Fit Mess: A Men's Mental Health Podcast
The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health. The Fit Mess podcast provides a judgment-free space for men to laugh and learn as hosts Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater unpack their own struggles with anxiety and depression. By opening up about their personal experiences overcoming mental health challenges, Zach and Jeremy foster candid conversations that help men feel less alone. With plenty of sarcasm and unfiltered honesty, The Fit Mess strives to destigmatize and demystify men's mental health struggles so listeners can take small, achievable steps to make life feel just a little bit less messy.
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How to Find Purpose Through Surrender, with Kute Blackson
03/26/2024
How to Find Purpose Through Surrender, with Kute Blackson
Summary: Have you ever felt trapped, struggling to break free from the patterns and beliefs that hold you back? In this insightful conversation, transformational teacher Kute Blackson offers a fresh perspective on the power of surrender – a practice that can unlock your true potential and help you live a more purposeful life. You'll gain a deeper understanding of your ego's conditioning, learn how to embrace the truth within yourself, and discover practical strategies to cultivate self-compassion, integrity, and alignment with your authentic self. Listen today to embark on a journey of self-discovery and learn how to harness the transformative power of surrender. What We Discuss with Kute: What Ego actually is and how to stop identifying with ego. How to balance advocacy and surrender. What surrender truly means. Why it is important to surrender and why it is so hard to do. The most important questions to ask yourself, in order to be free. Note: This episode was originally published July 5th, 2022. ---- ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How To Get Back On Track When Your Routine Gets Screwed Up
03/19/2024
How To Get Back On Track When Your Routine Gets Screwed Up
Have you ever struggled to stick to your health and fitness goals when life gets chaotic? We all face times when our normal healthy routines get disrupted – by vacations, holidays, work demands or other life events. Often this leads to frustration, guilt and even depression when we “fall off the wagon”. In this episode you’ll learn tangible strategies to minimize the negative impacts of breaking routine, exactly how to prepare for planned downtime like vacations, and the incredible power of self-compassion when you inevitably veer off track. Listen to this episode today to pick up sustainable healthy living hacks for real life. Takeaways Breaking routine can have negative effects on mental and physical well-being. Flexibility and planning ahead are key to maintaining healthy habits in different situations. Creating friction between healthy and unhealthy choices can help make better decisions. Focusing on what truly matters and setting realistic expectations are important for finding balance. ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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Not Feeling Motivated? That's Because Your Purpose Sucks (But We Can Fix That)
03/12/2024
Not Feeling Motivated? That's Because Your Purpose Sucks (But We Can Fix That)
Feeling stuck and unmotivated to make positive changes in your life? Learn how to build sustainable momentum instead of relying on fleeting motivation. Without the right mindset and approach, it’s easy to get derailed when trying to form new habits and achieve your goals. Our guest host, Joe Villegas shares simple frameworks for establishing routines, unlocking your purpose, and incrementally improving each day. Listen today to pick up practical strategies that you can start applying right away to make progress. Takeaways Motivation is fleeting, while inspiration and purpose are more sustainable. Discipline and daily rituals are key to maintaining motivation. Setting realistic goals and tying them to a greater purpose can provide long-term motivation. Small, incremental improvements can lead to significant progress over time. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background 01:10 - The Importance of Motivation 03:04 - The Difference Between Motivation and Inspiration 04:18 - The Power of Inspiration 05:02 - Motivation vs. Purpose 05:53 - The Role of Discipline 06:07 - Setting Realistic Goals 07:08 - Tying Goals to a Greater Purpose 08:04 - Prioritizing Goals 09:03 - The Power of Example 09:27 - The Importance of Inspiration 10:05 - The Concept of 1% Improvement 14:27 - The Importance of Daily Rituals 15:02 - Quantifying Small Improvements 19:17 - Significant Emotional Events and Conditioning 20:43 - The Power of Simplicity 22:12 - Choosing the Right Discomfort 23:09 - Building Momentum 24:21 - Conclusion and Where to Learn More ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Conquer Chronic Illness Without Shitting Your Pants
03/05/2024
How to Conquer Chronic Illness Without Shitting Your Pants
