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Becoming You Podcast
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The Truth About Visibility: Why You Must Show Up Before You Feel Ready
Becoming You Podcast
In this solo episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it takes to feel visible and confident—before you think you’re “ready.” Over the years, I’ve seen so many brilliant women (including myself!) get stuck in comparison, perfectionism, and impostor syndrome. Today, I’m sharing the mindset shifts and tactical tools that have helped me—and my clients—step into the spotlight with more ease, clarity, and purpose. From my 3-part framework for defining your unique expertise to actionable tips for pitching yourself, this episode is your reminder that you don’t have to...
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Higher Self Habits for Women Who Want More
Becoming You Podcast
In this empowering in-person conversation, Rebecca Cafiero is joined by habits expert, bestselling author, and former tech executive Alessia Citro to unpack the truth behind habit formation and how to build a life that actually supports the woman you’re becoming. Alessia shares her deeply personal journey from burnout and overachievement to the creation of her Higher Self Habits method, designed specifically for high-performing women craving alignment, energy, and meaning. Through science-backed insight and feminine wisdom, this episode reveals why rigid routines don’t work—and how to...
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Business Class Boundaries: How I Take 10 Weeks Off a Year Without Falling Behind
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Frameworks That Sell: Amanda Walker on Coaching Smarter
Becoming You Podcast
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SOLO EPISODE: Aligned AI - Tools I Use to Work Less and Live More
Becoming You Podcast
In this solo episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I’ve been using AI, not just in my business, but in every area of my life. Over the past two years, what started as a time-saver has evolved into something much deeper: a co-creator for my clarity, a mirror for my mindset, and a surprising partner in personal growth. From daily task planning and content creation to dream decoding and spiritual integration, I’m sharing how I use tools like ChatGPT, Riverside, Castmagic, and more to work less, live more, and stay deeply aligned. Whether you’re AI-curious or already a...
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Unblock Your Business: The Subconscious Work Behind Sales Success with Julie Costa
Becoming You Podcast
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the things in your business—but still hitting a wall—this conversation is your turning point. I sat down with my friend and subconscious reprogramming expert, Julie Costa, to dive into the real reasons why entrepreneurs get stuck (and why more strategy isn’t the answer). Julie is a master hypnotherapist, NLP trainer, and founder of the Anchored Certification—and she’s pulling back the curtain on the work that actually moves the needle: rewiring your subconscious. This episode is about mindset—but not in the cute, Instagram-quote kind of...
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Slower Living, Deeper Connection: What a Year in Carmel Has Taught Me
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One Year in Carmel: Alignment, Softness, and the Beauty of Slowing Down In this solo episode, Rebecca Cafiero takes us on a deeply personal journey through the first year of living in her “soul home”—the coastal village of Carmel-by-the-Sea. It’s not just a geographic move, but a soulful shift away from hustle and into harmony. From Silicon Valley speed to seaside stillness, Rebecca shares what it means to choose alignment over achievement, presence over productivity, and connection over chaos. This episode reflects motherhood, creativity, community, and the quiet power of trusting...
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Aging in Reverse: Flexibility, Strength, and Body Awareness for a Thriving Life
Becoming You Podcast
In this soul-meets-science conversation, I’m joined by the incredible Domini Anne - a movement specialist, anatomical artist, and walking embodiment of what it means to move through life with intention. From dissecting cadavers to dancing across continents, Domini's story is anything but ordinary—and neither is her approach to healing. We dive into how most people don’t hear their bodies until something breaks, and how to rewrite that narrative through proprioception, play, and presence. Domini’s innovative modality, Propriosynthesis, blends breath, vibration therapy, resistance,...
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Rediscovering Myself: How Burlesque Helped Me Reclaim My Body and Spark
Becoming You Podcast
I Didn’t Join Burlesque to Be Seen—I Did It to See Me What happens when you stop waiting for permission and finally pay attention to you? In this intimate, unfiltered solo episode, Rebecca takes you behind the curtain—literally—into her burlesque journey: not for applause, but for awakening. This isn’t about being sexy for someone else. This is about reclaiming your joy, your body, and your creativity—just because it lights you up. From a spark at her daughter’s dance recital to a rhinestoned C-3PO costume (yes, really), Rebecca shares how burlesque became the medicine she...
info_outlineIn this empowering in-person conversation, Rebecca Cafiero is joined by habits expert, bestselling author, and former tech executive Alessia Citro to unpack the truth behind habit formation and how to build a life that actually supports the woman you’re becoming.
Alessia shares her deeply personal journey from burnout and overachievement to the creation of her Higher Self Habits method, designed specifically for high-performing women craving alignment, energy, and meaning.
Through science-backed insight and feminine wisdom, this episode reveals why rigid routines don’t work—and how to design habits that do. If you’re ready to close the gap between who you are and who you know you’re meant to be, this episode is your roadmap.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
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How Alessia's personal burnout became the catalyst for redefining success
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Why habits are the “invisible architecture” of identity
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The ACTS method: Ambition, Capability, Trigger, Satisfaction
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How to sync your routines with your feminine energy cycles
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Real-world tips for eliminating friction and making success easier
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The surprising power of celebration, visualization, and community
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Why flexible routines create consistency (especially for moms!)
Notable Quotes:
“Habits are the invisible architecture of our lives.” – Alessia Citro
“If you cannot get yourself to do a behavior, ask yourself WTF: Where’s The Friction?” – Rebecca Cafiero
“Your identity should create your habits. Who are you identifying as, and are you acting as them?” – Alessia Citro
“You cannot read the label from inside the jar.” – Alessia Citro
Resources Mentioned:
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Alessia’s book: Higher Self Habits
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ACTS Framework (Ambition, Capability, Trigger, Satisfaction)
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Free Guides & Visualization Tools → alessiacitro.com/gift
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Atomic Habits, Tiny Habits, The Power of Habit, High Performance Habits
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Five Minute Journal, sauna blanket, Stanley Cup (habit stacking tools)
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Happier podcast by Gretchen Rubin
- The Balanced Blueprint: https://bit.ly/rebeccasbalanceblueprint
Action Steps for Listeners:
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Audit your current habits—are they aligned with the life you desire?
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Apply Alessia’s ACTS framework to build sustainable, joy-filled routines
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Give yourself permission to evolve with your natural energy rhythms
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Eliminate friction by preparing in advance and designing with intention
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Surround yourself with people who embody the habits you’re building