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MFP 330: What Will Your Children Remember?

Messy Family Podcast : Catholic Conversations on Marriage and Family

Release Date: 04/28/2025

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“You’re not just parenting your children… you are parenting your grandchildren”

 

Summary

Have you ever walked through a thousand-year-old castle or along a wall built by Romans nearly a millennium ago? On a recent trip to the UK, we were struck by the longevity of these structures—and the intentionality behind them. They weren’t built to last a season, but centuries.

In this episode, we challenge you to think the same way about your family culture. Are you parenting just for today… or are you building something that will bless your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren?

Family culture is the invisible architecture of your home. It gives your children identity, belonging, and purpose. It's what lasts long after the rules and schedules fade. And if we build it with care, rooted in faith and virtue, it can be a source of strength for generations to come.

Key Takeaways

  • Parenting is more than just what is happening today.  We have to have a long term vision for our family

  • Your family culture matters more than ever.  This is where children learn who they are, where they belong, and what they are made for

  • If we want to build a legacy, we need to build with stone, not straw or wood.  Set up traditions that can be passed on to the next generation - things that are simple and repeatable. 

  • Consider the legacy that you have received from your family, culture, and especially from our Catholic faith.  

  • Legacy doesn’t happen by accident. It starts with small, intentional acts of love—right now.

Couple discussion

  1. Consider writing down some thoughts on the legacy you want to leave. 

  2. What’s one tradition, habit, or value you want to start building into your family this week that will move you closer to that legacy?