Healing After Betrayal: What Scamanda Taught Me About Forgiveness
Release Date: 02/06/2025
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info_outlineThis is one of the hardest, most personal episodes I’ve ever recorded. Last night, I watched my past unfold on national television—my experience with Scamanda, a decade-long betrayal that left me questioning everything. I thought I had healed, but the pain resurfaced, raw and unfiltered.
If you’ve ever been deceived, manipulated, or given from the depths of your heart only to be met with lies, this episode is for you. I share my journey through betrayal, anger, and grief, but also the profound lessons of generosity, healing, and ultimately, forgiveness.
Because healing isn’t linear. Forgiveness isn’t for them—it’s for us. And I refuse to let this pain define me.
Join me as I unpack the heartbreak, the lessons, and the steps I’m taking to truly let go.
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