Show 1456: Beyond the Label: The Transformative Power of Diagnosis

Do you know someone who has struggled for years to meet deadlines or manage their time? Perhaps you have a smart friend who just never did well in school (or possibly at work) because they couldn’t seem to turn papers (or reports) in on time. Such people might find a diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity is a relief. Could it free them to find new and hopeful ways to cope with challenges? In this episode, we explore the transformative power of diagnosis.

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The Transformative Power of Diagnosis:

Our first interview on this topic is with psychiatrist Awais Aftab. Dr. Aftab has written about “the Rumpelstiltskin effect,” so we asked him to explain it to us (BJPsych Bulletin, Aug. 22, 2025).  He describes the relief and even therapeutic effect some people experience when their symptoms can be categorized by a diagnosis rather than as a character defect. This Rumpelstiltskin effect can be found in the folktales of a wide range of cultures as well as science fiction and fantasy. The idea that esoteric knowledge, even if it is only a name, can help offer a measure of control exemplifies the transformative power of diagnosis. The ritual of receiving a diagnosis may also give people relief from cognitive ambiguity.

Some people find that a clinical diagnosis offers validation of their lived experience. In addition, getting a diagnosis may give them an avenue to connecting with others whose experience may be similar. Supportive communities have grown up around the diagnoses of autism spectrum disorder or Asberger’s syndrome. Dr. Aftab views the transformative power of diagnosis alone, regardless of any treatment available, as similar to the power of placebo.

Potential Downsides of a Diagnosis:

Just as a placebo may relieve symptoms and also cause side effects, the transformative power of a diagnosis may sometimes work against a person. If the patient getting the diagnosis finds that it helps clarify new steps toward managing his or her discomfort, it is a benefit. But if instead it becomes an invitation to succumb to symptoms, then it could be harmful. Stepping into the sick role can become maladaptive.

A Second View:

We discussed this idea with another psychiatrist, Dr. Robert Waldinger. He pointed out that a person’s previous experience and their family’s expectations could have a significant impact on whether the transformative power of diagnosis works for good or for ill. One example might be hypertension. One person receiving that diagnosis might remember that his father had hypertension and took his blood pressure medicine conscientiously and lived to a ripe old age. Another person might get the same diagnosis and freak out because a grandfather with hypertension died of a stroke.

Helping People Manage without a Diagnosis:

When life is hard, people may become anxious or despondent without a clinical mental disorder. They still need support. How can we help people talk about their uncomfortable feelings? Even mental health professionals may need practice to feel comfortable actually talking about a person’s authentic feelings. They may be frightened that the person will reveal despair that they don’t know how to alleviate.

Dr. Waldinger reminds us that we don’t have to fix another person’s feelings, but truly listening can itself help. Authentic communication is the heart of connection. As with the transformative power of diagnosis, simply being heard and acknowledged may make a person feel better. Dr. Waldinger is fond of this quote: “Attention is the most basic form of love.” Relationships can help us in hard times. They also bring us joy.

We also remind listeners of the crisis hotline 988 for those who are considering suicide.

This Week's Guests:

M. Awais Aftab, MD is a Clinical Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Case Western Reserve University.
Psychiatry at the Margins is Dr. Aftab’s Substack newsletter about exploring critical, philosophical, and scientific debates in psychiatric practice and the scientific study of psychology.

[caption id="attachment_138067" align="alignnone" width="768"] Dr. Awais Aftab, Case Western Reserve University[/caption]

Robert Waldinger, MD, is a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development at Massachusetts General Hospital, and cofounder of the Lifespan Research Foundation. Along with being a practicing psychiatrist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Waldinger is also a Zen master (Roshi) and teaches meditation in New England and around the world. Dr. Waldinger, with co-author Marc Schulz, PhD, is the author of The Good Life: Lessons From the World’s Longest Scientific Study on Happiness.

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[caption id="attachment_125867" align="alignnone" width="768"] Robert Waldinger, MD, author of The Good Life[/caption]

Listen to the Podcast:

The podcast of this program will be available Monday, Dec. 22, 2025, after broadcast on Dec. 20. You can stream the show from this site and download the podcast for free. In this week’s episode, Joe describes his experience with aphantasia and his relief at discovering there is a name for it.

In the podcast, Dr. Waldinger discusses gratitude and how we can cultivate it, when it seems so easy to fall back on anger. One approach is the subtraction idea: we may feel irritated with our partner because of the way they load the dishwasher. But when we imagine what it would be like without them, we can experience gratitude that they are in our lives. We also consider the pain of estrangement and the difficulty of rebuilding relationships. Dr. Waldinger shares his personal story of estrangement and how it feels to make peace at last.