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Familial Identity Theft

Easy Prey

Release Date: 02/04/2026

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Identity theft is usually framed as an external threat. Hackers, data breaches, anonymous criminals operating somewhere far away. This episode looks at a much harder reality to face: identity theft that happens inside families, often quietly, over many years, and without immediate detection. The damage isn’t just financial. It reshapes trust, relationships, and a person’s sense of stability long before anyone realizes what’s happening.

My guest is Axton Betz-Hamilton, an associate professor of financial counseling and planning whose research focuses on familial and child identity theft. Her work is deeply personal. As a teenager, Axton discovered her own credit had been destroyed before she ever had a chance to build it, the result of identity theft that began when she was a child. Years later, she uncovered the truth behind who was responsible and how multiple generations were affected.

We talk about how familial identity theft works, why it’s so difficult to detect, and what recovery really looks like when the person who caused the harm was someone you trusted. The conversation covers the long road to rebuilding credit, the emotional fallout that often gets overlooked, and the practical steps people can take to protect themselves and their children before damage is done.

Show Notes:

  • [02:15] Axton Betz-Hamilton explains how her parents’ identities were stolen in the early 1990s, before consumers had legal protections.
  • [03:50] Discovering a 10-page credit report at age 19 and realizing her financial life was damaged before it began.
  • [05:45] What it’s like to learn your credit score is in the second percentile nationwide and why that realization changes everything.
  • [07:10] How early frustration with identity theft shaped Axton’s academic path and research focus.
  • [09:05] The moment evidence surfaced pointing to a family member as the source of the identity theft.
  • [10:45] Uncovering decades of fraudulent accounts affecting multiple generations within one family.
  • [12:50] How grief abruptly shifted into investigation after learning the truth about who caused the harm.
  • [15:20] The long, two-track process of disputing fraudulent credit while slowly rebuilding legitimate credit history.
  • [17:40] Why some fraudulent accounts had to age off credit reports instead of being removed.
  • [19:05] How isolation and manipulation can allow familial identity theft to continue undetected for years.
  • [21:55] Exploring possible motivations behind the theft and how financial behaviors can repeat across generations.
  • [23:10] The simplest way to detect identity theft is by regularly checking all three credit reports.
  • [24:30] Why freezing your credit is one of the most effective and underused protection tools.
  • [26:05] The importance of freezing children’s credit to prevent damage that may not surface until adulthood.
  • [28:00] How modern tools like IRS identity PINs reduce the risk of tax-related identity theft.
  • [30:15] Using E-Verify freezes to prevent identity theft tied to employment and income.
  • [33:10] The emotional impact of familial identity theft and why boundaries are often necessary for healing.
  • [35:00] How family systems fracture when some members believe the victim and others defend the offender.
  • [36:40] Why mental health support is a critical part of recovery, not an optional one.
  • [38:00] The Identity Theft Resource Center as a comprehensive support option for victims navigating recovery.

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