Summary: In this episode, Jeremy and Zach discuss Zach's prolonged illness and his decision to finally take antibiotics. Zach explains his reservations about antibiotics, including the potential for antibiotic resistance and the negative impact on the gut microbiome. He also shares his struggles with being unable to pursue his usual activities and the importance of gratitude and self-compassion during this time. The conversation touches on the use of medication for various conditions and the need for caution and informed decision-making. The episode concludes with a humorous discussion about the potential side effects of antibiotics at Disney World. Takeaways: Antibiotics should be used judiciously and only when necessary to avoid contributing to antibiotic resistance. Antibiotics can have negative effects on the gut microbiome and may cause disruptions in the digestive system. Gratitude and self-compassion are important during times of illness and can help maintain a positive mindset. It is essential to consider the potential side effects and risks of medication before deciding to take it. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Zach's Illness 02:04 - Zach's Beef with Antibiotics 03:19 - The Side Effects of Antibiotics 04:01 - Zach's Struggles with Being Sick 05:24 - Gratitude and Self-Compassion 06:14 - Finding Good in the Bad 09:20 - Zach's Experience in Seattle 12:12 - Zach's Thoughts on Medication 13:31 - The Usefulness and Limitations of Antibiotics 14:59 - The Side Effects of Antibiotics ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Stop Feeling Anxious, Overwhelmed, and Burned Out
02/27/2024
How to Stop Feeling Anxious, Overwhelmed, and Burned Out
Summary Do you feel overwhelmed and extremely stressed at your job, desperately gasping for air at the end of each chaotic workday? If so, you can benefit from learning research-backed tools to establish healthier work habits, take back control of your schedule, and give your mind and body the breaks they desperately need. In this episode, we share our best practices for managing work stress, including re-prioritizing your to-do list, scheduling necessary breathers, and establishing reasonable communication expectations. Listen now to discover simple yet highly effective ways to tame work anxiety, prevent burnout, and transform your office experience. Takeaways Prioritizing tasks using the Eisenhower Matrix Taking regular breath breaks to stimulate your nervous system Establishing healthy communication rhythms and boundaries Using alarms and timers to enforce work/life balance The importance of movement and exercise during the workday Learning to manage unrealistic internal pressures and expectations ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How To Overcome Past Conditioning and Believe In Your Potential, with Jared Ganem
02/20/2024
How To Overcome Past Conditioning and Believe In Your Potential, with Jared Ganem
Summary Many men struggle with finding their true purpose and living up to their full potential due to past trauma, limiting beliefs, and unhealthy conditioning. Jared Ganem hit rock bottom after his dream of becoming a pro wrestler was crushed, sending him into a downward spiral of unhealthy relationships, and deep debt. Jared shares his incredible comeback story and the personal development work he did to rewire his mindset, heal from past trauma, and regain his sense of purpose. He mapped out the 7 levels of self-mastery to help men unleash their true potential. If you want to stop just going through the motions and finally create the life of purpose you desire, don't miss Jared's wisdom on this episode. Takeaways Personal growth is the rate at which you can accept something different about yourself. Purpose should come from within and be tied to your values, not external factors. Changing your identity and rewiring conditioning and beliefs are crucial for personal transformation. Men's issues are not exclusive to men; everyone faces challenges and can benefit from self-mastery. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background 03:10 - Hitting Rock Bottom 06:04 - Discovering True Purpose 08:47 - Losing Identity and Purpose 10:14 - Clawing Out of Rock Bottom 14:04 - The Power of Changing Identity 18:21 - Rewiring Conditioning and Beliefs 20:42 - The Seven Levels of Self-Mastery 25:22 - Men's Issues and Toxic Masculinity 34:25 - Conclusion and How to Connect ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Change Your Entire Life by Changing 5% of Your Day
02/13/2024
How to Change Your Entire Life by Changing 5% of Your Day
Summary In this episode, Jeremy and Zach discuss the importance of taking care of yourself and how making small changes can have a significant impact on one's life. They emphasize the power of changing just 5% of your day and how it can lead to positive transformations. They also highlight the value of finding one hour each day to dedicate to self-care and personal development. The conversation explores the snowball effect of habits and the need to find a balance between pushing oneself and being compassionate. They stress the importance of being present in the moment and letting go of worries about the past and future. Takeaways Making small changes can have a big impact on your life. Finding one hour each day for self-care can lead to positive transformations. The snowball effect of habits can either lead to positive or negative outcomes. Finding a balance between pushing oneself and being compassionate is crucial. Being present in the moment and letting go of worries about the past and future is empowering. Chapters 00:00 - Taking Care of Yourself 04:16 - Changing 5% of Your Day 05:42 - The Power of One Hour 08:00 - The Snowball Effect 09:22 - Finding the Balance 10:19 - Rolling with the Punches 11:15 - Being Okay Right Now 13:13 - The Fool's Errand 14:05 - Wrap-up and Call to Action ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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The Full Body Workout You Can Do At Home In Just 20 Minutes, with Bruce Smith
02/06/2024
The Full Body Workout You Can Do At Home In Just 20 Minutes, with Bruce Smith
