Breakups and Breakthroughs
Get over your ex, heal from heartbreak, and create a life that is fulfilling with or without a partner. In each episode of Breakups and Breakthroughs you will gain practical advice to turn your breakup into the biggest breakthrough of your life. Take it one step further and grab my free breakup guide: https://www.shiftyourstory.net/top-5-breakup-mistakes-guide Interested in working with me to get over your ex and completely transform your life? Schedule a free call with me here: https://calendly.com/lucy-price/30min Host: Lucy Price www.shiftyourstory.net www.Instagram.com/lucy.m.price
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EP 93: Boundaries On Social Media Post Breakup
06/24/2025
EP 93: Boundaries On Social Media Post Breakup
Timestamps: 00:25 Intro 02:10 How you engage in social media will either help you heal or hold you back 02:43 Why it’s important to have boundaries around social media 06:25 The algorithm can push your ex’s posts to the top of your feed 07:15 People can screenshot your posts 08:25 Get curious of your own motives 09:25 Assume the person you don’t want to see it will see it 10:25 Control the controllable 11:58 What is the best thing for you? 14:05 Unfollow & leave groups of people who don’t uplift you and help you heal 15:37 The temptation to stalk your ex 17:25 You don’t know what is going on in your ex’s life 19:40 Make it harder for yourself to have access to your ex’s life 21:45 Do something today to set yourself up for success on social media 23:35 Outro Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ Join The Breakup Glow-Up Four Week Group Program 👇🏻 Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 92: How To Make Friends And Rebuild Your Social Network After A Breakup
06/17/2025
EP 92: How To Make Friends And Rebuild Your Social Network After A Breakup
Timestamps: 00:25 Intro 01:40 Practical steps you can take to rebuild your friendships after a breakup 02:25 Why it’s easier to make friends as a kid 04:35 Lesson 1: Make friends outside of your partners 06:25 Lesson 2: When people show you who they are, listen 09:17 Lean into friendships you already have 12:30 Evaluate your availability, values, and interests 14:17 Find something consistent that gets you around other people with similar interests or values 17:19 Remember things about the people you meet 19:39 Get their contact info 20:38 Low bids for connection 22:33 Invite them to things 25:25 You have to commit to the process and stay consistent 26:51 People will reciprocate 28:32 Outro Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ The Breakup Glow-Up Four Week Group Program Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 91: 5 Things To Do When You’re Feeling Rejected
06/10/2025
EP 91: 5 Things To Do When You’re Feeling Rejected
Timestamps: 00:25 Intro 01:03 5 steps you can take to deal with rejection 01:25 How rejection impacted me 04:05 Could you be rejecting yourself right now? 05:22 No one can make you feel inferior without your consent 07:29 Look at the facts, not the feelings 10:10 Place yourself in the other person's perspective 13:12 Where is this rejection a redirection? 15:55 Give yourself credit 18:25 Outro Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ The Breakup Glow-Up Four Week Group Program Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 90: Your Past Doesn't Dictate Your Future- So Don't Let It
06/03/2025
EP 90: Your Past Doesn't Dictate Your Future- So Don't Let It
Timestamps: 00:25 Intro 04:15 Get curious about what you’ve normalized and where things could be a different way 06:21 Your brain is trying to protect you by keeping you in situations you know 08:40 Confirmation bias 09:10 We all have an algorithm 11:10 You have to consciously challenge your thoughts and beliefs 13:15 Scan for evidence that things can be different 14:23 Gather data on where things could be different 15:35 Don’t get too caught up in the details 16:43 Visualization 19:25 Remove I don’t know from your vocabulary 22:52 Practice thinking new thoughts and taking new actions 23:15 Outro Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ The Breakup Glow-Up Four Week Group Program Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 89: How To Stop Feeling Controlled By Anxiety
05/27/2025
EP 89: How To Stop Feeling Controlled By Anxiety
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:40 How anxiety affected me 05:00 My turning point 06:50 Why do we get anxious? 09:14 2 Main takeaways from why we get anxious 10:10 Your brain isn’t trying to hurt you or make you feel bad 11:45 How our language shapes our anxiety 13:15 the emotional we describe something the more we feel its true 13:35 Label your emotions to start defusing them 15:15 Regulate your emotions 16:16 Challenging your thoughts 18:02 Changes that come from doing this 19:00 The changes this work made in my life 22:00 Opportunities to work together 22:14 Links in the show notes! Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ Join The Breakup Glow-Up Four Week Group Program 👇🏻 Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 88: Is It Ever Okay To Lie?
