The Power of the Enneagram, Softness, and Transformation with Tracy O’Malley
Release Date: 12/12/2024
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info_outlineRebecca sits down with Enneagram expert and transformation coach Tracy O’Malley for a raw and inspiring conversation about breaking generational cycles, the power of softness, and the profound impact of self-discovery. Tracy opens up about her personal journey of healing, including pivotal moments as a mother, navigating her "tough girl" era, and stepping into the liberating power of vulnerability.
Whether you're new to the Enneagram or already familiar with its insights, this episode will empower you to become the best version of yourself.
If you've ever wondered how to embrace your softness without losing your strength—or how to heal yourself to transform your family and future generations—this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✨ The Real Meaning of Strength: Why true power lies in softness, vulnerability, and receiving support—and why it’s so hard for some of us to embrace.
✨ Breaking Generational Cycles: Tracy’s journey from a corporate warrior to a compassionate guide for her children and how she repaired relationships along the way.
✨ Enneagram Insights for Growth: A deep dive into the nine Enneagram types, including how each type navigates softness vs. toughness and where growth happens.
✨ Healing as a Mother: Tracy’s emotional revelations about raising her children while healing her inner child—and why it’s never too late to make changes.
✨ Tools for Self-Discovery: How to use the Enneagram to enhance relationships, parenting, leadership, and personal growth.
✨ Soft Girl Era Meets Warrior Spirit: Tracy’s "soft girl era," balancing femininity and strength while still being ready to fight when needed.
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