Summary Have you ever longed for that blissful feeling of gliding across a misty lake at dawn, immersed in nature’s peace? Like many, you may lack the hardcore dedication real rowing demands yet crave the full-body joy and mental clarity it unlocks for devotees. Today US National Team rowing coach, Bruce Smith shares his innovative solution for casually accessing rowing’s many benefits in your own living room. Intrigued and ready to elevate your workouts? Listen to hear this game-changing fitness hack granting water’s magic healing effects without the 4am wake-up call. Takeaways Rowing engages multiple muscle groups and provides a full-body workout. Hydrow's rowing machine simulates the feeling of being on the water, providing an immersive experience. Personalization and motivation are key factors in maintaining a consistent exercise routine. Hydrow offers a variety of fitness programs, including yoga and strength training, to cater to different needs and preferences. The mind-body connection and the experience of nature are important for mental health and overall well-being. ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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Try This Journaling Method To Prove You Are Who You Say You Are
01/30/2024
Try This Journaling Method To Prove You Are Who You Say You Are
Summary Are you tired of trying to hype yourself up with affirmations but still feeling self-doubt creep back in? Struggling to believe you can actually become the person you want to be? Jeremy explains how to bridge the confidence gap by accumulating proof of progress through a simple journaling method. Listeners will understand how to track tiny gains towards goals, hold themselves accountable when they stumble, and actively build motivation by celebrating small wins. If you're ready to do the work of intentional personal growth rather than just visualize it, don't miss Jeremy's insights on confidence built on evidence, not perception. Takeaways Building confidence requires a stack of undeniable proof of one's capabilities and accomplishments. Journaling can be a valuable tool for personal growth and accountability. Tracking both hard things overcome and areas where one falls short can provide valuable insights and motivation. Practicing gratitude throughout the day can help shift focus towards the positive. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Overcoming Struggles 02:16 - A Different Approach to Journaling 03:43 - Building a Body of Evidence 05:40 - Tracking Hard Things and Shortcomings 08:03 - Gratitude Journaling ---- Resources Mentioned: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How To Stop Believing the Lies You Tell Yourself, with Andrea Vallely
01/23/2024
How To Stop Believing the Lies You Tell Yourself, with Andrea Vallely
Summary Are you struggling to tap into real happiness and instead find temporary relief in unhealthy habits? Many of us cope with negative emotions in damaging ways, but true happiness already lies within us. In this episode, you'll learn to stop chasing external quick fixes, take responsibility for your experience, and unlock sustainable inner peace. Listen to this conversation with Andrea Vallely from Shift Happens, to understand the root of suffering and how to process discomfort in healthy ways. Topics Discussed: The illusion that happiness and peace come from external things How the world mirrors our inner state Techniques to calm the mind and body Taking 100% responsibility for your experience Suffering comes from believing external factors determine your peace "Decreating" old stories and beliefs that no longer serve you ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Take the First Step Back into Healthy Habits
01/16/2024
How to Take the First Step Back into Healthy Habits
Summary Are you struggling to get back into a workout routine after falling off track over the holidays? Many people lose motivation and discipline around health goals during busy holiday seasons. This can negatively impact both physical fitness and mental wellbeing. In this episode, you'll hear Zach and Jeremy openly discuss their own struggles to maintain consistent workout habits and the downward spiral effect it's had. Listen today to gain motivation, accountability tips, and a community of support to get back on track with your health in the new year. Takeaways Maintaining a consistent routine, including regular exercise, is crucial for mental health and overall well-being. Doing hard things and pushing through discomfort leads to personal growth and improved resilience. Start small and gradually increase the intensity or frequency of workouts to avoid overwhelming yourself. Seeking help and accountability from others can be beneficial in staying on track and overcoming challenges. Chapters 00:00 Struggling and Rock Bottom 03:19 Unraveling and Lack of Routine 06:47 The Importance of Working Out 09:43 Overcoming the Struggle 16:31 The Power of Doing Hard Things 17:21 Committing to Growth 19:35 Knowing Your Limits 21:28 Changing the Tune of the Podcast 22:59 Accountability and Help 23:28 Getting Back on Track After the Holidays 24:16 The Beginning of an Incredible Comeback Story ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Stop Worrying About Your Goals So You Can Make Real Progress
01/09/2024
How to Stop Worrying About Your Goals So You Can Make Real Progress
