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TLP495: The Accountability Paradox

The Leadership Podcast

Release Date: 01/21/2026

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Patrick Veroneau is CEO of Emery Leadership Group and author of The Leadership Bridge: How to engage your employees and drive organizational excellence and The Missing Piece: What Great Teams Do That Others Overlook. 

In this episode, Patrick explains why organizations' increasing focus on accountability systems over the past five years has coincided with employee engagement hitting a 10-year low. 

He reveals the accountability paradox: the harder you push for accountability, the further you get from ownership. 

Patrick discusses why leaders fall short in closing the gap between intention and impact—we intellectually understand leadership concepts, but fail to apply them consistently. 

Patrick explains the sequence that moves teams from compliance to genuine commitment (support → celebrate → own), reveals the invisible habit great teams practice (recognizing progress along the journey, not just outcomes).

If you're tired of accountability systems that aren't working and want to build real ownership on your team, this episode will change how you lead.

 

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Key Takeaways

[02:57] Patrick said growing up in a large family made him more intuitive because he was always around older people having adult conversations.

[04:43] Patrick explained that leaders fall short because they intellectually understand concepts but don't apply them consistently or model the behaviors they expect.

[06:58] Patrick shared that social exclusion triggers the same brain response as physical pain, and unexpected recognition spikes dopamine while unrecognized effort decreases it.

[11:47] Patrick revealed the accountability paradox: average teams focus on accountability first, but great teams support and celebrate first to create ownership.

[14:25] Patrick shared Stephen Covey's insight that leaders need to trust other people first, not wait for others to trust them.

[17:32] Patrick said the invisible habit of great teams is celebrating progress along the way, not just the final outcome.

[21:34] Patrick said companies that aren't flexible on remote work will be at a disadvantage, but connection must be intentional and meaningful.

[26:49] Patrick shared that Rear Admiral Cutler Dawson's success came from "walking the deck plates"—connecting with people at all levels, not his authority.

[33:24] And remember...“Leadership is not about a title or a designation. It's about impact, influence and inspiration. Impact involves getting results, influence is about spreading the passion you have for your work, and you have to inspire teammates and customers.” - Robin S. Sharma

 

Quotable Quotes

"Don't settle for accountability. It's the low bar. Shoot for ownership." 

"To be on a great team, you have to first commit to being a great teammate." 

"Average organizations focus on accountability first. Great teams support and celebrate first, then create ownership." 

"We need to trust other people first. You need to give before you get." 

"When people feel they should be recognized and aren't, their dopamine levels go down. That's what we experience as disengagement." 

"Accountability is included in ownership. But not the reverse." 

"Humility is the circuit breaker on overconfidence." 

"Walking the deck plates—connecting with people at all levels. We've overcomplicated what it means to lead." 

"If you don't commit first to being a great teammate, you absolutely won't be part of a great team because you're the weakest link." 

"Look for work, look for stuff to do, look where you can help."

 

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