Family Law & Privacy: Can Your Ex Access Your Therapy Notes?

 Listen to This Episode If You:
🧠 Are considering seeing a psychologist during your separation
😨 Worry your ex might access your private or your child’s counseling records
📜 Want to understand the new Family Law Act changes around protected confidences
⚖️ Need clarity on subpoenas and how courts decide what’s relevant
💔 Fear that private health or therapy records could be weaponized against you
👩‍👧‍👦 Want to protect yours or your children’s emotional safety during family law proceedings

Trigger warning: this discusses family violence and abuse. 

In this important episode, we unpack the changes to the Family Law Act (effective June 10, 2025), giving courts new powers to protect sensitive medical and psychological records in family law matters.

We’ll cover how this change helps protect parents and children from having deeply personal information dragged through court, how to apply for protected confidences, and when courts might still allow access to private records.

Whether you’re negotiating a parenting plan, heading into court, or trying to support your children with therapy, this episode gives you the knowledge and questions to ask your lawyer so you can make informed decisions about confidentiality and subpoenas.

📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and not legal advice. Always seek independent legal and psychological advice for your situation.

Trigger warning: this discusses family violence and abuse. 

 

⏱ Episode Timeline – What We Discuss:

[0:00] – What’s new in family law and why protecting your sensitive information matters

[0:37] – Key disclaimers before we dive in

[1:01] – Recent changes to the Family Law Act Australia explained

[1:31] – Why sensitive information can impact your safety and case outcomes

[4:35] – What counts as sensitive information in family court cases during Divorce?

[5:43] – Practical tips to keep your sensitive details protected in court during divorce

[6:48] – How the family court helps protect private and confidential information

[9:37] – Real-life examples: when and how to protect documents during divorce

[13:11] – How to make a legal objection or application to protect documents during Family Court

[19:48] – Mediation and pre-action procedures involving sensitive material during divorce proceedings.

[23:19] – How to object in family court to sharing private information during your divorce proceedings.

[23:35] – What role does the family court judge play in deciding on sensitive disclosure?

[24:42] – What happens if you agree (or are pressured) to share sensitive documents in your divorce proceedings?

[25:44] – What to do if you feel coerced to disclose private details during family court.

[26:51] – The family law legislation and family court rules that protect your privacy

[30:20] – How to balance presenting evidence and protecting yourself in Domestic Violence Family Law cases

[31:35] – Can psychologists be subpoenaed in Family Court? What happens to your child's notes?

[36:58] – How court-ordered counseling and reports may affect children during Family Court

[39:57] – Final thoughts, key takeaways, and where to get help

 

🔑 Key Topics Covered:

• New Family Law Act provisions on confidentiality and subpoenas
  
  

• How parents can protect their child’s psychologist notes
  
  

• Legal processes for objecting to subpoenas
  
  

• The risks of waiving your right to privacy (even unintentionally)
  
  

• When private records can strengthen your case
  
  

• Balancing evidence needs with emotional and psychological harm
  
  

• Tips for speaking to your lawyer about protected confidences
  
  

📌 Links & Resources Mentioned:

• 📝 Attorney-General’s Fact Sheet on Protected Confidences

https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/publications/family-law-changes-june-2025-protecting-sensitive-information

• 📞 1800 RESPECT – National Family Violence Support
  
  

• 📞 Lifeline: 13 11 14 – 24/7 Emotional Support
  
  
  

🎙 Related Episodes:

• When Divorce Isn’t The End: Post-Separation Abuse https://open.spotify.com/episode/1V23F0O5yhQt9NFLPOu6uJ?si=YIkUS7njRUS8tsvFunT_ng

 

• What is a subpoena? https://open.spotify.com/episode/4nVleHBTW9o4qOpeWhqgRt?si=KOUoIuctQs6KSf5zwq92nA

 

 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This is a general discussion and not legal advice. Please see a qualified lawyer for advice specific to your situation.

🆘 Emergency & Support Contacts:
💜 Women’s Shelter: 1800 811 811
📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis): 13 11 14
👨‍👧 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978
👧 Kids Helpline: 1800 551 800
🚨 DV Hotline: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732)