Have you ever chased rapid transformation only to burn out and give up just days later? Our tendency to seek drastic overnight changes sets us up for disappointment and failure. Sustainable growth comes from daily incremental improvements over time. Learn a simple mindset shift that makes positive change enjoyable and attainable. Discover how to turn self-improvement into a fun game you want to play. Understand why you should focus on evolution rather than transformation. Listen to this episode to begin your journey of conscious evolution through tiny daily upgrades. Topics Discussed: The common mistake of chasing rapid transformation Embracing evolution through small, daily improvements Making change fun by gamifying personal growth Overcoming beliefs that hold you back Building motivation through a growth mindset Creating sustainable habits with atomic steps ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How To Finally Start Achieving Your Health Goals with Joe Villegas
01/02/2024
How To Finally Start Achieving Your Health Goals with Joe Villegas
Do you ever feel overwhelmed trying to get in shape and don't know where to start? Many people struggle to build sustainable exercise habits and nutrition plans that lead to transformational results. This episode will provide you with a practical framework for lifestyle change, insights on the mindset shifts required for fitness goals, and tangible tips to hold yourself accountable. Listen to this conversation to discover small adjustments you can make today to unlock massive growth in your health and wellness journey. Topics Discussed: Getting started on a fitness plan Finding enjoyable workout routines Building healthy habits over time Working with personal coaches Optimizing sleep quality Creating accountability for goals Gym motivation strategies Goal setting frameworks Online resources for guidance Developing a growth identity Note: This episode was originally published on February 7th, 2023 ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Unlock Your Creative Potential By Stealing Like An Artist, with Austin Kleon
12/26/2023
How to Unlock Your Creative Potential By Stealing Like An Artist, with Austin Kleon
Do you wish you were more creative but feel like you just don't have that natural talent? This common belief holds many people back from developing valuable creative skills over time. In this podcast episode, author Austin Kleon shares why creativity is a learnable skill available to anyone willing to put in consistent practice. You'll understand why creativity relies on making new combinations of existing ideas, how to push past imposter syndrome to take creative risks, and how developing small creative habits creates momentum. Listen to this interview to expand your perspective on human creativity. Topics discussed: Defining creativity Overcoming creative blocks Building creative skills over time Pushing past imposter syndrome Developing a creative process Finding inspiration in others' work Building an audience for your work Balancing creativity and daily life Note: This episode was originally published on Aprinl 19th, 2022. ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How To Read More Books And Apply The Lessons You Learn, With Nick Hutchison
12/19/2023
How To Read More Books And Apply The Lessons You Learn, With Nick Hutchison
Struggling to make reading a daily priority or apply what you've read? The fix could be simpler than you think for those constantly acquiring new knowledge but failing to implement it. In this episode, Nick Hutchison, Founder of BookThinkers, discusses the importance of reading and how it can condense decades of lived experience into days. This conversation addresses a common challenge for readers: struggling to retain or apply book lessons. In this episode, you will discover: How to cement book learning through real-world travel applications. Which books provide fundamental principles for unlocking growth. The underrated reciprocal relationship between sharing knowledge and gaining wisdom. How reading allows you to condense decades of lived experience into days of reading. How to read with intention and set goals for each book to maximize its impact. Why developing focus and reading skills takes time and practice. Implementing takeaways from books can lead to behavior change and significant results. If you're ready to start retaining and acting on all those book smarts, press play now for actionable techniques. ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How To Overcome Failure and Find Real Success, with James Fell
12/12/2023
How To Overcome Failure and Find Real Success, with James Fell
In this episode, bestselling author James Fell discusses his career journey from writing self-help and fitness books to unexpectedly finding viral success posting profanity-filled daily historical facts on social media during the pandemic, which led to a popular Substack newsletter which eventually turned into the book, On This Day In History, Shit Went Down. He discusses the challenges of managing ADHD, anxiety, and obsession while pursuing a creative career. James also shares his concerns for the future and offers advice for success as a creative person. Takeaways Self-help books often over-promise and lack a real plan for change. Transitioning from advising to telling stories can lead to greater success. Managing ADHD, anxiety, and obsession is crucial for a creative career. Financial motivation and flexibility in pursuing passions are key to success. Shameless promotion and creative marketing can help sell books and gain readership. Chapters 00:00 The Disconnect with Self-Help Books 02:39 The Difficulty of Change 04:33 The Disappointment of Book Sales 06:30 Transition to Sweary Historian 08:02 Challenges During the Pandemic 09:28 The Birth of Swery History Stories 13:28 Recognizing Life-Changing Epiphanies 15:15 The Motivation of Reader Appreciation and Financial Success 17:07 The Link Between ADHD and Creativity 19:23 Managing Anxiety and Obsession 22:57 Financial Motivation and the Potential of Success 27:29 Concerns for the Future 30:19 Gun Laws and Anxiety 32:19 Rules for Success as a Creative Person 35:13 The Importance of Shameless Promotion 36:04 Closing Remarks *Join the 5 Day Change Your Life Challenge with Jeremy's trainer Joe Villegas! Learn more here: ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Overcome Depression And Find True Happiness, with Dannie De Novo
