193. Finding Faith on the Side Road: Link Forester on Fatherhood, Loss, and Loving What Matters Most

What if the unexpected turns in life weren’t detours—but the actual path to everything that matters?

In this heartfelt episode of Warriors Unmasked, Chuck Thuss sits down with financial advisor, husband, father, and author Link Forester to talk about the moments that redefined his life. From becoming a father while still in college, to taking a leap of faith and leaving a stable career, to enduring every parent’s worst nightmare—the loss of a child—Link’s story is one of resilience grounded in faith, family, and a healthy dose of humor.

Link shares how he and his wife Carla navigated early marriage while juggling studies and diapers, how they made it through heartbreak without losing each other, and how they continue to find joy on the other side of tragedy. You’ll hear about his book The Side Road, inspired by his son's encouragement, and why he believes that life’s most meaningful moments often come when things don’t go according to plan.

If you're walking through grief, questioning your next step, or simply wondering how to build a life you love—even after the unthinkable—this episode will leave you deeply encouraged. Link's message is simple, powerful, and profoundly true: Relationships matter. Faith matters. And you are never alone in your story.

6 Key Takeaways:

• Life's biggest challenges—like unexpected parenthood or career shifts—can shape your values and bring clarity to what really matters.
• Grieving differently is normal in marriage; respecting each other's process is essential to healing together.
• Faith doesn’t erase the pain, but it gives purpose and peace in the middle of it.
• Taking a leap into the unknown, like switching careers, can unlock joy and alignment with your purpose.
• Humor, community, and commitment to daily progress can carry you through the darkest seasons.
• You can survive loss—and even thrive afterward—if you hold tight to your relationships and trust the bigger plan.

 

LINKS:

• www.thecompassionateconnection.com
• www.warriorsunmasked.com 

 

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 – Intro and welcome to Link Forester
• 02:15 – Becoming a father in college and rethinking life
• 05:45 – How faith grew through early marriage and uncertainty
• 08:00 – Leaving IBM to pursue financial planning: a leap of faith
• 10:15 – The tragic loss of their son Tyler
• 13:00 – What helped Link and Carla survive the darkest season
• 15:45 – Faith, perspective, and grief: navigating life with eternity in mind
• 18:30 – Losing a parent and a pet: navigating recent loss
• 21:00 – Learning to live with grief and honor what you had
• 23:30 – Why Link believes everything we have is on loan from God
• 25:00 – The origin story of The Side Road and writing with humor
• 27:30 – A favorite dog story that still makes Link laugh
• 30:00 – What life looks like now: family, grandkids, and gratitude
• 32:00 – The importance of forgiveness and prioritizing relationships
• 34:00 – Where to find The Side Road and Link's website
• 35:15 – Encouragement for those grieving: “You will get through this”
• 37:00 – Final thoughts and a reminder that you’re not alone