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What Exactly Is Critical Thinking And Are You Doing Enough?

Imperfect Mens Club

Release Date: 06/04/2024

Where Our Belief Systems Come From show art Where Our Belief Systems Come From

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Mark introduces the episode about belief systems in the context of the fires in Southern California Remember…Jim is a California native still living in the Bay Area and Mark has lived in Florida since 1990 Two very different perspectives and responses to natural disasters! Jim says it’s personal because he has friends and family in the fire zone He brings in our tag line and framework. He says we’ll try and find some good in all of it. He cites our 5 areas with focus on worldview Jim share some of his preparation for the episode. He asks Mark to read the definition of “belief...

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The Post Election Paradigm Shift show art The Post Election Paradigm Shift

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Mark introduces Episode 1 of Season 4 with the topic of a paradigm shift. A shift in the way the country is moving with the election of Donald Trump and the push back against “woke” Jim introduces the wheel and worldview as a likely connection to the topic. He believes the shift is well on it’s way and we can see and hear evidence of it as more people open up post election Jim has some examples and topics he wants to discuss The first one is COVID What did covid change - communication Second is BLM/DEI. Neither were sustainable Third is The 2024 election 4th is Artificial Intelligence...

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AI...What The Hell Do We Know? show art AI...What The Hell Do We Know?

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We recorded this Dec 23, 2024. We decided to sneak one in during Christmas week and when we connected for the pre game, neither of us had any ideas about what might make a good topic Then we shared a couple of real "what just happened" stories and AI was a common theme. So we decided to share our genius I didn't edit or listen to this episode for the first time in 3 years. I think it'll be good Learn how to make fun of yourself and recognize how little you know Mark & Jim

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Planning For What's Next - What Would Jim Rohn Do? show art Planning For What's Next - What Would Jim Rohn Do?

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Hey all. We began with a New Years, year-end, goal setting theme within the context of some JIm Rohn quotes What we ended up with is an in depth reflection on Jim Rohn's wisdom and how much of it might be very helpful as we plan for what's next ---------------- Mark leads with year-end, new year and goal setting as topics. The context is the wisdom of Jim Rohn. Our Jim loves Rohn and brought some quotes as foundations for our episode Jim says it’s the past, present and future approach He reflects on being in sales and the goal setting and metrics of sales Jim shares his opinion of Jim Rohn...

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Know Thyself - The Magic Of Self Awareness show art Know Thyself - The Magic Of Self Awareness

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Mark introduces the topic of self awareness. He shares that their “pregame” discussion was very self reflective. He suggests that the time of year, as well as some other personal events from Jim’s life and Mark’s have the guys a bit mired in self reflection and self awareness Mark reads a couple of quotes Jim brought to the recording. One secular (Stoic) and one Biblical (Thomas) Jim shares some context for his quotes and shares his position on self awareness and what’s going on in his life Jim reflects on yesterday being the 5 year anniversary of his father’s death. He says to...

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The Holidays -  More People More Problems show art The Holidays - More People More Problems

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Mark introduces the episode and frames it around the holidays, the challenges therein and the notion that “the more people the more problems” Jim says the topic is timely and he connects it to our flywheel of life…all starting with the self. He shares his opinion on the more people topic and heightened emotions Mark adds New Years and all the prep before the holidays. He cites the pressure the woman are under Jim laughs about being through 50 of these. He says it means more, the younger you are…we’ve seen this movie Mark talks about the evolution from childhood to present holiday...

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Life Is One Big 80/20 Rule show art Life Is One Big 80/20 Rule

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Mark introduces the episode with some context about where today's topic came from Jim had a speech to give last week and on the drive he teed up our last episode about writng a letter to your 21 year old self In that episode we mentioned the 80/20 rule, aka, The Pareto Principle He talked about how he wove it into his speech and how it resonate with the audience Then the guys broke down the history of the rule and how universal it's application became over time Both guys gave examples of it in their lives with an emphasis on work/business/productivity Then Jim went over the multitude of other...

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A Letter To Your 21 Year Old Self show art A Letter To Your 21 Year Old Self

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Mark introduces the episode and reflects on the “pregame” discussion with Jim. Jim is giving a speech in a few days to a group or around 60 to 80 college students at San Jose State in the dept of Design and construction and he wants to give them career advice and life advice to help them with the transition from school to life Jim brings the wheel into play and shares some context for his upcoming talk. Who the audience is and the topics to be discussed Jim expands upon the idea of the letter he recommends students write or could write to be read later in life Jim starts to talk about the...

