#158: Parenting Adult Children: Is It Too Late to Restore Our Family?
Release Date: 06/04/2025
LOVE IS FEARLESS
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Joshua Gordon is a son, brother, husband to Sarah, dad to five children, lay pastor, author, and Senior Editor of . We're grateful that Joshua agreed to share a dad's response to the challenges of living in an economy of love. In our previous episode (#148), we challenged parents with these questions: If the kingdom of God is at hand, what's really changed in our homes? If the law is love now, what's different? If I trust the finished work of Jesus for my secure identity, how does that change my relationship with God? How does that change my relationship with myself? And with you? ...
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We explore:
- Why your peace is more important than your perfection
- How formation still happens—no matter how old your kids are
- The difference between carrying your child’s burden and becoming their safe place
- What it looks like to lead your family without fear—even in a season of disappointment, distance, or regret
Takeaways:
- Your family’s story isn’t finished. The Gospel doesn’t expire with age. Restoration is still possible—because transformation begins in you, not your circumstances.
- You can’t give what you haven’t received. When you abide in your identity as a beloved child of God, you stop asking your children to meet needs only the Father can fill.
- Peace is your starting point. True leadership isn’t about control or correction—it’s about being the safest, most truthful presence in the room.
- Trueface – The PATH A new book and discipleship resource helping people walk in truth, identity, and grace.
- Sarah Boyd – Turn Down the NoiseA beautiful book for helping children develop emotional resilience in an overstimulated world. Check out our practical and inspirational conversation with Sarah in episode #156-How to Raise Emotionally Healthy Kids in a Chronically Overstimulated World
- John 15 Academy Manifesto - A free invitation to rethink family through the lens of identity, grace, and formation.
- Practicing the Art of Being Family – eBook - A 3-part framework for restoring the lost art of being family—through atmosphere, discipline, and life.