05/20/2025
EP 88: Is It Ever Okay To Lie?
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 02:20 What is lying? 03:10 Lying by omission 05:30 But what about white lies? 07:40 Lying is a slippy slope 08:00 We are all capable of lying 11:00 How lying hurts us 12:27 Why we lie 19:03 Where do you draw the line in lying? 25:18 How to not get lied to 27:00 Emotional regulation technique 29:00 Working through conflict 30:26 How to bounce back from lying Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ The Breakup Glow-Up Four Week Group Program Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 87: Why Healing Isn’t Linear—and What to Do When It Feels Like You’re Going Backwards
05/13/2025
EP 87: Why Healing Isn’t Linear—and What to Do When It Feels Like You’re Going Backwards
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:54 What to do when you feel like you’re backsliding in your healing journey 03:12 Why healing isn’t linear 06:16 Cyclical processing 09:09 Focus on growth and what you have achieved 10:36 Anchor into one or two practices 12:40 Final thoughts 16:00 Outro Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 86: How to anchor into a new identity
05/06/2025
EP 86: How to anchor into a new identity
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:24 Identity change is uncomfortable 02:24 What inspired this episode - My story 07:59 What beliefs do you hold around the identity shift 09:24 Challenge your beliefs with compassion 10:38 Find acceptance in it being uncomfortable 12:54 You contain multitudes 14:23 Practice your new identity 15:49 You have to break the habit of being yourself 19:39 Your identity is meant to evolve over time 20:38 Final thoughts Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 85: When to Walk Away - 8 Signs it's over
04/29/2025
EP 85: When to Walk Away - 8 Signs it's over
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 03:37 #1 You feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells06:01 #2 You are having the same conflicts over and over09:17 #3 Not feeling like yourself anymore 14:24 #4 You try to avoid them 15:11 #5 More things you dislike about them than you like about them 16:15 #6 You want to, but you’re avoiding it or looking for a good enough reason 20:50 #7 You don’t have the same vision for the future 21:50 #8 You feel alone even when you’re with them 22:24 Final thoughts Links: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 84: Love Bombing Vs. Real Love: 3 Ways To Tell The Difference
04/22/2025
EP 84: Love Bombing Vs. Real Love: 3 Ways To Tell The Difference
Time Stamps: 00:00 Intro 02:53 Does the love & affection match the pace of the relationship? 04:05 What does love bombing feel & look like? 05:25 If your friend was in this situation, what would you think? 06:25 Love bombing is hot & cold, real love is steady 09:55 Love can stand the test of time and stress 12:55 Final Thoughts 14:45 Outro Links: Interested in working with me one-on-one? Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 83: Love Lessons From Our 5-Year Relationship [W/My boyfriend Nate Juliar]
04/15/2025
EP 83: Love Lessons From Our 5-Year Relationship [W/My boyfriend Nate Juliar]
Timestamps: 00:59 Navigating boundaries long term 07:54 Personal example of setting boundaries 11:24 What is a boundary? 11:39 How to handle it when past baggage comes up in the relationship 17:24 People process things differently 23:32 How has our relationship changed in the last 5 years? 29:14 What has allowed us to have so much trust in our relationship? 34:24 What do you love about our relationship? 38:54 What do you think we do in our relationship that if other couples did their relationship would be better? 46:00 Final thoughts Links: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 82: 10 Green Flags To Look Out For In Dating
04/08/2025
EP 82: 10 Green Flags To Look Out For In Dating
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:00 1. They can apologize 04:12 2. Ability to receive feedback 06:08 3. Wanting to include you in their life 07:42 4. They’re supportive of your goals, interests, and passions 09:20 5. You know you can have the hard conversations 10:30 6. They boast you up in front of others 13:25 7. They have a life & support system outside of you 15:30 8. You don’t feel like you have to be perfect all of the time 17:12 9. They listen to understand, not listen to respond 18:31 10. They treat you with respect and care 20:30 Final thoughts 22:40 If you got value, please leave a 5-star review! Thank you! 23:57 Outro Links: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 81: 10 red flags you need to watch out for in dating
