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306. How To Be Awesome At Turning The Worst Thing Into The Best Thing

How To Be Awesome At Everything Podcast

Release Date: 10/21/2024

329. How To Be Awesome At Creating A Totally New Healthy Normal show art 329. How To Be Awesome At Creating A Totally New Healthy Normal

How To Be Awesome At Everything Podcast

I feel like there is this shift in what used to be the habits and routines of “extreme biohackers” or “health gurus” and now those same things have become part of a lifestyle that people are adapting to make it their new healthy normal.    What we eat, how we move, what we focus on, how we approach health & supplements & body recovery, having a low stress lifestyle - all of it.    This is - my opinion - the best ever cultural shift… because it makes us all healthier, happier in our day to day because we feel great and we will live longer and age better....

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328. How To Be Awesome At The 100 Hour Rule show art 328. How To Be Awesome At The 100 Hour Rule

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If you spend 18 minutes a day — focused on learning or practicing a skill, you will become better than 95% of the population at that skill.   That’s the 100 hour rule.  It’s about consistency and this concept of small daily progress that compounds over time.   Jesse Itzler popularized this concept and it shows that you can become great at anything you’re willing to put 100 hours towards.     You don’t need more time. You need more intention.   In this episode I’m pulling out so many of the highlighted sections from...

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327. How To Be Awesome At Organizing Your Space So Your Life is Organized show art 327. How To Be Awesome At Organizing Your Space So Your Life is Organized

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We took Parker and the girls and a few buddies to Dave and Busters a few weeks ago and there was this small thing that happened that has been a huge perspective shift in my life. it's worth a podcast episode.   I was telling Craig on the way there that I've kept all our past Dave and Buster's card organized in the Ziploc baggie in my purse so we have so many cards we have endless game credits we won't have to buy any cards it's literally gonna be the easiest trip to Dave & Buster's ever. So we get there and we're at that scanning machine and one by one each of the 10 cards I had been...

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326. How To Be Awesome At Recognizing Aging VS. Neglect show art 326. How To Be Awesome At Recognizing Aging VS. Neglect

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The craziest thing that I’ve learned over the last year of reading and re-reading aging and longevity books is that much of what we think is natural aging is actually neglect.     My goal in this episode is to reframe what we assume or are told is “natural aging” or “just getting older” and show all the small things that we might be neglecting over time.   This whole concept is so empowering!!  Rather than feeling like we aren’t in control of how we age, we realize that we are actually in control of so much of it.    Focusing on all the tiny things we...

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325. How To Be Awesome At Low Cost & High Impact Party Ideas show art 325. How To Be Awesome At Low Cost & High Impact Party Ideas

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In this episode, I’m sharing the best tips for maximizing your budget when it comes to party planning - especially kids parties.   I have this way of doing it that’s efficient and organized and easy to decide what’s worth paying for and what’s better to do yourself.    I’m sharing specific examples from the Party I just threw for Parker because I think it will give you lots and lots of ideas for the parties you plan in the future.   This one was a baseball and ice cream theme so I definitely needed ice cream cones.  I got two quotes for companies to scoop...

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Over the years, I’ve spent lots of time in hospitals as we navigate keeping Craig healthy despite his genetic heart issues. This past week was another week spent in the hospital for us and even though we’ve done this so many more times than we would like… Every time I come out with a new perspective in someway or a new thoughts on really how to keep your health as the highest priority in life and what I think is the best way to keep all your records and information organized and how to advocate for yourself.   One of my favorite things about podcasting and connecting with friends is...

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323. How To Be Awesome At Seeing Everything You’ve Done Up To Now As The Pre-Game show art 323. How To Be Awesome At Seeing Everything You’ve Done Up To Now As The Pre-Game

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Quick story to explain this - I was testing out a new business and I was talking to my husband about this product and the cost of goods and profits and the industry and I was explaining about the strong positioning I’ll have in the marketplace and he was like many sold last month and what was the net profit?  And when I told him - he’s like your time is worth more- that’s not big enough - and I’m like totally - but I haven’t even gotten started.  He’s like but you have sales-  I was like I know, but I’m in the pre-game like I haven’t even gotten started....

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322. How To Be Awesome At The Vacation Reset show art 322. How To Be Awesome At The Vacation Reset

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This episode is all about The Vacation Reset.  How to come home, take a fresh look at your routine, and use everything you felt and experienced on your trip to make your everyday more fulfilling. So rather than having post-vacation blues you have this fresh perspective on everything - what you’re eating, what you’re spending your free time doing, and what makes you feel the most alive.  It a post-vacation breakthrough podcast.     1. Why Vacation Is Such a Powerful Reset You break your routines naturally — new places, new foods, new experiences. You slow down...

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321. How To Be Awesome At Not Snipping At Your People show art 321. How To Be Awesome At Not Snipping At Your People

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Here are some key strategies to help you plan ahead, manage stress, and respond with patience instead of snapping at your loved ones: Why We Get Snippy & How to Prevent It Lack of Time = Lack of Patience – When we’re rushed, our tolerance drops. Planning ahead creates space for calmer interactions. Stress & Overload – When our mental/emotional load is too heavy, small things set us off. Managing stress proactively prevents snippy reactions. Not Meeting Our Own Needs – When we’re tired, hungry, or overstimulated, we’re more likely to react negatively. ...

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This episode is all about documents your highs in life, so you can create more of them. As a person who’s thought a lot about joy and happiness and fulfillment - if we just try to simplify all of that - I really think it comes down to stringing as many awesome days together as you can. Identifying what made you feel the happiest, the strongest, the most fulfilled… all of it. You probably know I’m obsessed with designing our days rather than letting our days just happen and all of that starts with first figuring out what we actually love, have the most fun doing and what and who makes...

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Every year around my birthday I’m like, ok, what’s the secret unlock at this age?  Like what have I learned and what I am doing that makes the biggest difference in my life?

This year, that skill that I’ve unlocked in myself this ability to turn what feels like the worst thing, into the best thing.

In a very practical and realistic way.

So aside from anything really really sad in life, this strategy allows you to get out of thinking and saying how much this sucks or is unfair or is the worst thing that could happen.  And flipping it to- how could this become the best thing?

I’m going to fully explain it because once you set yourself up like this - it’s crazy how you can see the same situations completely differently.

It’s saying to yourself, this sucks, and it’s not at all what I wanted.  But, how could it actually be the best thing?

You have to listen to this full episode - it’s 20 minutes or so that will change the way you react when things go sideways.

Things that are awful - like getting fired or someone breaking up with you or you don’t get the promotion or don’t get into the college or high school that you wanted.  You sprain your ankle and can’t workout for 3 months and it’s your favorite thing..

This is what we know for sure…
Bad things happen.
People dont know how to cope.
And they allow one bad thing to snowball into more.

THIS IS THE UNLOCK!
Bad things suck.
The only thing worse is letting one bad thing ruin many good things.

One bad thing happens and the way you operate afterwards is what more bad things happen.

Because really… things aren’t good or bad- they just are.

It's becoming anti fragile as we go.

People often dont know how to cope with bad stuff.
Thats how you end up with this weird spiral with more bad things happening.
People dont know how to manage their emotions so they just react.

The more I try to create space between how I feel and what I do, the more I've been able to control my outcomes in situations.

It’s a superpower, I’m telling you.  The next time something in your life sucks, ask yourself, how can this actually be the best thing ever?