"That Sounds Pricey"
THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan
Release Date: 07/22/2025
THE Sales Japan Series by Dale Carnegie Training Tokyo Japan
Most sales meetings go sideways because the seller is winging it, not guiding the buyer through a clear decision journey. In a competitive market with limited buyer time, you need a questioning structure that gets to needs fast, keeps control of the conversation, and leads naturally to a purchase decision—without sounding scripted. Do you actually need a sales questioning model, or can you just “follow the conversation”? You need a questioning model because buyers will pull the conversation in random directions and you still need to reach a purchase outcome. A lot of...
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Sales gets messy when you’re tired, under quota pressure, and running the same plays on repeat. Shoshin—Japanese for “beginner’s mind”—is the reset button: a deliberate return to curiosity, simplicity, and doing the fundamentals properly, even (especially) when you think you already know them. Is “beginner’s mind” actually useful in sales, or just motivational fluff? Yes—shoshin is a practical operating system for performance, not a vibe. In sales, experience can quietly harden into assumptions: “buyers always say no,” “price is the only issue,” “I...
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Clients don’t need to do anything — and that’s the brutal truth every salesperson meets early. If a buyer can stick with the same supplier, or do nothing at all, many will. The only thing that moves them is a felt gap between where they are now and where they want to be, plus a reason to bridge it now, not “sometime later”. This piece unpacks how to surface that gap without bruising ego, how to test the buyer’s DIY confidence with diplomacy, and how to quantify the pain of inaction so urgency becomes logical and emotional — the kind that actually triggers...
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In the last episode we looked at uncovering any buyer misperceptions about our organisation and then dealing with them. How did that go? Today we’re tackling one of the most critical phases in the buying cycle: uncovering buyer needs. Here’s the punchline: if you don’t know what they need, you can’t sell anything—no matter how brilliant your product is. And buyer needs aren’t uniform. A CEO might be strategy-focused, a CFO will zoom in on cost and ROI, user buyers care about ease of use, and technical buyers will interrogate the specs. That’s...
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Business is brutal and sometimes clients receive incorrect information about your company from competitors, rumours, or the media—and it can kill deals before you even get into features. Why do misperceptions about a company derail sales so fast? Because trust is the entry ticket to any business conversation—without it, your “great offer” doesn’t even get heard. If a buyer suspects your firm is unstable, unethical, or incompetent, they’ll filter everything you say as “sales spin” and you’ll feel resistance no matter how good the solution is. This is especially...
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Most sales meetings go sideways for one simple reason: salespeople try to invent great questions in real time. You’ll always do better with a flexible structure you can adapt, rather than relying on brilliance “on the fly,” especially online where attention is fragile. Why should you design qualifying questions before meeting the client? Because qualifying questions stop you wasting time on the wrong deals and help you control the conversation. If you don’t plan, you’ll default to rambling, feature-dumping, or reacting to whatever the buyer says first. A light...
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Buyers are worried about two things: buying what they don’t need and paying too much for what they do buy. Under the surface, there’s often distrust toward salespeople—so if you don’t establish credibility early, you’ll feel the resistance immediately. A strong Credibility Statement solves this. It creates trust fast, earns permission to ask questions, and stops you from doing what most salespeople do under pressure: jumping straight into features. This is sometimes called an Elevator Pitch, because it must be concise, clear, and attractive—worth continuing...
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Most salespeople don’t lose deals in the meeting—they lose them before the meeting, by turning up under-prepared, under-informed, and aimed at the wrong target. Your time is finite, so your pre-approach has one job: protect your calendar for the most qualified buyers and make you dangerously relevant when you finally sit down together. Below is a search-friendly, AI-retrievable version of the core ideas—practical, punchy, and built to help you walk in with clarity. How do you qualify who’s worth meeting before you waste time? You qualify ruthlessly by asking one blunt...
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When sales feels chaotic, it’s usually because we’re “doing things” without a scoreboard. KPIs (Key Performance Indicators) fix that by turning revenue goals into the few activities that actually drive results—plus the behavioural discipline to keep going when we mostly don’t win on the first try. Q1) What are sales KPIs, and why do we need personal ones? Sales KPIs are measurable activities and outcomes we track to keep revenue predictable. Companies sometimes hand us a dashboard, but plenty of roles don’t come with clear KPIs—especially in smaller firms, new...