12/05/2023
How to Overcome Depression And Find True Happiness, with Dannie De Novo
Depression is a common and often debilitating mental health condition that can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. It can cause a range of symptoms, including persistent sadness, low energy, difficulty concentrating, changes in appetite and sleep patterns, and a loss of interest in once enjoyable activities. Sound familiar? In today's episode, we’ll talk with Dannie De Novo. She is a mental health advocate and survivor of depression, and she will share their journey of overcoming depression and the tools and strategies she uses to find happiness and build a fulfilling life…so you can do the same In this episode, we discuss: Seeking help and support is crucial for managing depression and finding happiness. This could mean talking to a trusted friend or family member, seeking support from a mental health professional, or joining a support group. Practicing self-care is essential for managing depression. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and finding ways to relax and de-stress. Focusing on small, positive things can bring joy and happiness into your life, even when you're feeling down. Setting goals and working towards them can give you a sense of purpose and meaning, which can help boost your mood. If your depression is severe or persistent, it may be necessary to seek professional treatment. This could include therapy, medication, or a combination of both. Remember, overcoming depression is not easy, and it may take time and effort. But with the right support and strategies, it is possible to find happiness and build a fulfilling life. Don't be afraid to reach out for help – it's a sign of strength, not weakness. (Note: This episode was originally published on Dec 26, 2022) ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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Finding Calm in the Holiday Chaos: 5 Stress Relief Hacks for the Most Wonderful Time of Year
11/27/2023
Finding Calm in the Holiday Chaos: 5 Stress Relief Hacks for the Most Wonderful Time of Year
Does the pressure to shop perfectly, party nonstop, stay cheerful, and produce picture-perfect holidays leave you drained and stressed? You're not alone! This week on The Fit Mess podcast, Zach and Jeremy share their best tactics for maintaining sanity amidst seasonal chaos. Tune in to hear them offer reasonable, realistic solutions to minimize holiday havoc so you can truly delight in the magic of this special time of year. From mindset shifts to self-care strategies, these guys are bringing practical advice to help you protect your peace of mind instead of just white-knuckling through the next few weeks. Ready to stop dreading the holidays and actually enjoy the most wonderful time of year? Don't miss this episode! Topics Discussed: Recent work trips and holiday gatherings Managing gift expectations Taking time for sleep and self-care Not overcommitting to too many parties/events Staying healthy amid holiday indulgences Seeking support when feeling overwhelmed Setting goals and resolutions Note: this episode was originally published December 19th, 2022 ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How to Rewire Your Brain to Stop Craving Junk Food Dopamine Hits, with Dr. Glenn Livingston
11/21/2023
How to Rewire Your Brain to Stop Craving Junk Food Dopamine Hits, with Dr. Glenn Livingston
Subscribe: In this conversation with psychologist Glenn Livingston, he shares how cravings can actually be a sign of a healthy brain rather than a sickness. He provides practical strategies for defeating cravings through specific food rules, redirecting fantasy about junk foods, and focusing on non-scale victories like freedom from obsession. Glenn emphasizes self-acceptance while still pursuing a healthy weight, starting with one simple change instead of dramatic overhauls. He advises not letting shame drive weight loss efforts. Topics Discussed: Understanding cravings as a sign of a "healthy" brain The food industry manipulating cravings Making specific personalized food rules Redirecting fantasies about junk food Focusing on non-scale victories Self-acceptance while pursuing healthy weight Starting with one simple change Not letting shame drive weight loss Responding skillfully to emotional eating triggers Building self-mastery and mindful habits ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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How To Relax Your Nervous System and Reduce Anxiety Through Better Sleep with Dr. Peter Martone
11/14/2023
How To Relax Your Nervous System and Reduce Anxiety Through Better Sleep with Dr. Peter Martone
