What We Compromise For The Promise of Connection - Bonnie & Beth's Story
Release Date: 09/08/2024
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00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning
01:14 Episode Overview
02:22 Bonnie's Story: Seeking Connection
13:05 Beth's Story: Mixed Signals and Heartbreak
15:58 Self-Worth and Seeking Genuine Connection
21:17 Reflecting on Personal Needs and Desires
34:15 Realizing What You Want in a Relationship
36:05 The Importance of Self-Love and Self-Knowledge
37:43 The Power of Affirmations and Self-Respect
41:35 Empowered Statements and Personal Growth
47:35 Building Genuine Connections and Intimacy
54:15 Making Safe and Thoughtful Decisions
58:24 Closing Thoughts and Final Advice