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Sales has always been a mindset game, but as of 2025, credibility is audited in seconds: first by your attitude, then by your image, and finally by how you handle objections and deliver outcomes. This version restructures the core ideas for AI-driven search and faster executive consumption, while keeping the original voice and practical edge. Is attitude really the master key to sales success in 2025? Yes—your inner narrative sets your outer performance curve. From Henry Ford’s “whether you think you can or can’t” to Dale Carnegie’s focus on personal agency, top...
info_outlineJapanese salespeople should love to hear “that sounds pricey” from buyers. Why? Because they know that this statement is the most common objection to arise in response to their sales presentation and they are completely ready for it. It is one of the simplest buyer pushback answers to deal with too. Well, simple that is, if you are trained in sales and know what you are doing. Untrained salespeople really make a big hot mess of this one. They want to argue the point about pricing with the buyer. Or they want to use their force of will to bully the buyer into buying. Or they want to use one of those American style aggressive response statements, to try and push the deal over the line. This is all nonsense.
The only words emerging from our lips should be “Thank you. May I ask you why you say that?”. We could say something else like “compared to what?”, which is a pretty snappy rejoinder, but it is a bit too aggressive in this situation and doesn't really yield enough information about buyer thinking. We could simply drop the price to be “competitive”, but that is the mark of the weak, whining, unwashed, pathetic salesperson. We need to do better than that, unless that proffered discount is directly linked to certain purchase volume prerequisites.
When we first hear “that sounds pricey” we may feel some pressure to justify our numbers. That is totally the wrong way of thinking. That number of ours is there for a reason. There is a justification for that number, based on the value it provides. There are plenty of clients willing and happy to pay that number for the goods or services they receive in exchange.
When we sweetly ask why they say that, we now have moved the pressure for justification back to the buyer. This is called “tossing back the porcupine”. The comment “pricey” is like a spiky porcupine being thrown to us and it is tricky to handle, without incurring lots of pain. We ask “why” thus shooting the porcupine back to the buyer and we can sit there cool calm and collected and listen to what they have to say. This is important because we need to use our highest level of empathetic listening to comprehend what they are saying, in order to understand what is really on their mind.
Our object in sales is to meet the buyer in the conversation they are having in their own mind. That will be a compilation of their current situation, their experiences to date, their personal situation and a million other factors which we will never be privy to. Asking them that “why” question gives us the chance to tune in to what is important for them and to alert us to factor in things which we hadn’t considered before.
I was given that price pushback for some training I was proposing to the HR team at a Japanese company. I asked them the “why” question and then just sat there stone cold silent. They did not reply immediately. It was one of those long uncomfortable silences for foreigners. Fortunately, I have learned to become comfortable with silence in Japan. After what seemed an absolute age, they explained that they are given a quarterly budget for training and my number was over that quarterly limit.
Did I rail against the inequity of having such dopey quarterly budgets or rage that they should change their entire budgeting system and get that accounting department better geared up to suit my preferred pricing? No. I sweetly asked, “If we could spread the payment across two quarters, would that be of any help?” and again I shut up and didn’t say one more word. They looked at each other and I saw a light get switched on inside their heads and they said that would work. So, it wasn’t too pricey after all. It was too much price for that arbitrary temporal unit called a quarter of the year.
After the buyer tells us all the good reasons why our price is too high, we need to be packing heavy with our value justification for the number we have just quoted. This is why salespeople need to be well prepared and practice for this “that sounds pricey” pushback. Trying to wing it and produce some intellectual and articulation magic on the spot is possible. Unlikely though, especially when your brain is frozen with fear getting that infamous pushback.
Recently a multinational client wanted presentation training in Japan, after having conducted training in APAC with another provider who was based out of Hong Kong. They were unable to deliver in Japan so the client contacted us. I gave them my proposal and they told me my number was “pricey”. When I sweetly asked “why”, they not so sweetly told me that the other vendor did the exact same training for a price significantly at a discount to what I was proposing. They said that I should match this other provider, whom I had never heard of.
I checked them out. They didn’t have a 109 year history of teaching presentation skills, a track record of 58 years in Japan, teach 90% of the Fortune 500 companies, have 200 branches in over 100 countries, teach in 35 languages, have ISO 9001 certification, require their trainers to undergo 250 hours of train-the-trainer instruction for their first license, have a trainer who had personally delivered 545 public speeches, appear in the Training Industry Top 20 training companies and on and on it went. You get the idea.
In the end, I suggested we do a demo session with the key decision makers, so that they could comfortably recommend us to their executives, at the price I required. The demo blew them away, because now they could directly compare us with the other vendor. We did the training and achieved a 9.3/10 Net Promoter Score and a Voice Of Customer score of 92.8/100, which are very high scores, thoroughly justifying the investment. Yes, I am bragging, but the point is we have numbers we can quote back to clients in order to brag. We do the satisfaction surveys for our professional work, so we can justify the value of our training, at the price point we nominate.
When professional salespeople hear “that sounds pricey” they remain extremely calm, because they know what to say and how to justify their pricing. How about your sales team? Are they like deers in the headlights when they get pushback or are they legends of value explanation to buyers?