Navigating College Life: Social Pressures, Greek Life, Consent, and Hookup Culture - Hanna's Story
Release Date: 01/19/2025
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info_outlineHannah shares what college is like outside sorority life—loneliness, frat parties, hookup culture, and the power of saying “no.”
What happens when you’re not part of sorority life in college?
In this candid episode of 7 On Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye sit down with Hannah, a sophomore at a large West Coast university, to unpack the pressures female students face in Greek life and hookup culture.
Hannah shares her personal experiences navigating:
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Loneliness and social exclusion outside sorority life
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Non-consensual encounters at frat parties and the blurred lines of hookup culture
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The role of media and pop culture in shaping college expectations
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The power of saying “no” and protecting self-respect
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Why opting out of certain college activities is not only normal—but empowering
This episode is a must-listen for college students, parents, and educators seeking insight into the realities of modern campus culture and the importance of authenticity and boundaries.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Content Warning
01:15 Welcome to 7 on Sundays: Episode Overview
02:48 Hannah’s Story: Frat Party Experiences
05:49 Greek Life and Recruitment Stories
10:12 Fraternity Party Dynamics and Safety Concerns
25:55 Navigating Social Life Outside Greek Parties
30:34 Dealing with Peer Pressure
37:15 The Dangers of Party Culture
39:39 Personal Experience: Being Drugged
41:28 The Impact of Negative Experiences
43:24 Meeting a Healthy Relationship
45:18 Objectification and Sexualization
49:44 Shame and Body Image
59:17 Building Trust in Relationships
01:09:57 Advice for Younger Generations
01:13:19 Conclusion and Final Thoughts