04/01/2025
EP 81: 10 red flags you need to watch out for in dating
TW: Domestic Violence Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:40 Not knowing what you don’t know 03:00 Everything has nuance 03:05 1. When they minimize or discard your experience 04:55 2. They are physically intimidating you 09:00 3. Pushing boundaries 11:20 4. You become more isolated from your family and friends 13:15 5. Extreme emotional shifts/outbursts 18:25 6. Immaturity 21:27 7. Always shifting guilt and blame 22:45 8. Always talking badly about exes 23:51 9. Constantly bashing all men or all women 25:55 10. Jealousy 28:40 Final thoughts Links: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 80: How To Stop Dating The Wrong People
03/25/2025
EP 80: How To Stop Dating The Wrong People
00:00 Intro 03:00 A reflection from a friend that woke me up 3:36 The power of choice 4:40 you have the power to make a different choice 5:30 You may not be choosing it but are you still tolerating it? 6:50 Being challenged on our choices is a good thing! 8:00 I wouldn’t be where I am today if I wasn’t confronted on my choices 09:00 Making different choices means change and our brains HATE change 10:00 You have to be willing to say no to mistreatment 10:50 Your Homework- reflect on your past relationships and check-in with your choices. What worked? What didn’t? 12:00 You made the best decision you could at the time with the knowledge and experience you had 13:00 Invest in self-love 13:30 When you love yourself you aren’t attracted to people who aren’t good for you 15:00 Are they treating you with love and care? 16:00 Someone can say they love you, but not treat you with love 18:00 Your HW so that you stop choosing the wrong people 19:00 Outro Links: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 79 How to feel confident in dating after a breakup (even if you feel out of practice)
03/18/2025
EP 79 How to feel confident in dating after a breakup (even if you feel out of practice)
00:00 Intro 00:30 You're not alone in feeling this way- other people feel nervous too! 03:15 A lot of people don't actually have experience in dating 4:00 A lot of people "fell" into their last relationship but are now intentionally dating now 07:27 Find ways to take off the pressure of dating 10:30 Focus on how you feel more than whether your date likes you 13:43 Notice when you start talking negatively about yourself 14:20 Change how you talk about yourself 16:00 Part of confidence and attraction is your energy 17:20 Prepare some talking points on your dates 20:30 Make a list of things you like about yourself and read over it before the date & after 23:50 Get Back Out There Masterclass - link in shownotes! 24:40 Outro JOIN THE GET BACK OUT THERE MASTERCLASS HERE: ⬇️ Links: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 78: How to avoid rebounding after a breakup
03/11/2025
EP 78: How to avoid rebounding after a breakup
00:00 intro 00:30 How we fall into rebounds 4:00 Sleeping with/Dating other people won’t get you over your ex 05:00 Our brains get addicted to love 06:50 Signs you’re at risk of a rebound 07:00 You haven’t processed the breakup 07:30 You aren’t comfortable being alone or look to others for validation 08:00 Signs you’re in a rebound08:10 Comparing them to your ex08:30 Avoiding commitment 09:00 Committing too quickly 10:00 How to avoid rebounds 10:15 Get clear on what you want for yourself & in your next relationship 11:20 Take time to process the breakup 11:45 are you moving away from pain or towards love? 12:15 Brush up on relationship skills 12:30 Slow down & take your time getting to know people 13:00 Beware of getting attached too quickly 14:00 Let me know if you want me to do a love is blind review 14:40 If nothing changed about them, would you still like them? 16:40 Get Back Out There Masterclass 17:30 Outro JOIN THE GET BACK OUT THERE MASTERCLASS HERE: ⬇️ Links: Study: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 77: How Long Should You Wait To Start Dating Again? Signs You're Ready (Or Not!)
03/04/2025
EP 77: How Long Should You Wait To Start Dating Again? Signs You're Ready (Or Not!)