*Join the 5 Day Change Your Life Challenge with Jeremy's personal trainer Joe Villegas! Learn more here: In this episode, leading chiropractor Dr. Peter Martone shares his expertise on improving sleep for better health. He explains common mistakes people make with their sleep posture, like side sleeping, and how these strained positions lead to chronic neck, shoulder, and back pain over time. Dr. Martone stresses the role quality sleep plays in balancing hormones, reducing anxiety, and optimizing health. Listen to learn easy fixes that will upgrade your energy, recovery, and well-being. Topics Discussed: Common mistakes people make with sleep posture How sleep position affects neck and back pain Supporting the neck and spine improperly while sleeping Sleeping on your back without a pillow under your head Creating a sleep environment that feels safe Reducing anxiety and balancing hormones through quality sleep The importance of sleep position and consistent nighttime routine Using the Neck Nest device to improve neck posture Tracking HRV to monitor nervous system balance Tips for better sleep like keeping hands and feet outside the covers ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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226. How to Find Your Passion at Any Age with Brian Ondrako
11/06/2023
226. How to Find Your Passion at Any Age with Brian Ondrako
Do you have goals you want to accomplish that you have been putting off? Sometimes, you need to just get started. How do you do that? Well, we decided to ask Just Get Started podcast host, Brian Ondrako. Today, we speak to Brian about how he helps inspire people on the cusp of getting started on their path toward happiness. According to Brian, happiness is the result of making consistent decisions that align with your vision for your life, not attaining any specific goal. Unless you have a clear idea of which way to go, seeking happiness is almost irrelevant, which is why Brian recommends finding your North Star and taking incremental steps toward it. He also highlights the value of welcoming discomfort, staying curious, and embracing vulnerability along the way, which you’ll learn more about in this episode. Ultimately, it's not about reaching your North Star. It's about keeping the compass pointed in the right direction. If you want to find out how to stop wishing for change and start making it happen, tune in today! Topics discussed in this episode: We get vulnerable about where we are in our own journeys How Brian got started on his mission to help others Why you have to discover yourself to discover happiness The joy that can come from putting action in motion Why taking incremental steps toward your North Star is key Understanding the value of sharing your setbacks with others Overcoming fear and complacency with curiosity How you can benefit from embracing discomfort Advice for taking that first step by looking back at childhood How Brian encourages people to pursue their North Star A reminder that it’s your choice to change your behavior Tips for finding the simplest path forward (Note: This episode was originally published October 24th, 2022) ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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225. How to Transform Your Subconscious Programming with Breathwork and Meditative Practices with Carson Finkle
10/30/2023
225. How to Transform Your Subconscious Programming with Breathwork and Meditative Practices with Carson Finkle
The power of the mind and breath is so potent, that when tapped into, it can change your entire world for the better. Your heart and mind speak to each other, and we can change the way they communicate by releasing trauma stored in our subconscious and body, by using mindfulness techniques and breathwork. Breathwork has been life-changing for our host Jeremy Grater, so he wanted to share this healing tool with you all by bringing on his breathwork facilitator, Carson Finkle, on today’s episode to share his knowledge and insight on the benefits of breathwork, as well as the unique way he conducts his sessions. Carson Finkle is the founder of Create Meditation, which is a combination of breathwork, personalized music, and mindfulness practices, creating a profound experience to reprogram the subconscious to bring in healing. In today’s episode, you will hear how Create Meditation works, the benefits of breathwork and mindfulness, what happens to your mind and body after doing breathwork, and simple techniques you can do yourself to start your mindfulness journey. Tune in to hear how you can create more peace in your life, one breath at a time. Topics discussed in this episode: What is breathwork and how Carson got into it 3 pillars of Breathwork Is the breathwork experience different in person vs. Zoom? Are there dangers in not having a practitioner present when doing breathwork? Why Carson uses music in his breathwork practice The therapeutic aspect of the primal release of yelling Why Carson’s voice sticks with you in times of struggle The five words used to rewire the subconscious Why we start to have visions of a future self that didn’t seem possible before breathwork Is the world shifting toward spirituality? Bringing knowledge to breathwork can enrich the experience and practice Simple steps for beginners to start practicing mindfulness (Note: This episode was originally published Oct 11, 2022) Resources: Guest Website: - Use Promo Code FITMESS for $100 off ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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224. Open Your Ears: Disney VP Lee Cockerell Shares How to Defeat Anxiety
10/23/2023
224. Open Your Ears: Disney VP Lee Cockerell Shares How to Defeat Anxiety
