212: Finding Freedom After Addiction — The Inspiring Journey of Mary Beth O’Connor
Release Date: 12/23/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode, Chuck Thuss sits down with Mary Beth O’Connor for a candid, eye-opening conversation about survival, healing, and long-term recovery. After surviving a childhood marked by emotional neglect and severe abuse, Mary Beth fell into addiction at just twelve years old — eventually becoming a daily meth user by her teens. But her story didn’t end there.
Through determination, trauma therapy, and a recovery path she crafted for herself, Mary Beth rose from years of substance use disorder to graduating from Berkeley Law and ultimately serving as a federal administrative law judge. Her transformation is breathtaking, inspiring, and proof that healing is not only possible, but life-changing.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re too far gone to rebuild your life, this episode is the reminder that it is never too late.
Guest Bio
Mary Beth O’Connor is the author of From Junkie to Judge and a nationally recognized advocate for trauma-informed, individualized addiction recovery. After surviving years of abuse and developing a meth addiction in her teens, Mary Beth rebuilt her life through therapy, alternative recovery programs, and perseverance. She went on to graduate from Berkeley Law, build a successful legal career, and ultimately serve as a federal administrative law judge. Today she writes, speaks, and mentors others seeking hope and personalized recovery paths.
You’ll hear About
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The childhood trauma and instability that planted the seeds for addiction
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How early drug use escalated into a decade-long meth dependency
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Why personalized recovery — not one-size-fits-all — saved her life
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The slow, steady climb from rock bottom to law school and beyond
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How Mary Beth became a federal judge and an advocate for trauma-informed recovery
Chapters
00:00 Welcome and Introduction
01:27 Mary Beth’s Early Life and Emotional Neglect
03:29 Caring for Her Sister and Growing Up Too Soon
05:01 Early Signs of Anxiety and Emotional Distress
06:15 Moving in with Her Stepfather and Escalating Abuse
07:55 Violence, Chaos, and the Impact of Trauma
09:54 Learning to Survive an Unpredictable Environment
11:01 First Exposure to Alcohol at Age Twelve
12:43 Progression to Weed, Pills, Acid, and Meth
14:30 Trauma, Mental Health, and the Root Causes of Addiction
16:26 Why Meth Became Her Drug of Choice
17:44 Addiction Through College and Early Adulthood
19:33 The Slow, Cumulative Bottom That Forced Her to Seek Help
21:15 Rehab, Ambivalence, and Why 12-Step Didn’t Fit
23:17 Discovering Alternatives and Building Her Own Recovery Plan
25:23 Treating Trauma and Co-Occurring PTSD
27:26 How Treatment Systems Fail Without Individualized Care
29:30 Asking the Right Question: “Why Am I Using?”
31:37 Mindful Drinking, Harm Reduction, and Dry January
33:47 Rebuilding Her Life From the Ground Up
35:44 Graduating From Berkeley Law and Becoming a Judge
37:09 Life Today: Writing, Speaking, and Advocacy
38:53 About Her Memoir From Junkie to Judge
40:51 Her Message to Anyone Who Believes Recovery Isn’t Possible
43:03 Chuck’s Closing Reflections
Chuck’s Challenge
This week, look beneath the surface. Choose one area of your life where you’ve been reacting instead of understanding the root cause. Slow down, get curious, and take one small step to address what’s really going on — not just the symptom.
Connect with Mary Beth O’Connor
Website: http://junkietojudge.com/
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Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-beth-o-connor-8aaa4b121/
Bluesky: https://blueskydirectory.com/profiles/marybethoconnor.bsky.social
Connect with Chuck
Check out the website: https://www.thecompassionateconnection.com/
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuck-thuss-a9aa044/
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