Suicide and Silence: Men’s Unseen Battles on American Campuses
Release Date: 09/29/2024
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info_outlineIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby delve into pressing mental health issues affecting young men, featuring a candid conversation with 24-year-old college graduate Thomas. The discussion sheds light on the high rates of suicide among young adults, influenced by societal pressures, toxic masculinity, and hustle culture. Thomas recounts his personal struggles and losses, underscoring the urgency of open dialogues, group therapy, and strong support networks. The episode also explores the significance of retreats and character-building activities, advocating for practical strategies like employing therapists for fraternities. Overall, it emphasizes the need for creating environments where young men can comfortably seek help and find their purpose in early adulthood.
RESOURCES
988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Call or Text #988
Crisis Text Line text "TALK" to 741-741
SAMHSA Treatment Referral Hotline (substance abuse)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Timestamps
00:00 Trigger Warning
00:47 Hosts Introduction and Episode Overview
01:54 Discussing Suicide and Mental Health Statistics
06:08 The Danger of Hustle Culture
09:16 Thomas’s Personal Experience with Suicide
15:47 Emotional Impact and Coping Mechanisms
26:41 Toxic Masculinity and Hustle Culture
39:32 Exploring New Interests
41:09 Parental Concerns and Support
41:29 Pursuing Passion Despite Practicality
42:15 Mental Health and Expectations
43:21 The Loneliness Epidemic Among Men
45:36 Superficiality and Genuine Connections
48:52 Recognizing Red Flags in Mental Health
53:22 The Importance of Deep Conversations
01:01:58 Proposed Solutions for Mental Health Support
01:14:39 Final Thoughts and Future Plans