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Worldview: Politics, Perspectives & People Who Still Talk to Each Other

Imperfect Mens Club

Release Date: 06/12/2025

Self Discipline - A Stoic View of Imperfection show art Self Discipline - A Stoic View of Imperfection

Imperfect Mens Club

  Episode 43: Self Discipline. A Stoic View of Imperfection Summary In this episode, Mark and Jim explore self-discipline through the lens of Stoic philosophy. They unpack five timeless rules that still hold up in a world full of distractions, dopamine hits, and excuses. The conversation spans modern habits, mental toughness, guilt, accountability, voluntary discomfort, and the deeper connection between self-awareness, self-trust, and real personal growth. The core message: self-discipline isn’t perfection. It’s the small, unglamorous, repeatable reps you keep showing up for. What We...

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Self-Projection, Narcissism & Radical Accountability show art Self-Projection, Narcissism & Radical Accountability

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Short Episode Description In this episode, Mark and Jim unpack self-projection: how it shows up consciously and unconsciously, how it damages relationships, and what radical accountability actually looks like in real life. They explore narcissistic patterns, the difference between healthy self-presentation and fake personas, and why the simple act of pausing might be one of the most powerful tools you have. Along the way, Mark shares hard-won lessons from a deeply toxic relationship and how he rebuilt his emotional maturity in the years that followed. Episode Summary Mark and Jim start from...

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Why 2025 Could Be the Most Consequential Year of Our Lifetime show art Why 2025 Could Be the Most Consequential Year of Our Lifetime

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Episode Overview In this episode, Mark and Jim zoom out to the worldview arena of the Imperfect Men’s Club framework and connect four generations, American innovation, AI, capitalism, and historical cycles into one big through-line. The jumping-off point is Jim’s recent trip with his 85-year-old mom to meet his new granddaughter. That experience, paired with a talk he watched about 2025 being a “tipping point year,” sparked a conversation about why history really does repeat itself in 25- and 80-year patterns, how America’s unique mix of freedom and capitalism unlocks innovation, and...

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"I'm Not Good Enough" The Origins And Impact Of Self Limiting Beliefs

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Episode Summary Mark and Jim dive into the belief that quietly caps potential: “I’m not good enough.” They trace where it starts (childhood messages, school systems, fear, past misses) and how it shows up in adult life: promotions we never ask for, relationships we avoid, work we don’t share, skills we won’t try. Along the way: stories from recruiting, entrepreneurship, parenting after divorce, and reframing regret as proof you care. The Conversation Explores What a self-limiting belief system is Thoughts that feel like facts, internalized from fear, old messages, or past...

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Introspection Without the Spiral: 5 Moves to Get Unstuck show art Introspection Without the Spiral: 5 Moves to Get Unstuck

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Reframing The Differences Between Men And Women show art Reframing The Differences Between Men And Women

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Summary Mark and Jim dive into the “relationships” spoke of the wheel, using a simple moment in a tire shop to unpack a bigger idea: reframing. From there they explore the difference between loving and longing, how past relationships shape current ones, what men and women tend to seek at different life stages, and why self-awareness is the only way any of this works. Mark shares hard-won perspective as a single dad of two daughters and a son; Jim brings a long-married vantage point and a field report from that fish-tank-by-the-waiting-room conversation. The conversation explores...

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Self-Discipline, Routines, and the Quiet Power of Consistency show art Self-Discipline, Routines, and the Quiet Power of Consistency

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Summary Mark and Jim dig into self-discipline as a daily practice, not a personality trait. They walk through their real-world morning and evening routines, how gratitude and breathwork change your state, why partnerships create accountability, and how three tightly chosen priorities per day compound into a better year. Practical, free, and doable. The conversation explores: What self-discipline actually is: controlling impulses and short-term urges to align with long-term values and intentions, built through practice and simple systems. Morning routines that stick: hydration, oil pulling,...

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Are You A Leader Or Simply In A Position Of Authority? show art Are You A Leader Or Simply In A Position Of Authority?

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Quick Summary Mark and Jim unpack leadership through the lens of “seasons.” Drawing on John Maxwell’s idea that everyone has a book inside them, they explore how winter, spring, summer, and fall map to personal growth, responsibility, and impact. They also get candid about humility, credibility, and why leadership is more than holding a title—it’s taking responsibility for the well-being of other people. The conversation explores Leadership ≠ Title: The difference between positions of authority and true leadership that models behavior, brings clarity, and takes responsibility for...

