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Nemawashi Is Gold When Selling In Japan

THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Release Date: 06/17/2025

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

You manage to get the appointment, which at the moment is seriously job well done.  Trying to get hold of clients, when everyone is working from home is currently a character building exercise.  You ask permission to ask questions.  Well done!  You are now in the top 1% pf salespeople in Japan.  You do ask your questions and quickly realise you have just what they need.  Bingo! We are going to do a deal here today, so you are getting pumped.  But you don’t do a deal, in fact you leave with nothing but your deflated ego and damaged confidence.  The...

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

Salespeople have sales tools which often are not thoroughly thought through enough.  These can be flyers, catalogues, slide decks, etc.  They can also be proposals, quotations and invoices.  Usually the salespeople are given the tools as they are and either don’t ask for improvements or don’t believe the marketing department has much interest in their ideas about the dark art of marketing.  Consequently, there are some areas for improvement which go begging. Flyers, catalogues and slide decks tend to be very evenly arranged.  Every page is basically presented in...

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

I hear some people say translating terms like “nemawashi” into English is difficult.  Really?  I always thought it was one of the easier ones.  Let's just call it “groundwork”.  In fact, that is a very accurate description ,from a number of different angles.  Japanese gardeners are superstars.  There is limited flat space in this country, so over centuries gardeners have worked out you need to move the trees you want, to where you want them.  They prefer this approach to just waiting thirty years for them to turn out the preferred way.  It is not...

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

There is no doubt that the pandemic has made it very fraught to find new clients in Japan.  The new variants of the virus are much more contagious and have already overwhelmed the hospital infrastructure in Osaka, in just weeks of the numbers taking off.  Vaccines are slow to roll out and so extension after extension of lockdowns and basic fear on both sides, makes popping around for chat with the client unlikely.  We forget how much we give up in terms of reading and expressing nuanced ideas through not having access to body language.  Yes, we can see each other on screen,...

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

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When we read commentary about how we should be recruiting A Players to boost our firm’s performance, this is a mirage for most of us running smaller sized companies.  If you are the size of a Google or a Facebook, with massively deep pockets, then having A Players everywhere is no issue.  The reality is A Players cost a bomb and so most of us can’t afford that type of talent luxury.  Instead we have to cut our cloth to suit our budgets.  We hire C Players and then we try to turn them into B Players.  Why not turn these B Players into A players? This is a...

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

If we try to hide the bad news for the buyer will that work?  How long with it work for?  Bernie Madoff died in prison, his wife left in a perilous state, one son dead from suicide and the other from cancer.  I call that family devastation.  He got away with his lies and cheating for quite a while.  He offered modest, but steady returns.  He told people he had no capacity to take their money, then rang them back at a later stage to say there was an opening.  They were grateful for the chance to give him their money.  The 2008 recession showed who was...

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THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan

The buyer is King.  This is a very common concept in modern Western economies.  We construct our service approach around this idea and try to keep elevating our engagement with royalty. After living in Japan for 36 years and selling to a broad range of industries, I have found in Japan, the buyer is not King. In Nippon the buyer is God. This difference unleashes a whole raft of difficulties and problems. My perspective is based on an amalgam of experiences over many decades and I am generalising of course. Not every buyer in Japan is the same, but those foreigners who know Japan will...

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I hear some people say translating terms like “nemawashi” into English is difficult.  Really?  I always thought it was one of the easier ones.  Let's just call it “groundwork”.  In fact, that is a very accurate description ,from a number of different angles.  Japanese gardeners are superstars.  There is limited flat space in this country, so over centuries gardeners have worked out you need to move the trees you want, to where you want them.  They prefer this approach to just waiting thirty years for them to turn out the preferred way.  It is not unusual today to see a huge tree on the back of a big truck ,being moved from one location to another and presto instant garden.  The roots of that massive tree will be wrapped up in cloth to protect them.  That wrapping process is called “nemawashi”.  In business, it means being well prepared for the business meeting – doing the ground work beforehand.

In a Western context being well prepared for the meeting will mean assembling all the data and analysis in order to make an impassioned plea for your idea or suggestion, to be accepted by the big bosses.  We all get to the meeting, listen to the different approaches and we make a decision in that meeting.  What could be more time efficient and logical?  They never do it that way in Japan.

Concepts of time efficiency differ for a start and throwing massive amounts of overtime at a problem is not problem in Japan.  The meeting is also a ceremony, because the decision has already been arrived at beforehand and the gathering is just to formalise the outcome.  This happens in the West too.  Whenever you see global leaders delivering their joint statements or signing agreements,  they didn’t arrive at the wording during the meeting. That was all worked out by their minions beforehand, over many hours of debate, negotiation and discussion.  The TV cameras just capture the big guys and gals inking the document, after all the “groundwork” has been completed.

I was talking with a Western businessman recently and he was relating how hard it was to get the team behind his ideas.  The issue was, he was trying to get it all agreed to, at the key meeting and hadn’t invested the time to do the groundwork.  What he needed to do was go to see all the key people, the influencers, the stakeholders with a vested interest and explain the idea. Get their input and agreement and then rinse and repeat with the rest of them.  By the time the meeting happens, everyone will recognise parts of their preferences and ideas in the submission.  Agreement flows easily in these cases.

In sales, we will probably not have direct access to all of the decision makers, influencers and stakeholders.  Our primary contact has to become our champion for sheparding the agreement through the internal nemawashi process.  Asking them directly who are these hidden decision makers is insulting.  It says, you are a nobody, but I still need your help.  We need to be more considerate of their “face” and ask in a way that enhances their face.

Once we have established the trust, have uncovered their needs, shown we can help and have dealt with any hesitations they may have, we are ready to marshal our forces for the final push through to a “yes” to the sale.  We explain, we understand that many people will be interested to know about this change in the delivery of product or services.  We also know that they will be tasked to explain it to others who cannot join our meetings.  We ask how can we help them?  This is a rhetorical question because we want to get into the detail of who are the players.  So we go straight into asking who do they think would have the most concern about the change and why they would be concerned?  We keep repeating this process until we have fleshed out the people who will have the most interest in saying “no”.  The next stage is to arm our champion with the tools to deal with the pushback.  We try to understand the concerns and then arrive at creative ways of overcoming those concerns. 

This is what we mean by nemawashi or ground work.  Is it time consuming – yes!  Do we have to invest the extra time – yes!  There is an internal  logic to the way decisions are made in Japan.  There is no point railing about how the Japanese business decision making process should be Westernised, so it is more familiar for us.  That is never going to happen, so we need to be better and more flexible to understand the system and then become a master of influence within it.  We need to become the nemawashi maestro!