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The Election - What Happened And What Do We Do Now? show art The Election - What Happened And What Do We Do Now?

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Mark starts off introducing the topic which revolves around the presidential election of 2024. What do we do now? Jim and Mark are more interested in addresing what actually happened, why it may have happened and what we might expect to happen next What do we do now? We went back and forth about the blue team and red team. No judgement It's not what happens to you, it's how you respond... We talked about elitism and messaging. How the blue team continued the division and condescension We discussed how diverse the turnout was from the red team (ironically) We left on an optimistic note. The...

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How Simple Words Can Influence Effective Persuasion show art How Simple Words Can Influence Effective Persuasion

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Mark introduces the topic of communication and within that general topic, the subtopic of persuasion. He then emphasizes the value of having a framework. He puts our framework in perspective Jim chimes in about the idea of having a framework and emphasizes the IMC framework Jim shares his 5 W’s framework and how helpful it has been for him in a variety of projects. How it adds perspective for both parties He shares the value of effective people being clear Jim asks Mark about his framework Mark shares his childhood influences around communication and then his framework What do you say? How...

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Mark introduces episode 52 to finish off season 2!

A milestone for the guys. Trying to get the message out to more people

Today’s topic is critical thinking.   Mark says we’re lacking in critical thinking as a result of a lack of self awareness

Mark reads the definition from Wikipedia. He likes the one term “unbiased”

Jim jumps in with our flywheel and the 5 areas of life on it

Jim brings up Trump’s convictions

Jim says there aren’t many real critical thinkers and we don’t teach that skill. He suggests that being dyslexic makes him think critical

Mark gives his dad credit for telling him to question everything and Jim calls it a gift

The guys both believe you can respect processes and rules and laws and still question everything

Mark brings up science and climate change - nothing has been decided. Science is discovery

Jim says critical thinking makes us better as people - Our goal for IMC - help people get better

Jim shares his infographic about the factors that go into critical thinking

 

Research

Listening

Explanation

Flexibility

Fairness

Objectivity

Evaluation

Analysis

 

Mark identifies the major differences between critical and non critical thinking. He says listening is perhaps the most important of them all

Jim looks for win/win outcomes. What does success look like?

Marks cites the meaning of words and how we bastardize the language and words

Mark says biases are normal but we can put them aside and remain open to learning something new

Jim likes to approach new conversations with “what can I learn?”

Mark says it virtually impossible to know everything about any topic, so flexibility is important

Both guys are a bit mixed on the word “fairness”. What does it mean and who determines what’s fair. Mark says fairness is the journey but not the destination

Jim expresses his distaste for DEI. Mark agrees and thinks it’s going away

Both guys talk about sports in regard to DEI.  Jim tells a story about a big conference he attended last week. He loved the conference but didn’t like all the groups people were divided into. Why do we have to separate people into groups?  It’s the opposite of inclusive. The worst of elitism.

Mark brings up victimhood. You can’t think critically if you play victim

Mark brings up Pride month and how stupid it is

Jim brings up “the first” and how it should be the best…the first is unnecessary

Mark claims that critical thinking starts all the other dominoes falling. It fixes everything over time

Jim asks if Mark believes people are “Objective”?  He says no, but can continuously move back to objectivity. It’s a journey

Jim quotes - To get what you want, give people what they want. You don’t need to get what you want by taking from someone

Mark tells and Dennis Prager tale about marriage and arguments. He says bringing generosity to conversations is effective

Sports come up again and both guys share reflections on winning and losing and how you look at things. How you respond to them. Jim talks rugby

Mark bundles analysis, research and evaluation together. Jim separates them out

Mark says it’s fine to have an opinion…as long as you claim it as such…not a fact…how I feel

Jim says “throw some math at it”

Jim brings up the data/math on black men being killed by white police officers. There is no math to support it. We often decide how we feel and see out numbers to support our opinions

Mark says we need more context and less speculation. He also brings up climate change and “river to the sea”. Do your homework

Jim. mentions the suicide rate of men and the isolation of young men. It’s our mission to help men talk about these difficult things

Mark challenges the audience to a debate

Jim cites the value of facts, data and math. He cites neurodiversity rates in incarcerated men

Mark says there are too many facts used that aren’t actually facts

Mark says the media values being first over being right. He talks about charts and duration and timelines. Timing

They wrap with how do you remain respectful and question everything

The topic remains open