Why 2025 Could Be the Most Consequential Year of Our Lifetime
Release Date: 10/30/2025
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In this episode, Mark and Jim zoom out to the worldview arena of the Imperfect Men’s Club framework and connect four generations, American innovation, AI, capitalism, and historical cycles into one big through-line. The jumping-off point is Jim’s recent trip with his 85-year-old mom to meet his new granddaughter. That experience, paired with a talk he watched about 2025 being a “tipping point year,” sparked a conversation about why history really does repeat itself in 25- and 80-year patterns, how America’s unique mix of freedom and capitalism unlocks innovation, and why the next few years will require men to be grounded, informed and responsible.
This isn’t doom-and-gloom. It’s perspective. The guys make the case that things have always been chaotic, that technology has always disrupted, and that we tend to forget how good we actually have it. Which is kind of the point.
Where This Fits in the IMC Framework
This episode lives in the Worldview arena.
Because if you don’t understand the time you’re living in, you overreact to headlines, you forget history, and you parent/lead/plan from fear instead of wisdom.
What Sparked the Conversation
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Jim took his 85-year-old mom on a trip to meet her great-granddaughter.
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She hadn’t flown in a decade and was blown away by basic stuff we now take for granted (Uber, boarding passes on phones, QR codes).
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That experience lined up with a talk Jim watched arguing that 2025 is the single most pivotal year of our lifetime. (Credit: Peter Leyden-futurist)
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The guys tied it back to the IMC wheel and asked: “What time is it in history right now?”
Big Idea of the Episode
2025 is shaping up to be a societal tipping point because three technologies are scaling at the same time:
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AI (or as Jim calls it, “amplified intelligence”)
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Clean/renewable energy
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Bioengineering and amplified physical capability
When multiple technologies scale together, society doesn’t just “improve.” It transforms. That’s happened before. And it’s usually part of a 25-year burst that lives inside an 80-year cycle.
The 5 Arenas (quick recap from the episode)
Jim restates the IMC five arenas men are always operating in:
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Profession (what you do, how you create value)
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Relationships (spouse, kids, friends, brothers)
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Self (physical and mental health)
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Money (your relationship to it, usually inherited from childhood)
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Worldview (how you interpret what’s happening around you)
Today’s conversation is about that last one.
What the Guys Unpack
1. Why 2025 matters
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It’s not numerology.
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It’s that AI, energy and bioengineering are all hitting scale.
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That kind of convergence usually demands a “full societal transformation.”
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If you walked outside for the first time in 10 years, you’d barely recognize how life is actually transacted now (phones, ridesharing, digital IDs, everything on one device).
2. The 25-year pattern
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Jim cites the video explaining that major shifts have shown up every 25 years.
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2003–2022 was the “current age of technology” (mobile phones, social media, early AI).
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2025 is the next jump.
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You can nitpick whether it’s 24 or 26 years. That’s not the point. The point is: history isn’t random.
3. The 80-year cycle
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The guys go back to 1945–1970: the post-WWII boom.
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America poured money into infrastructure, education (GI Bill), and building a middle class.
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Taxes on the rich were high, patriotism was high, common cause was high.
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Then the 60s/70s brought civil rights, feminism, Vietnam, and the political reshuffling.
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Go back again and you see the same thing after the Civil War (1865–1890): massive innovation, railroads, land-grant universities, Homestead Act.
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Go back again and you land in the founding era (1787): the initial 80-year cycle when America moved away from feudalism to a people-driven system.
4. America’s role in innovation
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Jim makes the case: without the U.S. (and to a degree the West), a lot of this innovation doesn’t happen.
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Why? Freedom + capitalism + money flows where it’s wanted.
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You can’t centrally plan genuine demand.
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That’s why these periods attract immigrants, inventors, builders.
5. Technology always has a dark side
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Every big wave took advantage of somebody.
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Slavery.
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Irish labor.
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Chinese labor on the railroads.
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Child labor in the Industrial Revolution.
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Which is why labor unions emerged.
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Which is why Ford said, “I want my workers to be able to buy the car.”
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Which is why we got a functional middle class.
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Translation: whatever AI becomes, there will be a messy, exploitative phase.
6. Media vs history
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People who are worked up about “the world ending” are usually mainlining bad media.
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People who study history see that “there have always been problems.”
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Wars, depressions, volatile politics. None of it is new.
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Today might actually be the safest time to be alive.
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A healthy worldview requires historical literacy.
7. Generational imprinting
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Jim talks about how his mom (born around WWII) views money, risk and travel.
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Mark talks about his dad, born in 1928, 1 of 11 kids, poor, never owned a car.
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That Depression/WWII generation lived scarcity.
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That gets passed down.
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Your money issues often weren’t born with you. They were installed.
8. Politics without the labels
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Mark rants (accurately) that the labels don’t mean much anymore.
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Conservative, liberal, Democrat, Republican, independent. All pretty muddied.
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Victimhood, groupthink, and identity politics have blurred historical reality.
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Learning history helps you not fall for ideological cosplay.
9. The founders were young
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Mark points out something people forget.
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Jefferson, Hamilton, etc. were in their late 20s and early 30s when they wrote world-changing documents.
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That should embarrass all of us.
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It also highlights how much courage and clarity can exist early in life.
Key Takeaways
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History repeats. The pattern right now looks like we’re at the front of a major 25-year innovation burst that sits inside a bigger 80-year cycle.
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2025 might be the year everything tips because 3 technologies are scaling at once.
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If you don’t know history, you will misinterpret the present.
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America’s messy, market-driven model is still the best petri dish for innovation.
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Your worldview is shaped by when and where you grew up. You should probably examine that.
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Despite the noise, this is still a pretty good time to be alive.
Links/Asks Mentioned
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Mark asks listeners to rate and review the podcast on Apple to help expand the reach.
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Share with someone who’s freaking out about “the world today” and needs historical perspective.