Growing Up Conservative: Porn, Shame & Sexual Discovery – Parker’s Story (Part 1)
Release Date: 08/24/2025
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info_outlinePornography addiction, shame, and conservative cultural expectations collide in this powerful episode of 7 On Sundays. Hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby sit down with Parker, who bravely shares her journey of growing up in a conservative household while secretly struggling with porn addiction and questions of self-worth.
Parker reflects on how early media exposure, rigid values, and silence around sexuality shaped her sexual development and emotional health. From the shame of hidden habits to the courage of speaking out, Parker’s story sheds light on the struggles many young people face but rarely talk about.
Listeners will gain insight into:
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How conservative teachings and shame impact sexual development
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The cycle of pornography addiction and self-esteem struggles
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The importance of vulnerability and conversation in healing
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Hope for anyone navigating secrecy, porn, and relationships
This episode is a must-listen for parents, educators, and young adults seeking honest dialogue about porn addiction, shame, and the journey to reclaim self-worth.
RESOURCES:
The Porn Myth: Wendy and Larry Maltz
Timestamps
00:00 Trigger Warning
00:17 Coming Up In This Episode
01:15 Welcome to 7 On Sundays
02:02 Early Exposure to Media
03:16 Discovering Pornography
04:33 Struggles with Guilt and Shame
05:15 First Orgasm Experience
08:22 Confession to Mom
15:18 Impact on Self-Esteem
29:04 First Relationship and Parental Disapproval
31:55 Ongoing Struggles with Pornography
34:00 Masturbation Without Pornography
36:03 The Impact of Pornography on the Mind
36:26 Debunking Myths About Male and Female Arousal
37:53 Personal Experiences and Emotional Numbness
39:47 Struggles with Confidence and Performance
42:41 Therapy and the Path to Recovery
43:31 The Role of Communication in Relationships
53:07 Understanding Sexual Pleasure and Misconceptions
56:17 Navigating Relationships and Self-Worth
01:04:07 Concluding Thoughts and Future Conversations
01:05:48 Wrap Up
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