What Porn Taught Hollywood About Sex Scenes w/ Lotus Lain
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Lotus Lain is an adult performer, producer, intimacy coordinator and sex worker advocate originally from California’s Central Valley where growing up in a small town meant most of her real sex education came later through curiosity, the internet, and eventually working in the adult industry itself. In this episode we talk about the unexpected overlap between porn and Hollywood, how the adult industry approached consent, boundaries and choreography long before mainstream film and television caught up, and why productions eventually realized they needed intimacy coordinators. We also get into...
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Where There's A Will, There's A Fcking Way w/ Aimee Latta
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Aimee Latta is a certified embodied intimacy and relationship coach and the host of the podcast Come Talk With Aimee, originally from Utah where the best sex education she got was a fifth grade presentation from a very enthusiastic husband and wife team… followed by years of abstinence-only education and a very graphic childbirth video meant to scare everyone into never having sex. In this episode we talk about growing up in Utah, abstinence-only sex education, Mormon purity culture, and what happens when the only messaging around sex is prevention instead of pleasure. We also get into...
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The Cuban Missile Crisis of Burlesque w/ Tito Bonito
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Tito Bonito is an international burlesque performer, host and instructor originally from Miami, Florida where he knew he was gay before he even knew how babies were made… and learned most of the rest through TLC, the Spice Girls, and sheer curiosity. Catch Tito and I talkin’ some real shit reading Reddit stories and join the afterparty over on Patreon! Join the live watch party on YouTube today, episode release day, at 4p PT / 7p ET: _________________________________________________ Where to find Tito: Instagram: | Links: Where to find Arielle: Insta: // TikTok: Bonus...
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Everyone Wants To Be A Cult Leader w/ Jimanekia Ebon
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Join the watch party LIVE AT FIVE on YouTube: Jimanekia Eborn is a trauma specialist, sexuality educator, survivor advocate, co-owner of Cintima, and founder of the nonprofit Tending the Garden, originally from Riverside, California where she actually DID received sex education multiple times growing up… but was any of it good? Absolutely not. In this episode we talk about grief, trauma work, modern dating struggles, sex education failures, intimacy coordination, professional wrestling (yes, I mean that), mental health, and why community and safe spaces are essential for connection and...
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Cute Butt Stuff w/ Whitaker Cohen
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Whitaker Cohen is the Founder and CEO of Amore Sui, originally from the East Coast where despite having a mom who worked for Planned Parenthood she still received plenty of medical sex education without any lessons on pleasure. We talk about terrible sex education, orgasm myths, squirting, consent, power dynamics, and how Whitaker went from a few bad anal experiences to launching a company designing beginner friendly butt plugs specifically for women. Catch Whitaker and I reading Reddit stories and join the afterparty over on Patreon! Episode cheat sheet: 00:38 Meeting Whitaker Cohen...
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Birds & Bees Don't Read Reddit w/ Elisa Ellis (Bonus Episode)
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to access the full episode. It's here! Our very first bonus episode of Birds & Bees Don't Read Reddit and I'm starting this adventure with none other than comedian Elisa Ellis who also happens to get the most unhinged versions of me in real life. This episode is WILD ya'll. Here are the stories, only available on Patreon: Story 1: I just found out that I'm a mistress...of 4 years. OMG. How do I tell her? 48M/36F Story 2: My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this Story 3: AITA For suing my...
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An Overdue Update
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I ghosted, I know. And I'm sorry. So here's a little update on where things are at! Including me losing (for now) my primary instagram account @ariellezadok Like, comment & subscribe if you're happy to hear me! ________________ Get your Backstage Pass and join the circle community: Take the free masterclass, Pleasure on Purpose: Dive into The Sexy Directory: Follow me on instagram: // (at least these still exist... for now!)
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Sexy Confidence (w/ Tia Lynn)
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Tia Lynn is a sex and intimacy coach, Tedx speaker and host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast originally from Utah where as you can imagine, the Mormons (which she was not one of) taught her nothing about sexuality but a whole lot about judgement. Some things we said... "Pole dancing gives permission for others to explore their desires and sensuality." "Transitioning into sex coaching happened naturally based on client feedback and impact." "When you upgrade and when you progress past that, that makes them look at themselves in a way that they're not ready to." "Play parties provide a space where...
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Sugar Baby Gone Wrong (w/ Nnamdi Ngwe)
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Nnamdi Ngwe is an actor, comedian and writer for The Amber Ruffin Show and Tab Time originally from London where his initial sex education was just the bad kids used to try to get the younger kids to kiss. Then he got a little older and realized how unhinged that was! Some things we said... "I would, as long as it's like, my feelings wouldn't be hurt if it's like, don't do that. Continue on. Yeah. Here's some guidance. Here's some notes. Let's keep going." "You think that I'm not in control, you think that I'm not in power, your dick is in my mouth. I can fucking hurt you or heal you...
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Letting Your Freak Flag Fly (w/ Teresa Lo)
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Teresa Lo is an award winning writer and comedian originally from Coffeeville Kansas where nearly 40% of her high school class had a baby before graduation… which is another reason why accurate sex education is so important! Some things we said... "Comedy and the sex world is the only place that accepts freaks and lets us thrive." "If I really wanted it, I could have done it." "How bad do you want something? What are you willing to sacrifice?" "People, not all people, but many people are very dishonest about sexuality where they can't be open with what they really want." "Some people...
info_outlineMorgan Jay is a musician and comedian originally from Mahwah, New Jersey where he was taught that women would derail and distract him!
In this episode we talk about:
- 04:11 Creating a Sexy and Fun Show
- 05:46 Transitioning from Stand-up to Music
- 07:33 The Evolution of Comedy Clubs
- 12:02 Understanding Different Sexual Preferences
- 16:20 The Importance of Consent and Aftercare
- 20:02 Exploring Sexual Wellness and Pleasure Products
- 25:23 The Accessibility and Variety of Pornography
- 31:05 The Impact of Abstinence-Only Sex Education
- 36:55 The Influence of Cultural and Religious Upbringing
- 41:44 Exploring New Sexual Experiences
- 46:09 The Importance of Playfulness and Curiosity
- 48:18 Sexual Connection in Intimate Relationships
- 49:10 The Consequences of Ignoring Sexual Compatibility
- 51:42 Having Complex Conversations about Sexual Desires
- 53:47 Normalizing Sexual Pleasure for All
- 56:52 Exploring Unique Sexual Fantasies
- 59:04 Creating Pleasurable and Intimate Experiences
You can find Morgan on Instagram at @morganjay and his website www.morganjay.com
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