Exploring the Dangers of Sexual Choking, Consent & Porn Culture - Joy's Story
Release Date: 05/25/2025
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info_outlineFormer guest Joy returns to discuss sexual choking, porn culture, risks, consent, and why this dangerous trend demands honest conversations.
Sexual choking is one of the most dangerous sexual practices—yet it’s increasingly normalized through porn and hookup culture.
In this powerful episode of 7 On Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye sit down with returning guest Joyto unpack the risks, consent issues, and cultural myths surrounding sexual choking.
Together, they discuss:
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The hidden dangers and potentially deadly consequences of sexual choking
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How porn culture normalizes violent sexual scripts
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Why clear communication, boundaries, and enthusiastic consent are essential
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Joy’s raw personal experiences and the emotional aftermath
This candid conversation empowers listeners to think critically about sexual safety, consent, and healthy intimacy—and challenges the cultural silence around practices that put lives at risk.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning
00:48 Hosts Introduction and Episode Overview
01:30 Guest Introduction and Topic Revisit
04:02 Understanding Sensual vs. Aggressive Choking
06:07 Boundaries and Communication During Intimate Moments
08:42 Normalization of Aggressive Sexual Behaviors
17:22 Conversations About Aggressive Sexual Practices
21:26 Advice for Young People and Parents
34:11 The Importance of Clear Communication
35:28 Developing Trust in Relationships
43:27 The Role of Safety in Intimacy
49:42 Final Thoughts and Reflections