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Civil Discourse In A Divided World show art Civil Discourse In A Divided World

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In this episode of the Imperfect Men’s Club Podcast, Mark Aylward and Jim Gurulé dive into the lost art of civil discourse—why it matters, how we’ve strayed from it, and what it takes to bring it back into everyday life. The conversation explores: Why civil discourse is more than politeness Civil discourse goes beyond surface-level politeness or avoiding conflict. It’s about creating space for real dialogue that expands knowledge, challenges assumptions, and strengthens community. Mark and Jim unpack why this practice is critical for healthy democracies, strong relationships,...

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“Do It Anyway” - The Key To Mining Your Own Personal Gold show art “Do It Anyway” - The Key To Mining Your Own Personal Gold

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Short Description Mark and Jim unpack “self-alchemy”—turning your life’s raw materials (skills, reps, scars, notes, half-finished ideas) into something valuable. They connect it to the IMC wheel (Profession, Relationships, Money, Health/Well-Being, Worldview), talk about aligning work with values, and make the case for creating consistently despite criticism, delays, or imperfect outcomes. AI shows up not as artificial intelligence but as amplified intelligence that helps curate and ship your life’s work. The refrain: Do it anyway. What We Cover Self-Alchemy defined:...

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“You cannot kill a thought. It needs to die of old age or natural causes”

Mark introduces the topic of worldview and the different belief systems we all have…and where we get them

Jim adds the influence of the political distress specifically in LA and brings in the flywheel

Mark clarifies the politics of it all and both guys laugh at how everything is about politics

Jim says most of us don’t like to have our belief systems challenged, but agree it’s important to do so

Mark reads Jim’s 5w’s assessment…What, why, where, when and who

Jim brings up self awareness and Mark agrees that self awareness is important

Mark talks a bit about how we acquire our belief systems

Jim shares his stories about two recent conversations he had with people with different world views and although they disagreed, they got along

Both guys think most of us want the same things. We are all humans first

After Mark jumps in, Jim continues to share his stories. One woman fro NJ and a great friend from his childhood

The woman is passionate about her work, which Jim admires

Mark says when he goes out in the world, everyone is nice to him

Jim appreciated both of their positions

Mark shares the importance of context. Context resolves a great deal of miscommunication

Mark shares his story about travel regarding world view and how valuable that cross cultural experience is

Jim totally agrees and shares his favorite quote “You cannot kill a thought. It needs to die of old age or natural causes”

He adds the context of the military leader who shared this quote. 18 to 23 year old males with no hope are the biggest danger in the world

Cultural and religious thoughts in particular

Jim cites the progressive movement as one that is possibly dying

“We kill our leaders. Be good enough to be killed”

If you put yourself out there, they’ll come after you

Mark brings in his position on presumption about others

Jim takes us around the wheel and goes deep into the worldview portion of our wheel

Both guys like the idea of revisiting their sources of worldview and the view itself and reevaluate things

Jim brings up victimhood. Both guys are repelled by victimhood

Bitter or better

They also value self deprecation. Mark mentions the idea of some of these thoughts are not conscious

How the tough stuff makes you durable

Jim brings up the LA riots and both guys have disdain for the “leaders” in CA

Mark likes our current presidents worldview - not a politician

Mark brings up the police and the law being enforced and them being respected

Both guys see this system as broken, but the Mayor and Governor are the problem

Mark talks about history and understanding history to predict the future

Mark emphasizes the power of self reflection regarding worldview

Jim goes back to his stories. He got into a discussion about homelessness because they were in San Francisco. They started out in disagreement and ended up mostly in agreement. A big part of this problem is the lack of enforcement of existing laws

Mark shares his opinion about the word “compassion” and it’s misuse

The bad behavior was tolerated for long enough to become and expectation

Jim shreds the leadership of California and questions how they have stayed in power. Who keeps electing them

The guys talk about the differences between living in Florida versus California

Then they wrap up with voting and the notion of how things might look in a few weeks

Jim and Mark are both glass half full guys and think the system will hold up