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What To Do In The Witness Box: Moving from fear to confidence for a Family Law Court Trial

The Divorce Course Podcast

Release Date: 06/11/2024

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Having to go into a witness box? About to go to a family court trial or a family violence hearing? Are you feeling anxious about stepping into the witness box? In this episode, we offer invaluable guidance on how to navigate this daunting experience. Whether you're involved in family law  court proceedings or dealing with family violence or domestic violence trial, this episode provides ten essential tips to help you stay calm and composed. DOWNLOAD OUR PRINTABLE WITNESS BOX TIP SHEET FROM our website www.thedivorcecourse.com.au go to the free resources tab.

From understanding the importance of honesty to managing your emotions to the rules of the witness box, Laura and Lynette share practical education to ensure you present your best self in court. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Listen to This Episode If You:

  • 🌟 Are preparing to testify in family law court or domestic violence court.

  • ❓ Want to know how to handle cross-examination.

  • 💡 Need strategies to stay calm and collected while giving evidence.

  • 🛡 Are looking for ways to effectively communicate your side of the story.

  • 📚 Seek tips on how to present yourself and interact with the judge and lawyers.

  • 📝 Want to understand courtroom etiquette and procedures.

Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode:

  • 📘 The importance of telling the truth and being honest in court.

  • 👂 Listening carefully to questions and asking for clarification when needed.

  • 🛑 Avoiding speculation and being truthful if you don't know the answer.

  • ⏱ Taking your time to think before answering questions.

  • 🎭 Maintaining respect and composure in the courtroom.

  • 💧 Strategies for managing emotions and asking for breaks if necessary.

  • 📑 Understanding who is in the courtroom and what their roles are.

  • 🤝 The role of your lawyer and how they can support you during testimony.

  • ⚖ How barristers structure their questioning to build their case.

  • 📝 Tips on avoiding giving lengthy answers that could complicate your testimony.

 

 

Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast:

Emergency Contacts:

  • WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE

  • LEGAL AID

  • Lifeline: 13 11 14

  • Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978

  • Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800

  • Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123

  • Relationships Australia

  • Police: 000

  • DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week)

  • DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636

  • National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)

 

 

Thank you for tuning in to this essential episode on navigating the witness box. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources and support systems available to help you through this challenging time. If you found this podcast helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Your feedback helps others find the support they need. Stay strong and take care.

Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. This is just one lawyer's opinion of the family court's views in Australia. Do not base your case on anything mentioned in this episode unless it is first discussed and approved by your personal lawyer. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different. By listening to this show, you are agreeing that it and the company that runs it are not liable for the outcome of your case.

 

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