave behind. You know the ones. I'm not enough. It's too late for me. Everyone else has it figured out. They don't feel like attacks. They feel like facts. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the . ...
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There's an old saying that you become like the five people you spend the most time with. And while that might sound like something from a self-help book on a clearance rack, there's actually deep, biblical truth tucked inside it. The company you keep matters more than most of us are willing to admit. And it's not because the people around us define us, but because they shape the atmosphere we breathe, the thoughts we entertain, and the steps we're willing to take. And if we're serious about walking in wisdom, we have to be honest about who's walking beside us. Desire to be supported and...
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You can love your spouse deeply, consistently, and sincerely, yet they still feel unloved. This has nothing to do with doing it right or wrong; it's about speaking your love language instead of theirs. How you express love matters, especially when nobody is keeping score. So speak your spouse's language. Most of us default to loving people the way we want to be loved. It makes sense. If words of encouragement fill your cup, you naturally pour words into your spouse. If you feel most connected through quality time, you assume sitting together on the couch is the ultimate act of devotion. Desire...
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It happened so slowly you didn't even notice—one day you were the woman with dreams of her own, opinions spoken out loud, hobbies that didn't need justifying. And then somewhere between the dinner, dishes, and dogs, she quietly left the room. Not dramatically. Not with a slamming door. She just… faded. And nobody noticed. Not even you. So when did I disappear? If that question hits you somewhere deep, you're not alone. And you're not broken. You are a woman who loved so hard, so completely, that she forgot to save a seat for herself at her own table. Desire to be supported and encouraged...
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There's something inside most of us that kicks in the moment life starts pressing down. When the weight shows up — the uncertainty, the waiting, the silence that feels too long — our first instinct is to push. To claw. To hustle our way back into motion because at least movement feels like progress. But what if the bravest thing you could do right now is simply breathe where you are? What if this season isn't asking you to perform your way out — but to be present right where you've been planted? Now, that may sound counterintuitive. We live in a world that celebrates output. The...
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Why does growing have to hurt? I mean, we talk about growth like it's this beautiful, sun-drenched thing — butterflies emerging, flowers blooming, all of it wrapped in soft lighting and your favorite song playing in the background. And sure, sometimes it is that. But other times? Other times it feels like you've been turned inside out. Like the life you built — the one that fit so perfectly last year — is suddenly two sizes too small, and you can't breathe in it anymore. That's the part no one puts on the vision board: growing pains that still grow. You know the feeling. Something in...
info_outlineHave you ever watched a tennis match and noticed the winner isn't always the one hitting the hardest? Sometimes it's the one who knows when to slow down, when to push forward, and when to reset between points. With the US Open in full swing right now, there's no better time to be reminded that the way we approach our daily lives mirrors what's happening on those courts in Flushing Meadows. It's time to set the pace for your daily race — not someone else's, not the world's, but the one God specifically designed for you.
Tennis is a game of rhythm. Every elite player has a routine between points — a breath, a bounce of the ball, a moment of stillness before the next serve. That rhythm isn't random. It's intentional. It's how they stay grounded when the crowd is roaring, and the scoreboard isn't in their favor.
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And your life works the same way. When you wake up each morning, you have a choice: let the chaos of the day dictate your tempo, or set your own pace before your feet even hit the floor.
Proverbs 16:9 tells us, "In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps."
There's such beauty in that truth. You get to plan. You get to prepare. You get to set your pace. But it's God who directs the outcome. That takes the pressure off, doesn't it? You don't have to sprint through every hour trying to control every result. You just have to show up, stay in the rally, and trust that He's ordering your steps even when the match feels like it's slipping away.
As I was watching the finals of Round 16, Swiatek vs. Zheng had a very interesting start to their match. Swiatek started out strong with Zheng falling behind to the point of 5 - 1 respectively.
But it was a moment when Swiatek was serving for the match, and Zheng broke back, again and again and again. Soon, with games in totaling 6 in a row; Zheng took the first set.
In a brief moment, the entire match shifted.
What I love about watching competitors at this level is that they've learned something most of us are still wrestling with — you cannot win every single point. You're going to double-fault. You're going to send one wide.
But the champions don't let one lost point become a lost game, and they don't let a lost set become a lost match. They reset. They breathe. They refocus. And then they step back up to the line.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Set the pace for your daily race!
How many of us lose one "point" in our day — a sharp word with our spouse, a missed deadline, a moment of impatience with our kids — and suddenly we've written the whole day off? We tell ourselves, "Well, today's ruined. I'll try again tomorrow."
But that's not how pacing works. Pacing means you give yourself grace in the moment, recalibrate, and keep going.
Lamentations 3:22-23 reminds us that His mercies are new every morning — but I believe they're also new every moment. You don't have to wait for a new day to start fresh. You can start fresh right now, in this very breath.
Setting your pace also means knowing what drains you and what fuels you. A tennis player knows exactly how to manage energy across a five-set match. She's not going to give everything she has in the first game and have nothing left for the third set. She's strategic. She conserves where she can so she can pour out where it matters most. Y
our life needs that same wisdom. Not every email needs an immediate response. Not every invitation needs a yes. Not every battle needs your energy today. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is hold steady, stay in position, and wait for the right moment to swing.
Paul understood this when he wrote in 1 Corinthians 9:24, "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize."
He wasn't talking about beating everyone around you. He was talking about running with purpose, with discipline, with intention. Your daily race isn't against your neighbor or your coworker or that woman on social media whose life looks like a highlight reel. Your race is between you and the woman God is calling you to become. And you get to set the pace.
So this week, as the US Open crowns its champions and the world watches athletes push themselves to the edge of what's possible, let it be a reminder.
You are also in a match. Your court might be your kitchen table, your office desk, or the carpool lane — but it's yours. Own it. Set the rhythm. Breathe between the points. And trust that the God who placed you in this race has already equipped you to finish it well.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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