00:00 Intro 01:40 How long should you wait to start dating again? 03:50 Intuition vs. guilt/shame - How do you feel about your own timeline? 05:20 Somtimes you meet someone and the timing isn't perfect... 06:38 The amount of time it takes you to be ready to date again depends on this 07:25 Its more useful to look for signs that you're ready to date again than at the timeline 08:00 Not thinking about your ex and a shift in how you think about your ex 09:30 Thoughts about your ex don't grip you anymore 10:20 Less emotion attached to the thought of your ex 12:00 You WANT to date again 13:00 There's a difference to have friction around dating vs. not wanting to date 16:00 Are you trying to move away from pain or are you trying to move towards love?21:00 Will people I date care that I'm coming out of a breakup? 23:00 Sometimes you don't know whether you're ready to date until you try it 24:00 New Masterclass! Get Back Out There on March 24th 25:30 Outro JOIN THE GET BACK OUT THERE MASTERCLASS HERE: ⬇️ Links: Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 76: How to stop intrusive thoughts about your ex
02/25/2025
EP 76: How to stop intrusive thoughts about your ex
00:00 Intro 01:40 You think about a lot of things in your day 02:00 You don't have to hold thoughts so heavily 02:20 Thinking about your ex was a part of your routine 03:30 You don't have to act off of your thoughts 05:00 Where are you feeding the habit? 06:00 Redirecting your thoughts 07:40 Preventing intrusive thoughts 08:00 Noticing triggers 09:15 Intrusive thoughts often stem from heightened stress 10:45 Sometimes we resist the things that are good for us 11:45 Look after your human 13:30 One day you'll notice you didn't think about your ex 14:00 Get intentional with processing the breakup & deciding how you want to move forward 16:30 Outro Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 75: Hoping You And Your Ex Will Get Back Together?
02/18/2025
EP 75: Hoping You And Your Ex Will Get Back Together?
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:40 What hoping you and your ex will get back together looks like 01:45 Is it normal to hold out hope? 03:00 Feeling guilty for holding out hope 03:30 Holding out hope doesn't have to mean anything 04:20 You're holding out hope because you still love or care for them 06:00 Noticing the story you are telling yourself and shifting it 06:30 Creating space between you and your ex 07:30 Reconciling who they were vs. who you thought they were or who you wanted them to be 10:50 Allowing yourself to grieve the loss 11:45 Grieving helps you to find closure 12:25 Where are you resisting grief? 13:10 We hold out hope because there's a fear of change 14:00 Find safety in change 15:00 Hindsight is 20/20 18:00 Finding trust that it will work out 19:00 Sunk cost fallacy 24:40 There's so much nuance in this conversation 26:20 You can keep the door open and still heal and move forward 27:20 You can't go wrong in healing Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 74: How To Forget Your Ex
02/11/2025
EP 74: How To Forget Your Ex
How to forget about your ex and stop thinking about them all of the time so that you can start healing and moving forward. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:55 Invest in yourself and your life 03:30 Life wheel 04:30 Getting yourself into a flow state 08:30 Don't beat yourself up when you do think about your ex 9:50 Recap of everything we talked about Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Join The Heartbreak to Happiness Masterclass Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 73: Why You Still Miss Your Ex
02/04/2025
EP 73: Why You Still Miss Your Ex
Some reasons why you may miss your ex (even months or years after the breakup.) Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 01:30 Missing your ex is part of moving forward 02:55 The comfort of familiarity 03:50 Emotional Attachment 05:30 Loss of the future you planned with them or loss of identity 06:15 Missing the routine or lifestyle you had 08:00 Romanticizing the relationship or the good you had 09:00 Separting what you miss about your ex vs things you miss in general 10:00 Desire for external validation Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Join The Heartbreak to Happiness Masterclass Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 72: What To Do When You See Your Ex Move On First
01/28/2025
EP 72: What To Do When You See Your Ex Move On First
In this episode we are going over practical things you can do when you see your ex move on first. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Seeing your ex move on before you 01:40 Society's narrative around "winning the breakup" 03:30 Resist the temptation to dig deeper 06:00 You don't actually know what's going on with your ex 06:50 What are you making your ex moving on first mean? 08:00 Challenge the stories you are telling yourself 09:30 Working with your brain and treating yourself with compassion 11:00 A personal story where my ex moved on first16:00 Use it as an affirmation that you can move forward too 17:20 Your ex moving on first doesn't mean they are better than you Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Join The Heartbreak to Happiness Masterclass Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 71: How To Stop Obsessing Over An Ex
