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Episode 121: Against the Odds: Solo Parenting and Holding It All Together

Dare To Share Your Untold Story

Release Date: 09/24/2025

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Guest Bio:
Jennifer is a resilient solo parent, raising two daughters while balancing a full-time career, running her own business, and caring for her mother. With patience, grit, and determination, she has learned how to navigate the challenges of solo parenting with strength and compassion. Known for her trustworthiness, warmth, and understanding nature, Jennifer is admired by those around her for her ability to hold space for others even when life feels overwhelming.
 
Beyond her family and professional responsibilities, Jennifer is deeply passionate about giving back to her community in meaningful ways. She actively seeks opportunities to support initiatives that uplift children and strengthen families, believing that collective care is vital for lasting change. Through her journey, she has discovered that thriving as a solo parent is not only possible but also an act of courage and empowerment. Jennifer now channels her perseverance and lived wisdom into encouraging other solo parents, sharing strategies, stories, and support to help them feel less alone in their journeys. Her unwavering commitment to community, family, and resilience makes her an inspiring role model who continues to lead with both strength and heart.
 
Passionate about: 
SAVE THE CHILDREN – She often reflects on what she did to provide for her own children, and now carries a deep desire to extend those same opportunities to other children in need.
 
URL for shoutout:
https://donate.savethechildren.ca/site/Donation2?df_id=4762&4762.donation=form1&mfc_pref=T&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=2025_foraidcuts&utm_term=&utm_content=foraidcuts_googlepmax&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22820331246&gbraid=0AAAAADyLAB9c3-vWJ6BriRTDpezMkYmCt&gclid=EAIaIQobChMImZ79ytqejwMVtxatBh303AYfEAAYASAAEgK0jPD_BwE 
 
Where to find me:
Email: jennifergill68@gmail.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/soloparenting1
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoloParenting0