Buy Like a Guy
A podcast for men about how to buy cool things like bourbon, beers, watches and more, from experts who know their sh*t. It's always good to "know a guy." BLAG is collection of interviews and solo podcasts that cover the important things in life, like bourbon, beer, watches, and how to knock your girl's pants off with killer gifts. Third generation jewelry store owner and diamond expert, Andy Koehn and his guests will take you from confusion to confidence by opening the playbooks of experts who know their stuff. Think diamonds have nothing to do with bourbon or beers? Think again!
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Ep. 94 - Get the Ring Right: Budget, Stones and Why Every Guy Needs a Good Jeweler
01/08/2026
Ep. 94 - Get the Ring Right: Budget, Stones and Why Every Guy Needs a Good Jeweler
You survived the first round—now it’s time for the next level of buying her a ring. In Part II, Andy and Carter Eve dive into the stuff most guys never ask: setting a real budget (without three-months-salary BS), the truth about lab-grown vs. natural diamonds, and why having a trusted jeweler is your secret weapon. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to set a budget you won’t regret (and why it’s nobody’s business but yours) The pros and cons of lab-grown vs. natural diamonds—what actually matters, and what’s just hype How to redesign family rings without losing the sentimental value Why “character” and human touch beat perfection every time The real value of having a jeweler you trust—someone you can text, call, and rely on for life Key Quotes from Carter: “Never go into debt for an engagement ring. You can always upgrade down the road.” “Lab-grown diamonds let you get the look you want for less—if that’s what matters to you.” “Imperfect isn’t bad. That’s character. That’s what makes it yours.” “Having a ‘jewelry guy’ (or girl) means you’ve always got someone in your corner.” Why This Episode Matters for Guys Buying Rings: If you want to avoid rookie mistakes, overspending, or getting lost in the lab vs. natural debate, this episode gives you the real-world answers: How to make heirlooms work for your fiancée’s style (without pissing off the family) How to get the best value—no matter your budget Why independent jewelers still matter in a world of big brands and online shopping Carter’s Top Advice: Don’t let anyone pressure you—take your time and ask questions Admit what you don’t know and get educated Trust your gut: if you click with your jeweler, you’re in the right place Who Is Carter Eve? Carter Eve is a custom jeweler and goldsmith known for heirloom redesigns, value-driven sourcing, and a straight-shooter approach. She helps guys get the ring right—no hype, no pressure. Resources Mentioned: Carter Eve’s Instagram & email: @ and Andy’s book: The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring Connect with Buy Like A Guy: Need real, honest help finding a ring or a jeweler you can trust? Email Andy at Website: Instagram: @ Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 93 - The #1 Mistake Guys Make Buying Her a Ring (And How to Avoid It)
12/26/2025
Ep. 93 - The #1 Mistake Guys Make Buying Her a Ring (And How to Avoid It)
Ever feel like buying an engagement ring is a minefield? You’re not alone. In this episode, Andy talks with Carter—a custom jeweler who’s helped hundreds of guys get it right—about the biggest mistakes men make, how to actually get her the ring she wants, and why the “surprise” isn’t what you think it is. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The #1 mistake guys make when buying a ring—and how to avoid it Why just “surprising her” is mostly dead (and what actually works now) How to figure out her style (even if she sends you a million new ideas after you buy) The right way to use family stones and heirlooms without losing meaning How to handle the money talk (and why the price is nobody’s business but yours) Real-world advice for guys who feel lost or overwhelmed by the process Why finding “your jeweler” matters more than any brand or store Key Quotes from Carter: “The most common mistake guys make is thinking they know what she wants, instead of actually checking with her—or her mom, sister, or best friend.” “Jewelry is personal. If it’s not her style, she won’t wear it, even if you love it.” “Don’t let anyone pressure you. Take your time, ask questions, and get educated.” Why This Episode Matters for Guys Buying Rings: If you’re worried about blowing it, or just want to get it right the first time, this episode gives you the real-world playbook: How to get her style right (even if she “changes her mind” halfway through) What to do with family rings and old gold How to set a budget you’re actually comfortable with—no three-months-salary BS Why collaborating with a jeweler you trust makes the whole process easier (and way less stressful) Carter’s Top Advice: Don’t guess. Ask her, or ask her inner circle. If she says “surprise me,” a classic round solitaire is your safest bet. Check her Pinterest or Instagram—the answer is probably there. Set your own budget—never go into debt for a ring. Find a jeweler who feels like “your guy”—someone you can text, call, and trust. Who Is Carter? Carter Eve is a custom jeweler, trained goldsmith, and owner of Carter Eve Jewelry, known for heirloom redesigns, value-driven sourcing, and an authentic approach to jewelry design. She helps guys get the ring right—without the hype or pressure, which makes her a perfect guest for the show. Resources Mentioned: Carter Eve Jewelry: Andy’s book: The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring Connect with Buy Like A Guy: Need real, honest help finding a ring or a jeweler you can trust? Email Andy at Website: Instagram: @ Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 92 - Part II: The Truth About Natural Diamonds: Beauty, Character & Meaning
12/11/2025
Ep. 92 - Part II: The Truth About Natural Diamonds: Beauty, Character & Meaning
Ever wonder how a diamond actually gets from deep in the earth… to a jeweler’s case… to her hand? Part II of Andy’s conversation with Ari Jain from House of Diamonds uncovers the real, behind-the-scenes process of how natural diamonds are mined, cut, graded, and selected — long before a consumer ever sees them. If you’ve ever held a diamond and thought, “Why does this tiny thing cost so much?” This episode gives you an honest, insider explanation. Ari’s eight-generation lineage, starting in Jaipur’s royal courts, brings a rare perspective on craftsmanship, authenticity, and what truly determines a diamond’s value. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How a natural diamond gets to the showcase: The full journey — mining, sorting, rough planning, cutting, polishing, grading, and wholesale — and why each step matters for quality and value. Why two diamonds with the same certificate can be totally different: The human decisions, artistry, and limitations of grading systems that make every stone unique. What “value” in a diamond really means: How to look beyond price and paper to find a stone worth owning. The role of independent jewelers: Why reputable independents reject most stones they see, and how that benefits you as a buyer. How reputation drives the diamond industry: From miners to cutters to retailers, the best people only work with those they trust. Why a diamond should be personal, not perfect: Meaning, story, and character matter more than flawless specs. Key Quotes from Ari: “The consumer only sees the final diamond in the case. They never see the hundreds of hours and decisions that came before it.” “A lower-color stone or a stone with visible inclusions can actually be more beautiful. It gives the diamond identity.” “Reputation is the most valuable currency in the diamond industry.” “When you buy from an independent jeweler, you’re getting accountability — and someone who actually cares.” “Jewelry isn’t just financial. It centers you. It makes you feel something. That’s worth paying for.” Why This Episode Matters for Engagement Ring Buyers: If you're shopping for an engagement ring — or weighing natural vs. lab-grown — this episode will help you avoid: misunderstanding diamond pricing relying too much on certificates choosing the wrong stone based on specs alone falling for “perfect” stones that look average in person overlooking diamonds with true personality and beauty Understanding the journey of a natural diamond will help you appreciate what you’re really buying — and why no two stones are ever the same. Who Is Ari Jain? Ari is part of an eight-generation jewelry legacy originating in Jaipur’s royal courts. Today, he’s a key member of House of Diamonds, a New York–based natural diamond firm focused on authenticity, transparency, and ethical sourcing. He represents a new generation blending heritage with modern insight. Resources Mentioned: House of Diamonds: Contact Ari: Andy’s book: The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring, Connect with Andy: Need help finding a trusted jeweler? Email Andy at and I’ll point you in the right direction. Andy's Jewelry Store: Instagram: @, @, @ Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 91 - Natural Diamonds: Nature's Greatest Masterpiece with Ari Jain
11/27/2025
Ep. 91 - Natural Diamonds: Nature's Greatest Masterpiece with Ari Jain
Thinking about buying an engagement ring — or trying to decide between a natural diamond and a lab-grown diamond? This episode cuts through all the noise, hype, and half-truths in the diamond world. Part I of Andy's conversation with Ari from House of Diamonds (an eight-generation diamond expert with roots in Jaipur's royal gemstone trade) dives into the emotional, spiritual, and practical realities of buying a natural diamond — from the meaning behind natural stones to why warmer colors are making a comeback. If you're a guy trying to buy the right stone for the woman you love, this episode will calm the nerves and sharpen your instincts. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The story behind natural diamonds: Why Ari calls them "nature's greatest masterpiece," and why the story matters Natural vs. lab-grown — the truth: Is one "better"? Or are consumers being pushed in the wrong direction? Why J-color or K-color natural diamonds might be your best choice: How guys are saving thousands by choosing warmer stones with real character The spiritual side of diamonds: Yes, energy is real — and Ari has the stories to back it up How to choose a jeweler you can trust: Why independent jewelers beat mass-market retailers every time Key Quotes from Ari: "Natural diamonds are nature's greatest artwork — billions of years old. When a man is making a sacred bond with a woman, he should give her something rare, real, and born of the earth." "People have been preferring warmer color diamonds. They want G to J color because they want to show it's natural." "The jeweler you buy from matters more than the certificate. Trust the person who does this every day." "The world has become too financial and not personal enough. Jewelry is still personal — it's emotional. And that matters." Natural vs. Lab-Grown (The Real Difference): Natural diamonds: Billions of years old, finite supply Hold value over time due to rarity Carry emotional and symbolic weight Can be passed down with a real story Lab-grown diamonds: Created in weeks in a factory Unlimited supply, depreciating value Chemically identical, but no origin story Ari's take: "When a man is making a sacred bond with a woman, he should give her something rare, real, and born of the earth." The Warmer Diamond Secret: Warmer natural diamonds (J, K, L color) are becoming more desirable because they have character and look distinctly natural. They're significantly less expensive than colorless stones and look beautiful in yellow gold or vintage settings. Ari's insight: "People are calling me for three-carat-plus stones, but they don't want G color. They'll pay me more for J to K color." Why Independent Jewelers Matter: Ari's take: "I think all consumers should prioritize independent retailers. The owners are always in the store. They care about the store. That shows you the owner actually cares about it." The difference: Independent jewelers build lifelong relationships They have accountability — reputation is everything They personalize and customize jewelry Mass-market retailers only push profit, not education or trust Who Is Ari? Ari is part of an eight-generation gemstone and diamond family whose roots trace back to Jaipur's royal courts. Today, his company House of Diamonds specializes in natural diamonds, rare color stones, and ethical sourcing. Resources Mentioned: House of Diamonds: Contact Ari: sales@hod.live Want Personal Help? Email Andy directly: Read the book: The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring - available on . Subscribe to Buy Like A Guy on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 90 - How to Buy Your First Luxury Watch Without Getting Scammed
11/13/2025
Ep. 90 - How to Buy Your First Luxury Watch Without Getting Scammed
Thinking about buying your first real watch? Here's what the dealers won't tell you about ghost listings, fake prices, and why that "deal" you found online doesn't actually exist. Part II of Andy's conversation with Christian Bruhn from The Art of Time dives into the messy reality of buying luxury watches in 2025 — where online listings lie, auction prices mislead, and first-time buyers get burned by doing their own "research." What You'll Learn in This Episode: Ghost listings exposed: Why that Rolex Daytona you found online for $8K cheaper probably doesn't exist (and what luxury drop-shipping really means) The trust problem: How to find an honest watch dealer when everyone online claims to be an expert Watches as art, not commodities: Why buying for resale value is the wrong approach for your first luxury timepiece The secondary market advantage: How to get a better watch for 25-40% less than authorized dealer pricing (with full warranty transfer) First-time buyer mistakes: What guys get wrong when shopping for Rolex, Omega, Breitling, and other high-end watches Where to actually start: The 3 questions you need to answer before you spend $5K-$50K on a watch Key Quotes from Christian Bruhn: "You'll have individuals interested in a watch doing their own research, and their research leads them to ghost listings that aren't in stock and bottom auction pricing that isn't realistic. Then they come to me saying they want it for X, Y, and Z." "For first-time buyers, I would say trust the dealer. Trust the person doing this every day, because it's getting harder and harder to tell what's real online." "When you go into a boutique and walk outside, that watch settles into the secondary market and is now competing against every single boutique in the mall versus just the one you walked in." Why This Matters for First-Time Watch Buyers: If you're the guy who's always said "someday I'm gonna get a nice watch," this episode will save you thousands of dollars and massive headaches. Christian breaks down: How online watch pricing is flooded with fake listings for SEO purposes Why authorized dealer pricing doesn't reflect real market value The smart way to buy gold watches as an investment (hint: melt value matters) How to avoid the hype and buy what actually fits your style and lifestyle Christian Bruhn is a former 75th Ranger Regiment member who founded The Art of Time, a luxury watch dealership focused on authenticity, education, and helping collectors buy smart. He sources rare timepieces, navigates the secondary market daily, and calls out the BS that confuses first-time buyers. Resources Mentioned: : Christian's luxury watch dealership () Contact Christian: | Instagram: Part I of this conversation: "" (Episode #89, October 30, 2025) Luxury Bazaar: Roman Scharf and Adrian's content on watch market realities Platforms discussed: Chrono24, Grailed auctions, gray market dealers Connect with Buy Like A Guy: Need help finding a trusted jeweler? Email Andy at and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Read the book: The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring (available on Amazon) Subscribe to Buy Like A Guy on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 89 - The Art of Time: How to Buy a Real Watch with Christian Bruhn
10/30/2025
Ep. 89 - The Art of Time: How to Buy a Real Watch with Christian Bruhn
When a guy decides he wants a real watch — something with meaning, quality, and story — he walks straight into a jungle of hype, counterfeits, and confusion. In this two-part conversation, Andy Koehn talks with Christian Bruhn, founder of The Art of Time and former member of the 75th Ranger Regiment, about the world of luxury watches, collecting with intention, and buying your first Rolex or high-end timepiece the right way. They cover everything from building trust in a world full of fakes to spotting real value, avoiding ghost listings, and understanding what makes a watch worth collecting. Whether you’re deep into watch collecting or just curious how to start, this episode will help you see timepieces as art — not commodities. Guests: Christian Bruhn — Founder, Host: Andy Koehn — Author of and creator of If you'd like help finding a jeweler closer to home, email me at and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Diamonds As Bad Investments
06/27/2025
Diamonds As Bad Investments
Episode Overview Andy takes on the YouTube critics and industry cynics head-on, delivering a family legacy perspective on why dismissing diamonds as "bad investments" completely misses the fucking point. From his grandfather's 1919 start in the business to today's lab-grown revolution, this episode cuts through the financial advisor bullshit to reveal what diamonds are really worth. Key Takeaways The Investment Reality Check: Not once has Andy heard someone say "I'd like your finest appreciating asset, please" Diamonds end up on fingers of teachers, truck drivers, accountants - people marking moments, not building portfolios That "worthless investment" often outlasts first houses, careers, and everything else people own Ask anyone celebrating their golden anniversary if their diamond was a good investment Historical Truth Bomb: Diamonds in engagement rings since the 1400s - Archduke Maximilian started the trend in 1477 That's 400 years before De Beers existed, 500 years before marketing executives were even a thing "A Diamond is Forever" amplified the tradition but didn't create it Humans have always been drawn to rare, beautiful shit that lasts - it's why the Louvre isn't full of Dollar Store crap The Hidden Logic: Hardest natural substance on the planet (perfect 10 on Mohs scale) Transparent - light passes through without distortion Forged under intense pressure deep within the earth Unlike other gems that fade or cloud, diamonds stay brilliant for generations Customer brought in grandmother's 1923 diamond - after cleaning, sparkled like brand new Natural vs. Lab-Grown Investment Reality: Lab-grown are chemically identical but prices are in free fall Natural diamonds: billions of years to form, millions to find and extract They're finite, ancient, with history predating humanity Natural values historically increase; lab-grown prices dropping fast Like owning a Monet vs. owning a poster of a Monet The Artistry Factor: Diamond cutting isn't automated factory process - it's generational craft Cutters visualize how to release a rough diamond's potential Weeks of precise cuts to maximize brilliance One wrong move = thousands lost in value Gabi Tolkowsky: "I imagine myself inside the crystal and see where I want the light to go" Value Beyond Balance Sheets: Sold diamonds to multimillionaires and kids who saved forever Sometimes big-ass diamonds carry expected weight, sometimes tiny stones pack the biggest punch Favorite customers return yearly, sharing proposal stories and struggles to afford their ring Diamond becomes physical embodiment of shared history Memorable Quote "Some things in life aren't meant to be measured on a balance sheet. When you're 90 years old, you won't be calculating compound interest you missed out on - you'll be remembering the moment you proposed and all the years that followed." The Bottom Line When you're 90, that diamond will still be sparkling, still carrying the weight of your shared history. Whatever you paid will seem like the bargain of a lifetime because some investments pay dividends that can't be measured in dollars. What's Next Lab-grown diamonds: The new kid on the block - time to clear up what they actually are and if they're right for you. Contact Andy Email: andy@buylikeaguy.com For personal jewelry and diamond consultation About the Book "The Inappropriate Guide to Buying An Engagement Ring" is available on . Andy is creating an audio version while keeping the podcast going by reading chapters on the show. Warning: Contains raw language, unfiltered advice, and the kind of talk you'd get from your most honest friend after a few drinks. Next Episode Chapter 4 coming soon - Lab-grown diamonds: The new kid on the block. Connect with Buy Like A Guy: Available wherever you get your podcasts. Book available on Show notes compiled from episode transcript
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The Four C's (Part 2)-Clarity and Carat Weight
06/13/2025
The Four C's (Part 2)-Clarity and Carat Weight
Chapter 2: The Four C's (Part 2) Episode Overview Andy finishes the Four C's conversation with Clarity and Carat Weight, delivers his legendary Diamond-to-Steak conversion chart, and cuts through the industry's microscopic bullshit to give you what actually matters when you're standing in that jewelry store. Key Takeaways The Clarity Reality Check: She doesn't need a flawless diamond unless she specifically asked for one - she just wants it to look that way Clarity grades are determined by gemologists with microscopes, not naked eyes in natural lighting The difference between technically flawless and "looks flawless" can save you thousands 99% of diamond inclusions are invisible without specialized equipment Focus on VS2-SI1 for best value - they look identical to higher grades but cost significantly less Carat Weight - Size vs. Reality: One carat = 0.2 grams = about one Skittle (finally, a measurement that makes sense) Carat measures weight, not size - two diamonds can weigh the same but look completely different Diamond cutters face a constant battle: preserve weight (money) vs. create ideal proportions (beauty) The real artists sacrifice weight for performance every time The Money-Saving Secret: Diamonds jump in price at half and whole carat marks A 0.9 carat might cost 20% less than a 1.0 carat of identical quality Nobody can spot the difference with the naked eye Buy just under those magic thresholds: 0.9 instead of 1.0, 1.4 instead of 1.5 The Quick Decision Guide: Cut Grade: Excellent/Ideal worth every penny, Very Good is the sweet spot, Good or lower proceed with caution Color: G-H is the sweet spot, I-J smart value, D-F if you have the budget and appreciate the difference Clarity: VS2-SI1 best value, SI2 can work if inspected, Flawless-VVS for bragging rights The Diamond-to-Steak Conversion Chart: Cut = Chef's Skill: Best beef poorly cooked is a travesty, average beef perfectly cooked is a religious experience Color & Clarity = Grade of Beef: Prime costs more than choice, you're paying for rarity within rarity Carat Weight = Portion Size: An 8-ounce filet costs more than a 6-ounce of the same quality Memorable Quote "A good diamond will be good forever. A bad diamond will be bad forever." - Andy's reminder that this decision has permanent consequences. What's Next The "investment value" of diamonds - and dear Lord, they've got it so wrong. Contact Andy Email: andy@buylikeaguy.com For personal jewelry and diamond consultation About the Book "The Inappropriate Guide to Buying An Engagement Ring" is available on Amazon. Andy is creating an audio version while keeping the podcast going by reading chapters on the show. Warning: Contains raw language, unfiltered advice, and the kind of talk you'd get from your most honest friend after a few drinks. Next Episode Chapter 3 coming soon - more straight talk and war stories from the jewelry trenches. Connect with Buy Like A Guy: Available wherever you get your podcasts Book available on Amazon Show notes compiled from episode transcript
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The Four C's (Part 1)
06/06/2025
The Four C's (Part 1)
Episode Overview Andy breaks down the diamond industry's "sacred scripture" - the Four C's - but cuts through the BS to give you what you actually need to know. This is part one of a two-part deep dive into diamond grading, focusing on Cut and Color. Key Takeaways The Bottom Line on Diamond Education: You'll spend roughly 2 hours of your entire life discussing the Four C's Don't overthink it - learn enough to have an intelligent conversation with a pro Find someone you trust to guide you through the rest Why the Four C's Exist: Created by GIA in the 1940s to standardize diamond grading Before this, buying diamonds was like the Wild West Gave everyone a common language (that's why color starts at D) Cut - The King of the Four C's: Cut is everything - it's what makes a diamond come alive Not about shape (round, oval, etc.) - it's about proportions and craftsmanship A great cut can make a diamond worth twice as much as a poorly cut one Andy's advice: "Get the best damn cut you can afford. Everything else is negotiable." Color Demystified: Scale runs D (colorless) to Z (noticeably yellow/brown) D-F: Exceptional white, priced accordingly G-H: Looks white to most people I-J: Still looks great, especially in yellow gold Most people can't tell D from H without training and special equipment The Reality Check: Your fiancé won't be carrying master stones around to compare Don't pay for colorless if near colorless looks the same to you But some guys want top shelf just for the satisfaction of knowing what they have Memorable Quote "I'll know." - The client who taught Andy that sometimes it's not about what others can see, it's about personal satisfaction. What's Next Part 2 will cover Clarity and Carat Weight - the remaining two C's that complete the diamond grading system. Contact Andy Email: For personal jewelry and diamond consultation About the Book "The Inappropriate Guide to Buying An Engagement Ring" is available on Amazon. Andy is creating an audio version while keeping the podcast going by reading chapters on the show. Warning: Contains raw language, unfiltered advice, and the kind of talk you'd get from your most honest friend after a few drinks. Next Episode Chapter 2-Part 2 coming soon - more straight talk and war stories from the jewelry trenches. Connect with Buy Like A Guy: Available wherever you get your podcasts Book available on Show notes compiled from episode transcript
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Finding Your Guy on the Inside
05/30/2025
Finding Your Guy on the Inside
Episode Overview Andy reads Chapter 1 from his new book, "The Inappropriate Guide to Buying An Engagement Ring" - a no-bullshit diamond and ring buying guide for guys who'd rather be anywhere else than a jewelry store. This episode covers the single most important piece of advice for buying an engagement ring without getting screwed over. Key Takeaways The Golden Rule: Find a jewelry store where you feel comfortable going. That's it. That's the secret. Why This Matters: Walking into most jewelry stores feels unnatural for guys Everything's behind glass, salespeople hover like vultures You suddenly don't know what to do with your hands It's a special kind of hell for men who've fallen in love Finding Your Unicorn Jewelry Store: Ask friends who actually know you and get your style Search for independent jewelers online Check their reviews, website, and social media Look for their vibe - stuffy/formal vs. laid back/approachable How to Find Your "Guy on the Inside" Three Methods: Email the store - Tell them you need help. If the response feels too formal or generic, move on. Call them - A good jeweler on the phone is like a good first date - there's either chemistry or there isn't. Walk in and get down to business - Most terrifying but nothing beats face-to-face. You'll know within 5 minutes if it's your place. What Your "Guy" Should Do Ask questions about her taste and what you want to give her Address your budget head-on (it's part of the equation) Guide you like that bartender who remembers your drink and steers you toward the good stuff Make you feel like a human being, not a walking wallet with commitment issues Andy's Controversial Advice When it feels right - buy it. Don't do the "I need to look around" dance that fear makes you think you have to do. When it clicks, it clicks. Pull the trigger and be done with it. Why this works: Saves weeks of second-guessing Prevents comparing minute details that won't matter in 5 years You don't need to become a diamond expert - you need someone you trust who does this for a living The Bottom Line Find a jewelry store where you don't feel like you're standing there with your zipper open (but check that before you go in, just to be safe). Connect with someone who speaks your language, not "diamond-ese." When it feels right, trust your gut and pull the trigger. About the Book "The Inappropriate Guide to Buying An Engagement Ring" is available on Amazon. Andy is creating an audio version while keeping the podcast going by reading chapters on the show. Warning: Contains raw language, unfiltered advice, and the kind of talk you'd get from your most honest friend after a few drinks. Next Episode Chapter 2 coming soon - more straight talk and war stories from the jewelry trenches. Connect with Buy Like A Guy: Available wherever you get your podcasts Book available on Show notes compiled from episode transcript
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The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring
05/23/2025
The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring
This is the first installment of the audiobook version of my book The Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring. I’ll be releasing one chapter a week, right here in the podcast feed. If you'd rather read the whole thing now (because waiting is for people in line at the DMV), you can grab the full book on Kindle or paperback by clicking . Full transcript below (Oh and hey! This is all copyrighted so don't steal my shit.) This is the "Inappropriate Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring- Irreverent Wisdom From an Industry Insider. Short, Simple, and Straight to the Point." Introduction: I don't care what's under the hood of my car. I'm pretty sure there's an engine in there, but I'll be damned if I know what it's about. And frankly, I don't care. I wanna go fast when I need to and slow when I don't. That's it. Good to go. Some guys get off on knowing every detail about their engine. The compression ratios, the torque curves, the whole mechanical circle jerk. They're the same guys who can tell you the exact temperature their bourbon was aged at or why their guitars, pickups are superior to every other pickup ever manufactured. But here's what 30 years in the trenches of the diamond business has taught me. Buying an engagement ring isn't about becoming an expert. It's about doing something incredible for someone you love. Somewhere between the YouTube rabbit holes about ideal cut grades and the forums full of guys comparing certification numbers like fantasy football stats, we've lost the plot. You are not here because you woke up thinking, man, I really need to learn about crystalline structures today. You're here because you found someone who makes your, he beat faster and you want to do this right? The problem is the diamond industry has turned what should be one of life's most romantic moments into something that. Feels like studying for a final exam you never signed up for. And that's why I wrote this book, not to turn you into some diamond grading savant, but to give you just enough knowledge to work with someone who actually knows their stuff. Think of it as your cheat sheet for navigating this world while keeping your sanity intact. And yes, I'm mostly addressing the guys buying rings for their girlfriends in this book. But if you're buying for your boyfriend or you're a woman buying for your girlfriend, the advice works just the same. The diamond doesn't give a damn who's wearing it and neither do I. What matters is what that ring symbolizes between two people who found something that's worth keeping. I've spent years watching guys walk into my store looking like they're about to face a firing squad. Armed with printouts of diamond specs and enough anxiety to power laws Vegas for a week. There are shell-shocked veterans of a war they never needed to fight. . So here's what I'm going to do. I'm gonna cut through the bullshit and tell you what actually matters. Not the marketing hype or technical jargon, but the real deal, the stuff that makes a difference when you're standing there ring in hand, heart pounding about to ask the biggest question of your life. We'll cover just enough technical stuff to keep you informed, but more importantly, we'll talk about finding someone you can trust to handle the heavy lifting. Because this isn't about becoming a diamond expert, as I've said, it's about making a moment unforgettable. There are plenty of great professionals who live. For helping people like you create those perfect moments. Your job isn't to become one of us. It's to find one of us. You click with. So grab a beer, get comfortable, and let's cut through the noise together. By the time we're done, you'll know exactly how to handle this whole ring thing without losing your mind, your savings or your romantic soul in the process. Now buckle up and let's do this. If you'd like help finding a jeweler closer to home, email me at and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 88 - Taking A Break
07/25/2024
Ep. 88 - Taking A Break
Andy here with an announcement. I'm taking a break for the next couple of months so I can line up some guests I plan on having on the show. I plan on being back in October, ready with new episodes hot off the press so stay tuned for that. I want to make sure I'm delivering value in these episodes, so if you've learned something or know of someone who would be a great fit for the show definitely let me know! If you'd like help finding a jeweler closer to home, email me at and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 87 - Ask Andy: A Quick and Easy Way to Ruin The Moment
07/18/2024
Ep. 87 - Ask Andy: A Quick and Easy Way to Ruin The Moment
I'm going to share something I learned first hand about what you should not do when you buy and give something as special as an engagement ring, an anniversary gift...hell...any gift for that matter. I get right to the point when I tell you, "Don't tell her how much it cost. Not even a hint." Telling her what you paid for something can quickly turn a special moment into an awkward one. She's not going to feel cherished, loved, or appreciated if you disclose the price tag. It'll be more along the lines of uncomfortable embarrassment. I want to be clear, this isn't one of those "men are stupid" rants that are ubiquitous on the interwebs these days. Nah...this comes from a real-life experience, and while you think I would know better...I'M the guy that did it! (I gave my wife a gift and on more than occasion I hinted at how it cost much more than she would've thought. What a boob I was. So stupid.) And have to tell you, this advice applies to all gifts. The price tag is none of her business. I understand where this desire to reveal the cost comes from – sometimes, we're just genuinely proud of what we're giving her and we want a significant reaction. That's okay, but remember that it will come over time, in stories, maybe some bragging, or perhaps a sweet moment when she says, "You shouldn't have." When you give her those earrings, that engagement ring, or whatever it may be, keep the price to yourself. There's never a time when it's chivalrous to tell how much you've spent on her, so don't do it. On a related note, when you give her the gift or she sees her engagement ring for the first time, give her a little time to absorb it all. Her reaction may not come immediately, and that's perfectly fine. Sometimes she needs a few moments to process all the glitter and glory that's been bestowed on her, so relax, and let the moment unfold naturally. Now, for the ladies listening, here's something our sales associate, Lindsay, asked me to mention: when your significant other gives you fine jewelry that might not be your style, accept it gracefully, even if it's not your style. In almost every case it's better to accept the gift, and remember why he gave it (because he loves you) and keep it. That's how I was brought up – a gift is a gift, and it's the thought that counts. Of course I understand that fine jewelry often involves a significant investment, and if it's not your style, you probably won't wear it much. Nobody wants that, so if it's just too hideous for you to wear, an exchange is probably in order. If you do decide to exchange the gift, please be gentle when you tell him. You don't have to say it "right out of the box," as they say; give him a moment to feel proud of what he did for you. Then, when the time feels right, you can thank him for the gift, and explain that you'd like to exchange it for something more your style. This way, he won't feel like a failure in your eyes. You can guide him, teach him about your style, and even fill out a Wish List while you're exchanging your gift for the next big occasion. 😉 If you'd like help finding a jeweler closer to home, email me at and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify: This episode was originally published in October 2023.
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Ep. 86 - Love Unscripted: Bridging the "In-Between" with a Commitment Ring
07/11/2024
Ep. 86 - Love Unscripted: Bridging the "In-Between" with a Commitment Ring
In this episode, I'll talk about the concept of the commitment ring, that beautiful bridge between dating and engagement. Whether you’re sipping beers at a cookout or pondering your future, this episode dives into the emotional significance of giving and receiving a ring that says, “We’re in this together.” Join me as I discuss why a commitment ring is more than just jewelry—it’s a powerful declaration of love and dedication. Here's the link to If you want to talk with me personally you can email me at . Or if you'd like help finding a jewelry store closer to home, drop me a line and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 85 - Ask Andy: Lab-Grown Diamonds or Natural Diamonds?
07/04/2024
Ep. 85 - Ask Andy: Lab-Grown Diamonds or Natural Diamonds?
In this episode we're going to dip our toes into the realm of lab-grown diamonds. I'll shed a little light on the ever-evolving diamond industry, exploring the distinctions between lab-grown and natural diamonds, their formation processes, and the ongoing debate surrounding their place in the fine jewelry world. Lab-Grown Diamonds: A Historical Perspective It may come as a surprise, but lab-grown diamonds trace their beginnings to the 1950s when General Electric crafted the first industrial-grade diamond crystals. Technological advancements have propelled the creation of larger, gem-quality lab-grown diamonds, revolutionizing the world of fine jewelry with their remarkable beauty. Are Lab-Grown Diamonds Actually Diamonds? I'll answer this hot button question that I get all the time. The fact is, lab grown diamonds have the same crystal structure, hardness, and optical properties of natural diamonds. So what do you think the answer is? There ARE Differences: I'll explore the distinct processes of lab grown and natural diamonds formation, trace their origins, and unravel the cost disparities that exist between the two. Gain insights into the rarity, affordability, and sentimental value associated with each type, empowering you to make an enlightened decision aligned with your personal preferences. The Power of Choice: The fact is, you DO have a choice, and there's an easy way to make it: trust your gut. Ultimately, the decision between lab-grown and natural diamonds rests with you, ensuring that the symbol of love and commitment you choose carries the significance and impact you want to deliver. If you want to talk with me personally you can email me at . Or if you'd like help finding a jewelry store closer to home, drop me a line and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify: This episode was originally published in June 2023.
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Ep. 84 - Ask Andy: How Much Should You Spend On An Engagement Ring?
06/27/2024
Ep. 84 - Ask Andy: How Much Should You Spend On An Engagement Ring?
One of the most common questions I get is, how much does an engagement ring cost? Or how much should I spend to get a decent ring? Now there is no single answer to that, but today I'll share some numbers that might help you and then give you the single best answer I know of. If you want to talk with me personally you can email me at . I'm happy to personally help you find the right jewelry for your special occasion, or put you in touch with a jewelry pro that's closer to home. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify: This episode was originally published January 2023.
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Ep. 83 - Diamond Fluorescence: How Excited Electrons Can Save You Money and Light Up the Dance Floor
06/20/2024
Ep. 83 - Diamond Fluorescence: How Excited Electrons Can Save You Money and Light Up the Dance Floor
In this episode, I'll discuss diamond fluorescence, a topic that is rarely talked about. I'll explain what fluorescence is in my own words, and how it affects the appearance and value of a diamond. I'll also address the question of whether fluorescence is a "good or bad" thing and per usual, how the ultimate answer to that question comes down to personal preference. You'll learn a few things about this lesser-known aspect of diamond buying. Takeaways Fluorescence refers to the discharge of light that occurs when a diamond is exposed to ultraviolet light. Approximately 25-30% of diamonds exhibit some degree of fluorescence. Fluorescence can cancel out the yellowish tint in near colorless diamonds, making them appear whiter. Fluorescence can lower the price of diamonds, making them a bargain for some buyers. Personal preference is key when deciding whether fluorescence is desirable in a diamond. If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy or girl,” that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 82 - Crafting Time Part II: The Artistry, Challenge and Value of Independent Watches and the People Who Make Them
06/13/2024
Ep. 82 - Crafting Time Part II: The Artistry, Challenge and Value of Independent Watches and the People Who Make Them
In this episode Tim Jackson, founder of , continues our chat about the Independent Watch world, something most people know very little about. We'll talk more about the dedication, discipline, and expertise required to excel in this field. The craftsmanship, technology, and artistry behind mechanical timepieces is impressive to say the least! These watchmakers have a lot of skin in the game, and the successful ones continue to produce fine timepieces year-after-year. Takeaways: Tim emphasizes the value of independent watchmaking as a form of micro-mechanical horological art, distinct from mass-produced timepieces. He also sheds light on the dedication, passion, and skill required to bring an independent watchmaker's vision to life, highlighting the unique qualities of their creations. Follow Tim's Instagram page at , or reach him via email at . If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy or girl,” that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 81 - Crafting Time: The Artistry, Challenge, and Value of Independent Watches and The People Who Make Them
06/06/2024
Ep. 81 - Crafting Time: The Artistry, Challenge, and Value of Independent Watches and The People Who Make Them
It was a pleasure to welcome Tim Jackson on the show again! Tim is the founder and owner of Independent In Time, and a passionate supporter and dealer for Independent Watches and they people who make them. He shares his journey into this niche industry and the unique challenges faced by Independent Watchmakers. The discussion also explores the dedication, discipline, and expertise required to excel in this field. The craftsmanship, technology, and artistry behind mechanical timepieces is beyond comprehension for someone like me, and I must say my appreciation is sky high after this interview. The challenges and unique qualities of independent watchmakers compared to established brands are worth considering when you decide if their watches are worth the price you'll pay. (They are.) Takeaways The world of independent watchmakers is a niche industry that requires dedication, discipline, and expertise. Crafting mechanical timepieces involves intricate details and precision, with a focus on traditional watchmaking techniques. The journey of independent watchmakers involves overcoming unique challenges and competing with established brands in the industry. Independent watchmakers combine mechanical expertise and aesthetic design, showcasing a rare blend of skills. The process of creating a mechanical watch involves meticulous hand-finishing, precision assembly, and rigorous testing for accuracy. The marketing landscape for independent watchmakers has evolved, allowing direct connection with potential customers through social media and the internet. Be sure to find and follow Tim's Instagram page at , and I'd love to connect with you on the page as well! If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy,” (and of course you can be a woman) that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 80 - Bourbon Slang: The Angel’s Share, The Devil's Cut, Tater's, Legs, and Other Such Things
05/30/2024
Ep. 80 - Bourbon Slang: The Angel’s Share, The Devil's Cut, Tater's, Legs, and Other Such Things
Me and Derek, our resident bourbon expert, explore more aspects of the bourbon world, including brand loyalty, the cost of collecting bourbon, and the emotional connection people have with their favorite brands. We talk about 'taters' (bourbon enthusiasts who wait in line for rare bottles and collect them without opening) as well as some other bourbon slang, such as the 'angel's share' (the alcohol vapor that evaporates from the barrel during aging) and the 'devil's cut' (the bourbon that soaks into the wood of the barrel). What about a "fake tan," a reference to distillers adding artificial caramel coloring to bourbon to make it appear like it has aged longer. We also discuss bourgon related topics like the difference between whiskey and bourbon, the use of flavorings and finishes, the importance of glassware, and the moonshine. We cover a lot, and I can tell you that it brought up another idea for our next episode: History Lessons from the Bourbon World. Takeaways The bourbon world is more complex and involved than expected, with a wide range of brands and information to explore. Brand loyalty is common among bourbon enthusiasts, who find emotional connections to their favorite brands. Collecting bourbon can be costly, especially when seeking rare and limited-edition bottles. The 'angel's share' refers to the alcohol vapor that evaporates from the barrel during aging, while the 'devil's cut' is the bourbon that soaks into the wood of the barrel. There are discussions about the possibility of distillers adding artificial caramel coloring to bourbon to make it appear aged longer. Bourbon is a type of whiskey that must meet specific legal requirements, including being made in the United States and aged in new charred oak barrels. Flavorings can be added to whiskey, but not to bourbon. However, bourbon can be finished in different barrels to add additional flavors. The choice of glassware, such as the Glencairn glass, can enhance the tasting experience by concentrating aromas and maintaining the temperature of the whiskey. Moonshine refers to illegally distilled spirits, and the term should not be used to describe legally produced grain liquor. Personal preference plays a significant role in choosing and enjoying bourbon, and there is no right or wrong way to drink it. If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy,” (and of course you can be a woman) that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 79 - Men's Wedding Rings: From Gold to Breastmilk (Yes, You Read That Right.)
05/23/2024
Ep. 79 - Men's Wedding Rings: From Gold to Breastmilk (Yes, You Read That Right.)
[Look at me. I'm your expert now.] In this episode, I'm going to talk about the different materials used to make men's wedding rings. I'll cover the most popular options like gold, platinum, titanium, tungsten carbide, palladium, tantalum, and cobalt, and touch on additional materials you've heard of, and probably not heard of. (A ring made with breast milk?) I'll explain the advantages and disadvantages of each material and ultimately settle on the most important aspect to consider: your personal likes and dislikes. (I know...revolutionary!) Key Takeaways: Gold: A timeless choice, but prone to scratching and denting. Platinum: Durable, tarnish-resistant, and patina-prone. Titanium: Lightweight, hypoallergenic, but non-resizable. Tungsten Carbide: Ultra-durable, but can shatter. Palladium: Platinum-like, but potentially pricier. Tantalum: Shades of gray, with resizing challenges. Cobalt: Affordable, bright white, but not easily resized. Even More Materials: From meteorite to breast milk. There are almost endless choices for rings these days. The most Important Thing: The most important factor when choosing a wedding ring is personal preference. If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy,” (and of course you can be a woman) that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 78 - A Man's Guide to Wristwatches Part 2: Finding The Right Watch Style
05/16/2024
Ep. 78 - A Man's Guide to Wristwatches Part 2: Finding The Right Watch Style
Tim Jackson and I continue our discussion about fine watches, and what makes them "tick." Tim is the Founder and Owner of , a company that deals in watches made by Independent Watchmakers from around the world. We cover a lot of ground here, including different watch options, brands, and other things to consider when choosing the perfect timepiece. Key Takeaways: Well known watch brands are a great starting point for discovering what kind of style appeals to you. If the price tag is out of reach, all is not lost! There are alternatives. Micro brands are emerging as exciting contenders. These smaller, enthusiast-driven companies offer unique designs, quality craftsmanship, and affordability. Questions to ask yourself: Is historical prestige essential, or are you open to newer players? Do you prioritize performance, aesthetics, or both? Explore micro brands that blend innovation with affordability. They often deliver impressive features and designs. If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy,” (and of course you can be a woman) that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 77 - A Man's Guide To Wristwatches: How to Choose the Right Watch
05/09/2024
Ep. 77 - A Man's Guide To Wristwatches: How to Choose the Right Watch
In this episode we’re going to talk about watches with Tim Jackson, the Founder and Owner of . He deals in watches that are made by Independent Watchmakers from around the world. When it comes to watches, he knows his sh*t. We talk about the basics of buying a "nice watch," the appeal of owning and collecting fine watches, the different kinds of movements, and ultimately, what you should look for when you’re shopping for a fine quality watch. Key Takeaways: Buying a watch is often about more than just telling time; it can be a form of self-expression and a way to communicate personal style. There are different types of watch movements, including mechanical (self-winding) and quartz (battery-powered), each with its own advantages and characteristics. Determining the quality of a watch can be subjective, but factors such as price, reputation, and craftsmanship can be indicators of a well-made timepiece. The watch industry has a wide range of brands and styles to suit different tastes and budgets, from classic and traditional designs to avant-garde and modern aesthetics. Marketing and brand reputation play a significant role in the perception and value of watches, with certain brands commanding higher prices due to their heritage and reputation for quality. If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy,” (and of course you can be a woman) that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 76 - Thinking About Buying a Gun for The First Time? Listen to Leland Before You Do
05/02/2024
Ep. 76 - Thinking About Buying a Gun for The First Time? Listen to Leland Before You Do
In this episode my guest, Leland Conway, provides valuable insights on buying a handgun for the uninitiated. He emphasizes the importance of not relying solely on friends' recommendations or the advice of gun store employees, as the choice of a handgun is a personal and individual decision. (There are exceptions, and he'll cover that as well.) Leland recommends taking a basic firearms class to learn about gun safety, recoil, and different types of handguns. He also suggests going to a gun range and renting different guns to find one that feels comfortable and fits well in the hand. Leland also highlights the importance of responsible gun ownership and the need for proper training and knowledge. Click here to learn more and follow Leland Conway: My Takeaways: Don't rely on friends' recommendations or gun store employees when buying a handgun; it's a personal choice. Take a basic firearms class first to learn about gun safety, recoil, and different types of handguns. Go to a gun range and rent different guns to find one that feels comfortable and fits well in your hand. Responsible gun ownership requires proper training and knowledge. If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy,” (and of course you can be a woman) that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 75 - Glitter & Grit: Pat Finn on the Sparkle of Necessity, Bonds of Friendship, and a Chris Farley Gem
04/25/2024
Ep. 75 - Glitter & Grit: Pat Finn on the Sparkle of Necessity, Bonds of Friendship, and a Chris Farley Gem
In this episode, Pat Finn and I continue our off-the-cuff exploration of the significance of fine jewelry, including a pretty sweet story about Pat's late friend, the legendary Chris Farley, and his love of gift-giving. We get a little sentimental, but it's cool, because that's one of the unexpected powers of jewelry: it can connect us to our past and the people we love the most. Jewelry is more than just shiny trinkets, and we talk about how fine jewelry becomes physical representations of unforgettable moments and intense emotions. Okay, yeah...it's a bit deep, but you won't need a tissue. No tears were shed in the recording of this episode. This isn't about sad stories. It's a more of a quick reality check about why jewelry is, in fact, a necessity in our lives. Grab a drink, sit back, and decide if you agree with us. Here is Pat's IMDB link: His company is Improv+Ability: Reach out to him via email if you have questions: If you want to talk with me personally you can email me at . I'm happy to personally help you find the right jewelry for your special occasion, or put you in touch with a jewelry pro that's closer to home. Or, you can shop online at my jewelry store right here: Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify: This episode was originally published in May, 2023
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Ep. 74 - The Male Experience of Buying Jewelry: Advice and Stories from Pat Finn
04/18/2024
Ep. 74 - The Male Experience of Buying Jewelry: Advice and Stories from Pat Finn
Pat Finn is a well-known actor, comedian, and writer with over 25 years of experience in the entertainment industry. He's appeared in numerous TV shows and movies, including The Middle, Seinfeld, “It’s Complicated,” and the “I Am Chris Farley” documentary. He has an almost endless list of professional accomplishments, and I wanted him on the show because he’s also a husband, father, and regular guy who really seems to “get” the whole jewelry thing. Here is Pat's IMDB link: We’re going to discuss his own experience of buying an engagement ring, how he was clueless about the whole process, and how sometimes you just have to trust the experts. He called me a "Sherpa," in this episode, and you know what? I kinda liked it. His company is Improv+Ability: Reach out to him via email if you have questions: If you want to talk with me personally you can email me at . I'm happy to personally help you find the right jewelry for your special occasion, or put you in touch with a jewelry pro that's closer to home. Or, you can shop online at my jewelry store right here: Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify: This episode was originally published in May, 2023.
