loader from loading.io

Navigating College Life: Social Pressures, Self-Respect, and Authenticity - Hanna's Story

7 On Sundays™

Release Date: 08/11/2024

How Performative Sex Is Hurting Us All -Garrett Part 2 show art How Performative Sex Is Hurting Us All -Garrett Part 2

7 On Sundays™

In this powerful follow-up episode of 7 on Sundays, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye welcome back Garrett, a college junior, for part two of their candid conversation. This time, they dive deep into the topic of performative sex, the impact of pornography, and the crucial role empathy plays in healthy sexual relationships. Garrett courageously shares a personal experience that highlights the importance of ongoing consent, emotional awareness, and authentic communication during intimacy. Together, the trio debunks myths around sexual expectations and challenges listeners to rethink what it...

info_outline
Porn Myths, Mental Health, & Relationships: A College Guy's Perspective - Garrett's Story show art Porn Myths, Mental Health, & Relationships: A College Guy's Perspective - Garrett's Story

7 On Sundays™

In this raw and powerful conversation, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye sit down with Garrett, a college junior from Texas, to explore the complicated intersection of performative sex, pornography, consent, and masculinity. Through personal stories and reflective insights, Garrett opens up about how cultural narratives have shaped his sexual experiences and emotional awareness. This is the first part of a two-part series that sheds light on topics rarely discussed openly among young men. Topics Discussed ●      What is "performative sex" and how porn and pop...

info_outline
The Real Signs of Depression You Might Be Missing —Part 2 With Betsy Stephenson Author of Blackbird show art The Real Signs of Depression You Might Be Missing —Part 2 With Betsy Stephenson Author of Blackbird

7 On Sundays™

In this deeply moving continuation of their conversation, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye welcome back Betsy Stephenson, author of *Blackbird*, for Part 2 of her powerful interview. Together, they explore the hidden signs of depression, especially in young men, through the lens of Betsy's late son, Charlie. The conversation spans parental grief, early mental health interventions, the need for community conversations, and the urgent importance of creating supportive environments for young people. This episode is a raw, empathetic, and essential look at the complexities of depression, grief,...

info_outline
Healing After Loss of a Child to Suicide: From Grief to Grace (Part 1 with Betsy Stephenson Author of Blackbird) show art Healing After Loss of a Child to Suicide: From Grief to Grace (Part 1 with Betsy Stephenson Author of Blackbird)

7 On Sundays™

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye sit down with writer and advocate Betsy Stephenson, author of Blackbird: A Mother's Reflections on Grief, Loss, and Life After Suicide, for a deeply moving and heartfelt conversation. With vulnerability and strength, Betsy shares her personal journey through the unimaginable loss of her child to suicide and the ongoing process of healing after suicide loss. This is Part 1 of a two-part series offering insight into grief after the suicide of a child, the resilience of the human spirit, and the power of speaking...

info_outline
The Hidden Dangers of Binge Drinking & Nightlife Culture - Lily's Story show art The Hidden Dangers of Binge Drinking & Nightlife Culture - Lily's Story

7 On Sundays™

In this powerful episode of *7 on Sundays*, we sit down with Lily to discuss the challenges of post-college life, the dangers of binge drinking, and the journey to finding meaningful friendships and personal growth. Lily shares her deeply personal story of reckless nights, hard-won lessons, and the transformative power of faith and self-discovery. If you’ve ever felt lost, struggled with unhealthy friendships, or questioned your path forward, this conversation is for you.    Topics Discussed  ●      The struggles of transitioning from college to...

info_outline
Conflicted Feelings of Men on Sexual Strangulation -Thomas' Story show art Conflicted Feelings of Men on Sexual Strangulation -Thomas' Story

7 On Sundays™

Episode Overview In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby welcome Thomas, who bravely shares his deeply personal experience navigating a complex and challenging relationship. His story sheds light on the growing normalization of extreme sexual behaviors, the influence of pornography, the impact of past trauma, and the struggle to communicate boundaries in intimate relationships. This conversation explores the emotional and psychological effects of these experiences, offering insight into a topic that is rarely discussed from a male perspective.   Topics...

