Is Your Ex Hiding Assets? How to Uncover the Truth in Divorce Disclosure
Release Date: 03/19/2025
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info_outline💰 Is your ex hiding assets? Are they draining joint accounts, concealing super, or transferring money to family and friends? You're not alone, and there are legal ways to uncover what's yours.
Learn about the most common ways people try to hide assets in divorce, including trust funds, cash jobs, disappearing assets, and hidden overseas accounts. Find out how the Australian Family Court courts handle these cases, what legal tools you can use to track down missing assets, and what to consider doing before mediation or family court.
If you’re frustrated by a lack of financial disclosure or suspect your ex is hiding money, this episode is a must-listen.
🚨 Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education for Australia and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation.
🎧 Listen to This Episode If You:
✅ Believe your ex is hiding assets or not fully disclosing their financial situation
❓ Have noticed money disappearing from joint accounts
💡 Suspect your ex is hiding superannuation, cash jobs, or business earnings
🛡 Want to know what legal steps you can take before mediation or court
📚 Wondering how courts handle trusts, business assets, or overseas properties
⚖️ Are frustrated with non-disclosure and want to know what the courts will do about it
Key Topics Discussed in This Episode:
1️⃣ Draining Joint Accounts: Can You Get the Money Back?
2️⃣ Superannuation & Hidden Retirement Funds
3️⃣ Trust Funds, Businesses & Company-Owned Assets
4️⃣ Cash Jobs & Undeclared Income
5️⃣ Selling Assets for Cheap to Friends & Family
6️⃣ Disappearing Assets: What If They Just Vanish?
7️⃣ Hiding Money & Property Overseas
8️⃣ What If Your Ex Refuses to Do Financial Disclosure?
📌 Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
📜 Superannuation Information Request (Form 6) – ATO Superannuation Search
📜 Family Court Superannuation Search via Comm Courts Portal – Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia
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📜Disclosure Checklist - https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist
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Avoiding Traps: Why You Should Never Negotiate Percentages Before Knowing the Property Pool https://youtu.be/D8xj-52q9ZE?si=N_-NKmXlszdXa-Rb
⏳ Episode Timeline:
00:00 Introduction: Uncovering Hidden Assets in Divorce
00:14 Common Tactics for Hiding Assets
01:40 Legal Rights and Draining Joint Accounts
04:29 Superannuation and Hidden Funds
06:55 Trust Funds and Corporate Veils
08:41 Valuing Businesses in Divorce
12:25 Cash in Hand and Undeclared Income
15:21 Selling Assets to Friends
16:04 Burnt Leg and Old Cars
16:27 Valuing and Insuring Classic Cars
17:01 Court's Approach to Asset Distribution
18:57 Handling Disappearing Assets
19:48 Hiding Assets Overseas
22:37 Non-Disclosure Issues
28:04 Child Support and Hidden Assets
29:32 Final Thoughts and Legal Advice
Emergency Contacts:
💜 Women’s Shelter Service: Call 1800 811 811
⚖️ Legal Aid: Visit Legal Aid Website
📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): Call 13 11 14
👨👦 Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men
👧 Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help
🚨 National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732
🖤 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123