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Ep. 73 - The Bourbon Brotherhood: A Beginner's Guide From "A Guy" Who Knows His Sh*t
04/11/2024
Ep. 73 - The Bourbon Brotherhood: A Beginner's Guide From "A Guy" Who Knows His Sh*t
Bourbon continues to be a "go to" for guys who want to move away from cheap beer and fruity drinks, and I support it. It's a crazy big world of choices that are mind boggling, even to seasoned bourbon hunters. My guest today is definitely a guy who can help us traverse the multi-leveled landscape of the bourbon world. Derek works in the heart of Bourbon Country at one of the premier distilleries on the Bourbon Trails of Kentucky. He'll explain the difference between whiskey and bourbon, highlighting that bourbon must adhere to specific laws, including being at least 51% corn and made in America. We'll also touch on the rise in popularity of bourbon in recent years. He'll give us a run down of the ingredients of bourbon, including corn, rye or wheat, and malted barley, and explain how the barrel contributes to the flavor and complexity of bourbon. You'll learn about the timeline for aging bourbon, and how he believes that between eight and 12 years is the magic number for optimal flavor. Just like diamonds, he and I agree that personal preference plays a significant role as to which bourbon is right for you. And of course there is the thrill of collecting bourbons and sharing a pour or two with your friends. (He'll even give a quick tutorial on the correct way to sip it. Freakin' great!) Ultimately, according to Derek, there is no wrong way to drink a worthy bourbon. Cheers! If you need expert advice about something you don’t know much about, and need a little guidance, send me an email at and I’ll do my best to cover it in an upcoming show. If you’re “that guy,” (and of course you can be a woman) that people should hear from because you know your sh*t about a certain subject, please reach out to me, and let’s talk about how we can work together. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 72 - One for the Ladies: What NOT to Do When He's Picking Out His Wedding Ring
04/04/2024
Ep. 72 - One for the Ladies: What NOT to Do When He's Picking Out His Wedding Ring
This is an auspicious moment because in this episode, for the first time, I’m going to address "The Ladies." Specifically, I’m going to talk about what you, as a woman, should NOT do when you and your fella go to look for his wedding ring. When it’s time to pick out his wedding ring, he just might for your opinion. (Most likely he will!) And you should help him out by giving him one. (Or 2 or 3. This shouldn't be a problem for most of the women I know. Ha!) Picture this: A cute couple decides it’s time to pick out his wedding band and so they’re going to go visit their favorite independent jewelry store. (Always go to an independent jewelry store.) What’s going to happen is he’s going to start trying on rings to see how they look. Simple and easy. Maybe. It’s normally awkward for him because this is probably the first time in his whole life that he’s going to pick out a piece of jewelry for himself, so this is completely foreign to him, and he’s in the uncharted waters of the jewelry world yet again. (Not a guy's favorite place to be.) Most men are comfortable talking about cars, a boat, golf clubs, or even a watch for that matter, but the ring he's supposed to wear for the rest of his life? Not so much... He's going to need a little help and at some point he might turn to you and ask, “What do you think of this one?” Now ladies, this is what you should NOT do or say at that point: “I don’t know, you have to wear it.” That is a terrible answer because the person he trusts the most, you, leaves him hanging, and it's embarrassing and offers zero help or direction. When he asks that question it’s most likely because he found a ring style he likes and he’s looking for your approval. So help him out, and have an opinion…and share it. If you don’t have an opinion, it means you’re not paying attention, or maybe you actually don’t care…but you know what? Care. Even if it’s just for a little while. It’s not a big ask, and I can tell you he’ll appreciate it further on up the road. Guys are easy. We ask because we want to know what you think, and most times we’re looking for a verbal nod that, "Yes, I like what you picked out," and even, "I don’t like it, how about that one?” (If that happens you can start to hone in on a ring that you both like and you can move forward with rest of the infinite plans you need to check off the list for your wedding day.) Last tip: Your guy (or girl) wants your opinion, but he/she wants to have a say as well. Be open to that…and if he’s really digging a certain ring style, go with it, because you know what? Your "one-and-only" wants to like their wedding ring too. If you'd like help finding a jeweler closer to home, email me at and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify:
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Ep. 71 - Ask Andy: What is the Custom Jewelry Design Process Like?
03/28/2024
Ep. 71 - Ask Andy: What is the Custom Jewelry Design Process Like?
Customer involvement in designing jewelry is a growing trend in the jewelry business. Independent jewelry stores offer a range of options, from changing metals and gemstones to adding unique touches. However, there's a crucial balance between personalization and potentially compromising the integrity of the original design when people who don't know what they're doing want to get their hands dirty and help create a personal version of something they like. While we'll focus mainly on engagement rings, these principles apply to all custom jewelry projects. It's important to recognize that jewelry design is a nuanced craft that demands expertise. Just because you excel in one area doesn't automatically translate to designing jewelry. It's tempting to assume that with countless designs available, any choice will suffice. However, not all designs are created equal. Some may not stand the test of time or wear well. Fine jewelry is an investment, and it's essential to ensure it endures both in style and quality. Jewelry designers dedicate their careers to mastering their craft. They're experts in working with precious materials to create pieces that are both visually stunning and durable. While you can collaborate with designers and brands to customize existing designs, there's a line that, when crossed, risks compromising the final product. This phenomenon isn't unique to jewelry; professionals in various fields encounter similar challenges. As a client, it's exciting to contribute to the design process, but it's crucial to know when to defer to the experts. Remember, being the boss means trusting your team to do what they do best. If you're considering customizing a piece, be mindful of expert advice. When they gently advise against a certain change, it's probably a good idea to listen to them. Their experience will guide you towards a design that stands the test of time, and will be cherished for a lifetime. While your ideas hold value, sometimes it's best to let seasoned professionals make the final call. If you'd like help finding a jeweler closer to home, email me at and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify: Note: This episode was originally published in September, 2023.
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Ep. 70 - Ask Andy: What is a "Push Present?" and Why It's a Legendary Gift
03/21/2024
Ep. 70 - Ask Andy: What is a "Push Present?" and Why It's a Legendary Gift
A lot of guys have no idea what a “push present” is. I have to confess that until there was a baby in my future, I never heard of it, nor did I know what it was. (And I'm in "the business!") So what is a push present? Is it something you should consider when there’s a baby on the way? First, a push present is a gift that you present to your wife or girlfriend shortly after the baby is born, to celebrate the occasion. The term "push present" originated from the idea that the mother has "pushed" to bring the baby into the world, and the gift is a way to show appreciation for that effort. On the surface a push present seems like it’s a recognition thing for your wife or girlfriend…I mean it kind of is, giving birth is no small feat, and that’s putting it mildly! (First time dad’s: trust me on this. She deserves a damn crown for the blood, sweat and tears that is part and parcel of having a baby!) However, I think it’s way more than recognition because as time goes on, this gift you give her when the baby is born, becomes something more…and its meaning changes. The impact of this piece of jewelry and the gesture behind it, stretches way out into the future. That simple gift will become legendary in your family tree. It is something that can be passed down from one generation to the next, to the next. Imagine the short but true story, "Your daddy gave me this when YOU were born." And then, "My dad gave this to my mom when I was born," and, "My grandfather gave this to my grandmother when my mother or father was born." A push present is a legacy, even if it doesn't feel that way just yet. Legends aren't born, they're made. If you want to talk with me personally you can email me at . I'm happy to personally help you find the right jewelry for your special occasion, or put you in touch with a jewelry pro that's closer to home. Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome. Listen To Preacher Man on Spotify: Note: This episode was originally published in April, 2023.
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