Former Disney executive Lee Cockerell shares how he struggled with anxiety and depression later in life, despite professional success. He emphasizes the importance of sleep, diet, and exercise for mental health. Lee also discusses the need for vulnerability and work-life balance, even as a leader. He offers advice on prioritizing self-care, family, and business obligations. Topics Discussed: Dealing with imposter syndrome as an executive Lee's personal struggles with anxiety and depression The prevalence of mental health issues today The importance of sleep for mental wellbeing Overcoming cravings and listening to experts Seeking professional help for mental health The role of vulnerability for leaders Achieving balance and avoiding burnout Ways Lee manages his schedule and priorities ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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223. How To Break An Internet and Phone Addiction
10/19/2023
223. How To Break An Internet and Phone Addiction
In this episode, Jeremy openly discusses his personal struggles with internet and phone addiction, including constantly checking his devices for validation from likes and comments. He covers recognizing the signs of unhealthy technology dependence, like anxiety when disconnected and neglecting real-life responsibilities. The episode provides tips for overcoming internet addiction such as deleting unnecessary apps, establishing tech-free zones, finding rewarding offline activities, monitoring usage, taking digital detoxes, seeking professional support, and addressing root causes like isolation. Key takeaways are learning to identify and admit you have a problem, taking active steps to limit access and change habits, and finding fulfillment beyond digital dopamine hits. Topics Discussed: Personal experiences with phone/internet addiction Seeking external validation through technology Deleting unnecessary apps to reduce usage Signs of unhealthy internet dependence Creating tech-free zones at home Replacing device time with offline activities Tracking usage with monitoring apps Taking digital detox breaks Getting professional help for addiction Coping with root causes like loneliness Building real-world connections beyond technology Taking control of addiction through lifestyle changes Resources: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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222. Man Enough to Embrace Our Emotions - Justin Baldoni Discusses Creating New Masculine Ideals
10/16/2023
222. Man Enough to Embrace Our Emotions - Justin Baldoni Discusses Creating New Masculine Ideals
This week we talk with actor and author Justin Baldoni about his new book Man Enough: Undefining My Masculinity. We discuss the origins of limiting masculine stereotypes, the generational trauma around suppressing emotions that men inherit, and why embracing vulnerability is true strength. Justin shares his personal journey questioning the man box and advocates for redefining old-fashioned ideas of masculinity that often leave men feeling inadequate. We discuss practical ways men can open up and reconnect to their emotions and full humanity without feeling “unmanly.” Bulleted list of 10 topics discussed: Struggling to fit into society's rigid male gender roles Absorbing harmful messaging about masculinity from a young age The costs of men disconnecting from their emotions Learning to embrace vulnerability as a non-traditional strength Generational trauma around masculinity and not expressing feelings Toxic vs healthy masculine behaviors and mindsets Women's conflicting perceptions of masculinity Becoming who we are, not who society expects Moving from shame to self-acceptance Expanding narrow definitions of masculinity (Note: this episode originally aired June 9th, 2021) ---- GUEST WEBSITE: Other Books referenced: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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221. How To Find The Motivation To Lose Weight And Transform Your Health, with David Specht
10/12/2023
221. How To Find The Motivation To Lose Weight And Transform Your Health, with David Specht
Today, we're joined by inspirational weight loss success story David Specht. This former 300lb+ man, now dedicated health coach, is here to teach us everything he knows about the journey to better health. If you thought losing 100+ pounds was impossible, you're not alone - David once felt defeated and stuck in his obesity. However, through discipline and lifestyle change, David transformed his body and mindset over time. His story proves that lasting change is possible if you do the work. In this powerful episode, we ask David all our burning questions about weight loss and health journeys: What was the catalyst for change? How did he stay motivated? What kept him from giving up? And of course, what tips does he have for anyone wanting to succeed on their own journey? David delivers super-actionable strategies and hard-won wisdom into how incremental habits, community support, and growth mindset changed his health and life permanently. This transparent interview is a must-listen for anyone wanting to break old patterns and create their best self. By the end, you'll be newly inspired to take control of your health, believe in your ability to transform, and be patient with the process of lifestyle change. David is living proof that, with the right mindset and habits over time, you can go from hating broccoli to loving it - and your new self. Topics Discussed: David's struggles with obesity, emotional eating, and finding purpose in his 20s-40s The catalyst for change - doing a nutrition program with his wife Learning to celebrate small wins and stack healthy habits over time Finding his "why" - wanting to be an active grandfather Battling food addiction and keeping long term focus Becoming a health coach for accountability and to help others The importance of community and mentorship in lifestyle change Mindset shifts needed to build confidence and break limiting beliefs David's advice for starting a health journey: get a mentor, join a community, follow a nutrition plan you can stick to ---- GUEST WEBSITE: Work with David: Listen to David's podcast: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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220. Feeling Anxious About the Future? This Nostalgia Exercise Could Help You Find Gratitude
