236. Paperless Individual Counseling

Welcome back to School Counseling Simplified! Today, we’re diving into paperless individual counseling strategies—low-prep, hands-on activities that are perfect for busy counselors who need quick, engaging solutions.

Next week, I’ll be discussing digital resources, but today, I’m focusing on interactive, in-person techniques that increase student engagement. Engagement is a key factor in helping students meet their counseling goals, as it keeps them interested and actively involved in the learning process.

As counselors, our role is short-term and solution-focused, so let’s explore some creative ways to make each session both effective and memorable.

Hands-On Activities for Student Engagement

1. Role Play with Figurines

• Use toys like dolls, cars, dinosaurs, or any small objects available.

• Helps students externalize feelings and start conversations naturally.

• Provides a non-threatening way to discuss emotions.

2. Role Play with Chairs

• The "Empty Chair Technique" allows students to talk to an imaginary person, which is helpful for grief counseling or conflict resolution.

• Students can rehearse conversations and gain new perspectives.

• Can also be used with two students switching seats to see different viewpoints.

3. Play Dough or Modeling Clay

• Great for younger students as a hands-on way to express emotions.

• Can be used to create emotional faces or role-play scenarios.

• Simply playing with the dough can be a stress reliever.

4. Ball Toss Activity

• A beach ball works well since it can be deflated when not in use.

• Add conversation starter stickers to each section of the ball.

• Toss the ball back and forth to encourage discussion.

5. Lego

• Provides a distraction that encourages sharing.

• Helps ease intimidation in one-on-one sessions.

• Can be used for role-playing or as an analogy (e.g., "building blocks of friendship").

6. Jenga

• Write discussion prompts on the blocks to personalize the activity.

• Can be used as an analogy for building up trust, relationships, or personal growth.

7. Soda Can Anger Activity

• Shake a can of soda as students describe situations that make them angry.

• When opened, it creates a visual representation of anger exploding.

• Engaging, memorable, and effective in anger management sessions.

8. Volcano Experiment

• Use clay, baking soda, and vinegar to demonstrate how anger builds and erupts.

• Great for anger management groups or individual sessions.

9. Dry Erase Boards or Etch A Sketch

• Teach negative thought patterns and growth mindset.

• Have students write negative thoughts and erase them to symbolize change.

10. Music Playlists

• Have students create a playlist of songs that help them with different emotions (sadness, anger, calming, motivation).

• Can be a great coping strategy or "get to know you" activity.

11. Food as a Conversation Starter

• Use different colored snacks to represent emotions.

• Be mindful of allergens and sugar content.

12. Plants as a Growth Analogy

• Students can care for a plant over time, learning how friendships and personal growth require nurturing.

• Can serve as an attendance motivator or a take-home gift.

I hope you found these ideas helpful and feel inspired to try them in your counseling sessions! Let me know how they work for you—reply to my emails or send me a message on Instagram. See you next week for more digital resource ideas!

 

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