209. New Year, New Intentions – Finding Your Family’s Focus for 2025
Family Brand: Take Back Your Family
Release Date: 01/24/2025
Family Brand: Take Back Your Family
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info_outlineHey Family Brand! It’s Chris and Melissa here, and we’re coming to you from our brand-new house, fresh into 2025! This episode feels extra special because it’s the first one we’re recording in our new home, and we’re sharing how our family has been setting the tone for the new year. Whether you’re someone who loves creating goals and vision boards or you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, this episode will inspire you to pause, reflect, and bring intentionality into your family’s new year.
We’re diving into our favorite end-of-year traditions, like reflecting on what went well in 2024 and what we want to improve for 2025. Chris shares how our family fills out reflection worksheets individually before coming together to talk about what we want to focus on as a group. It’s been such a powerful practice for us to not only grow as individuals but also strengthen our family culture.
One of the big highlights of this year’s reflection process was choosing our family word for 2025: Peace. We explain how we arrived at that theme by gathering input from our kids and reflecting on the areas where we felt the most opportunity for growth—creating more order in our home, being kinder to one another, and fostering a calm, joyful environment. We even share how our kids come up with fun actions to reinforce our family values each day, making the process memorable and engaging.
We also talk about our personal words for the year. Melissa’s word, Maker, is all about being intentional in every area of life—from homemaking to fun-making. Chris’s word, Fearless, challenges him to lean into fear and use it as a guide to pursue growth. These words help us approach the year with clarity and focus, and they’re a constant reminder of what matters most.
Lastly, we touch on the importance of sustaining these intentions beyond the initial excitement of the new year. From creating visual cues like phone backgrounds to saying our family values together every morning, we share practical tips to keep your family’s goals front and center. And don’t worry—it’s not about perfection. It’s about progress, connection, and moving forward together.
Let us know your family’s word or theme for 2025—we’d love to hear how you’re starting the year with intention. You can grab our free reflection guide and start creating your best year yet at familybrand.com/best. Cheers to a fresh start!
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- 0:00 – Kicking off 2025 in our new home
- 3:00 – Reflecting on the past year and planning for the next
- 7:30 – How we chose our family word for 2025: Peace
- 12:00 – Melissa and Chris’s personal words and how they shape the year
- 17:00 – Simple ways to stay intentional all year long
- 20:00 – How to create a meaningful start to the year for your family