info_outline
Love Bombing, Gaslighting, and Breaking Free: Natasha’s Dating Story show art Love Bombing, Gaslighting, and Breaking Free: Natasha’s Dating Story

7 On Sundays™

Episode Overview In this episode of 7 On Sundays, Natasha shares her deeply personal experiences with toxic relationships and the lessons she learned along the way. Joined by Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, the conversation explores red flags in dating, narcissistic behaviors, love bombing, and the emotional toll of gaslighting. This candid discussion offers valuable insights for anyone navigating modern relationships, emphasizing self-worth, awareness, and healing.  Topics Discussed - Recognizing Love Bombing – How excessive flattery and grand gestures can be a red flag. -...

info_outline
Sororities, Social Pressure, and Finding Your Real Tribe -Everett's Story show art Sororities, Social Pressure, and Finding Your Real Tribe -Everett's Story

7 On Sundays™

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye welcome Danielle and Everett to discuss the complexities of friendships, particularly during college and young adulthood. They share their personal experiences navigating sorority life, forming meaningful connections, and the challenges of distinguishing genuine relationships from superficial ones. This candid conversation dives into the importance of authenticity, the evolution of friendships, and lessons learned through trials and triumphs. Topics Discussed ●      The idealized expectations...

info_outline
The Truth About Sex Work, Advocacy, and Survival with Andrea Heinz show art The Truth About Sex Work, Advocacy, and Survival with Andrea Heinz

7 On Sundays™

In this impactful episode of "7 on Sundays," host Stephanie Boye engages in a deeply moving conversation with Andrea Heinz, Canadian author, advocate, and former sex worker. Andrea shares her personal journey through the commercial sex industry, her advocacy for the Nordic model, and the societal structures that perpetuate exploitation. This episode sheds light on the realities of sex work, the challenges of exiting the industry, and the urgent need for education and systemic change. TOPICS DISCUSSED ●      Andrea Heinz’s Background: From her entry into the sex...

info_outline
Sexual Strangulation: A Critical Conversation About The Myths, Realities and The Role of Porn -with Brian Bennett show art Sexual Strangulation: A Critical Conversation About The Myths, Realities and The Role of Porn -with Brian Bennett

7 On Sundays™

This week, we dive deep into the critical and under-discussed topic of non-fatal strangulation with expert Brian Bennett. A retired South Carolina law enforcement veteran and police academy instructor, Brian sheds light on the alarming realities of strangulation in domestic violence, sexual contexts, and beyond. Joined by Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, the conversation explores the physiological, psychological, and societal implications of strangulation, highlighting its role as a precursor to severe violence and the urgent need for awareness and intervention. Topics Discussed:...

info_outline
 
More Episodes

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye converse with Hannah, a sophomore at a large public university on the West Coast, about the challenges female students face when not involved in sorority life. The discussion delves into issues such as loneliness, the pressures of Greek life, non-consensual encounters at frat parties, and the broader hookup culture. Hannah shares personal experiences and advice on maintaining self-respect and authenticity despite peer and societal pressures. The episode emphasizes the importance of staying true to oneself, the power of saying 'no,' and the impact of media and pop culture on young adults. It concludes with a reminder that opting out of certain social activities is normal and that the show is not a substitute for professional mental health support.

 

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Introduction and Content Warning

01:15 Welcome to 7 on Sundays: Episode Overview

02:48 Hannah’s Story: Frat Party Experiences

05:49 Greek Life and Recruitment Stories

10:12 Fraternity Party Dynamics and Safety Concerns

25:55 Navigating Social Life Outside Greek Parties

30:34 Dealing with Peer Pressure

37:15 The Dangers of Party Culture

39:39 Personal Experience: Being Drugged

41:28 The Impact of Negative Experiences

43:24 Meeting a Healthy Relationship

45:18 Objectification and Sexualization

49:44 Shame and Body Image

59:17 Building Trust in Relationships

01:09:57 Advice for Younger Generations

01:13:19 Conclusion and Final Thoughts