10/09/2023
220. Feeling Anxious About the Future? This Nostalgia Exercise Could Help You Find Gratitude
If you've struggled with childhood trauma, you know how it can haunt you into adulthood. The memories and unhealthy patterns of coping can lead to anxiety, depression, and feelings of being stuck. You may feel like you can't escape the pain of your past. In this vulnerable episode of The Fit Mess podcast, Jeremy and Zach share stories of overcoming difficult childhoods through self-compassion and gratitude. Looking back at old mementos helped them realize how much they've grown. They discuss strategies like mindfulness and perspective-taking to combat negative thought cycles. The hosts emphasize that while trauma leaves scars, you have the power to continually heal yourself by acknowledging your resilience. Topics discussed: Childhood trauma and its lasting impact into adulthood Depressive episodes and negative thought cycles Anxiety caused by fixating on the past and future How nostalgia can conjure both pain and gratitude Taking perspective on how far you've come as an adult Measuring personal growth since childhood Cultivating gratitude through practices like journaling Using mindfulness to interrupt rumination Learning self-compassion by acknowledging your resilience Reflecting on progress made healing from past struggles ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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219. How the Mind-Body Connection Can Help Heal Chronic Pain
10/05/2023
219. How the Mind-Body Connection Can Help Heal Chronic Pain
If you’ve been living with chronic pain, you know how debilitating it can be. The constant discomfort and limitations on your daily life can lead to frustration, depression, and a sense of hopelessness. You may feel like you’ve tried every treatment and solution, but nothing provides lasting relief. In this episode of The Fit Mess podcast, Jeremy shares how he dealt with chronic tailbone pain for years. Despite seeing doctors, nothing helped until he saw a specialist. She helped him realize the pain was manifesting from emotional stress and trauma stored in his body. Jeremy and Zach then discuss strategies to address chronic pain through a mind-body approach, like meditation, breathwork, yoga, and self-care rituals. They emphasize how letting go of tension and negative thoughts can calm your nervous system and reduce discomfort. Topics Discussed: Examining negative thought patterns that feed pain Releasing stored stress and trauma through breathwork, meditation, chanting Letting go of the need for control over your body Listening better to your body’s signals Soothing the parasympathetic nervous system Adopting holistic self-care rituals like yoga and meditation Practicing radical self-acceptance Tapping into your body’s power to heal Working with a specialist like a yoga therapist Being patient with progress over chasing perfection ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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218. How to Start Working Out When You Don't Feel Motivated with Shanna Missett Nelson
10/02/2023
218. How to Start Working Out When You Don't Feel Motivated with Shanna Missett Nelson
We all have days when we lack motivation for our workouts. It's easy to fall into a funk with your fitness routine. The good news is there are strategies to get back on track! On this episode of The Fit Mess podcast, hosts Zach and Jeremy have an encouraging discussion about staying motivated in your fitness journey. They are joined by Shanna Missett Nelson, CEO of the dance cardio brand Jazzercise. Topics discussed: Finding activities you genuinely enjoy as the key to consistency Letting go of perfectionism and comparisons Focusing on how exercise makes you FEEL Having a supportive fitness community Knowing your "why" and original motivation Recruiting accountability partners Allowing yourself grace on off days Taking a walk or doing simple movement is still a win Exploring different formats until you find what you love Looking back at physical activities you enjoyed as a kid ---- GUEST WEBSITE: ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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217. How to Stop Emotional Eating Even When It Feels Impossible
09/28/2023
217. How to Stop Emotional Eating Even When It Feels Impossible
In this episode, Jeremy and Zach have a candid chat about their struggles with emotional eating and stress cravings. We've all been there - feeling overwhelmed and finding ourselves snacking impulsively. The hosts share their own experiences and missteps openly, like eating handfuls of chips when deadlines pile up. They discuss useful tips for identifying triggers, staying hydrated, planning ahead, and most importantly, showing yourself compassion. Topics discussed: Emotional vs. physical hunger Stress as a trigger for eating Fatigue and cravings Eating from boredom Increasing self-awareness Alternatives to cope with stress Importance of hydration Meal planning strategies Occasional indulgences Self-compassion ---- MORE FROM THE FIT MESS: Connect with us on , , , and Join our community in the ---- LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
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