The Truth About Visibility: Why You Must Show Up Before You Feel Ready
Release Date: 06/29/2025
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info_outlineIn this solo episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it takes to feel visible and confident—before you think you’re “ready.”
Over the years, I’ve seen so many brilliant women (including myself!) get stuck in comparison, perfectionism, and impostor syndrome. Today, I’m sharing the mindset shifts and tactical tools that have helped me—and my clients—step into the spotlight with more ease, clarity, and purpose.
From my 3-part framework for defining your unique expertise to actionable tips for pitching yourself, this episode is your reminder that you don’t have to wait for permission. You can start showing up now, exactly as you are.
What I Cover in This Episode:
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Why the myth of “feeling ready” keeps you stuck (and what actually creates readiness)
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The most common visibility blocks (hello, comparison-itis and “info-crastination”)
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My Unique Expert Experience Framework to define what makes you magnetic
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How to pitch yourself for opportunities instead of waiting to be discovered
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The difference between tactical tweaks and real energetic alignment
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Ways to update your self-vision as you evolve into the next version of yourself
Quotes from the Episode:
“Visibility doesn’t start with the pitch. It starts with believing you have something worth sharing.”
“You don’t become visible once you’re ready. You become ready by being visible.”
“You are not competing with anyone else. You’re magnetic. You’re becoming whoever you’re meant to be.”
Tools + Resources I Mention:
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My 4-in-1 Pitch Template
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Pitch Club (my DIY PR program)
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Entrepreneur Magazine (shoutout to Jason Feifer)
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Canva + social media templates
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Enneagram (for deeper self-awareness)
Action Steps & Takeaways:
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Stop waiting for the perfect moment—start showing up today
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Map your unique expertise by combining lived experience, education, and passions
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Notice when you’re in comparison or perfectionism and choose imperfect action instead
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Proactively pitch yourself instead of hoping to be “discovered”
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Keep updating your self-vision as you grow and evolve
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