Separation to Settlement: The Essential Steps from Start to Finish
Release Date: 11/18/2024
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info_outlineFacing the journey from separation to settlement can feel overwhelming and uncertain, but you’re not alone. In this episode, Laura and Lynette take you through the seven essential stages of the divorce process, from making the initial decision to separate, all the way to moving forward after your settlement. They share practical tips, emotional insights, and legal education to help you make empowered choices at every step. Whether you're at the beginning of this journey or somewhere in the middle, this episode offers a roadmap to guide you through.
Listen to This Episode If You:
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🌟 Are just starting your divorce journey and don’t know what comes next.
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❓ Need help understanding the steps from separation to settlement.
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💡 Want tips on managing property settlements, parenting plans, and legal agreements.
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🛡 Are facing challenges with a high-conflict or manipulative ex.
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📚 Want to learn how to move forward emotionally and financially after the settlement is done.
Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode:
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Deciding to Separate: Understanding the importance of making the decision and how to document it for legal purposes.
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Living Under One Roof: Strategies for managing separation when you’re still sharing a home due to financial or housing constraints.
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Understanding Your Legal Rights: Why seeking legal education or advice early is critical to protect yourself.
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Property and Financial Settlements: The steps involved in dividing assets, debts, and managing disclosure obligations.
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Parenting Plans and Agreements: How to create effective parenting arrangements that prioritise the best interests of your children.
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Finalising Legal Documents: What you need to know about consent orders, mediation, and navigating the court system if necessary.
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Moving Forward After Divorce: Tips for reclaiming your independence, managing finances, and building a new life.
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Course Enrolment:
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Join our Divorce Blueprint Course www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol before the deadline to get personalised guidance, legal education, and emotional support from Laura and Lynette. Platinum spots are limited—sign up now to secure your place.
Emergency Contacts:
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LEGAL AID https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/
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Lifeline: 13 11 14
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Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800
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Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123
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Relationships Australia 1300 364 277
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Police: 000
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DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week)
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DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636
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National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)
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Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978
Thank you for tuning in to this episode. We hope it gives you clarity and confidence to take the next steps in your journey. Don’t forget to check out our course for step-by-step guidance and support through every stage of your divorce. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Stay strong, and remember—you’ve got this.
Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, and it’s important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your circumstances.
00:00 Introduction to the 7 Steps from Separation to Settlement
01:34 How to Make the Decision to Separate
03:36 Can you Be Separated Under One Roof in Divorce
06:51 How to find out Your Legal Rights and Obligations in Divorce
10:46 How to Divide Assets, Property, and Debt in Divorce
14:44 How to Create Parenting Plans and Arrangements
19:24 How to Navigate Legal Paperwork and Mediation in Divorce
20:57 How to learn about Divorce Applications and Time Limits
22:35 How to avoid the Emotional Rollercoaster of Divorce
23:48 How to get Empowerment Through Knowledge and Support in Divorce
27:28 How to Move Forward After Divorce
33:29 How to Join Our Supportive Divorce Community