01/21/2025
EP 71: How To Stop Obsessing Over An Ex
In this episode: Practical ways to stop obsessing over your ex Why we get stuck in thinking about our exes Mini mindset shifts that will make the process of moving on from your ex easier Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Free Masterclass - Heartbreak to Happiness 01:00 Can't stop thinking about your ex 01:30 Thinking about your ex after a breakup is expected 02:20 Being in the habit of thinking about your ex 04:45 Minimize or eliminate triggers that cause you to think about your ex 07:50 Get curious about your thoughts, what is the story you are telling yourself? 10:15 Get off of autopilot 13:30 Distracting Yourself 16:30 Find a way to close the habit loop 22:30 Think about it as a habit rather than obsessing 24:00 Heartbreak to Happiness link in shownotes Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Join The Heartbreak to Happiness Masterclass Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 70: How to Stop Romanticizing Your Ex and Start Romanticizing Your Life
01/14/2025
EP 70: How to Stop Romanticizing Your Ex and Start Romanticizing Your Life
In this episode: Why we idealize past relationships, especially after a breakup. The impact of selective memory and how it keeps you stuck. Practical steps to shift focus from the ex to building a fulfilling life. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 02:30 My own experience with romanticizing an ex 03:00 What we're covering in this episode 04:00 What is romanticization 05:00 Why we romanticize exes 05:27 Protecting the idea of the relationship and what it could of been 06:05 Hormonal changes 08:10 Getting nostalgic about your ex 09:00 Getting different perspectives from people you trust 11:40 Giving yourself a reality check 13:40 Our brain is trying to keep us safe in the familiar 14:50 Try to protect our sense of identity 18:05 Fear of being alone 19:00 How media & society perpetuate the idea of "the one who got away" 21:45 The cost of romantisizing your ex 23:45 How to start romanticizing your own life 29:30 My top piece of advice for romanticizing your own life 31:30 Free Masterclass - Heartbreak to Hapinnes (Your blueprint to feeling better after a breakup) 32:40 Outro Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Join The Heartbreak to Happiness Masterclass Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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EP 69: How Your Attachment Style Shapes Relationships, Breakups, and Dating [W/Jessica Da Silva - Guest Series]
01/07/2025
EP 69: How Your Attachment Style Shapes Relationships, Breakups, and Dating [W/Jessica Da Silva - Guest Series]
In this episode we cover: How to navigate a breakup based on your attachment style. What to do when old patterns come up in new relationships. How to know when you’re ready to date again. How knowing your attachment style helps you navigate your breakup. How to use your attachment style to your advantage in future relationships. 01:34 what advice would you give each of the attachment styles to get through a breakup? 02:30 Anxious attachment 03:00 Avoidant attachment 03: 26 Disorganized attachment 04:00 Attachment patterns coming up as you get back out into the dating world 07:00 How to move through the feeling that you should be “over this by now” 10:00 We are all human 10:55 Speaking to the avoidant parts of ourselves that want to do it alone 13:00 Getting your needs met 15:40 How to notice when old attachment patterns are coming up 18:15 Sometimes the things that aren’t good for us feel good 20:45 How to apply what you know about your attachment style to dating & relationships 23:00 Taking the pressure off of yourself and getting clear on your values 23:55 How to know when you’re ready to date again 29:30 What’s the point of doing the inner work? 32:58 Jessica’s Info Podcast Host: Lucy Price Lucy's Links Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email: Instagram: About our guest:Jessica Da Silva is a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and Attachment Coach who empowers individuals to free themselves from attachment patterns that sabotage their relationships by teaching them actionable skills to relate to themselves and others more authentically and effectively. Not only does she talk the talk, but she also devotes her online platforms to sharing her personal journey in becoming securely attached and making these topics more relatable and encouraging.
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EP 68- The Money Side Of The Breakup [W/ Leah Hadley - Guest Series]
12/17/2024
EP 68- The Money Side Of The Breakup [W/ Leah Hadley - Guest Series]
In this episode we cover: The most common financial mistakes people make in relationships that affect them in breakups. Ways to protect yourself financially before, during, and after a breakup. How to prepare financially for a breakup or divorce. How to financially prepare to leave an unsafe relationship. Advice to thrive, not just survive, financially after a breakup. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:25 All things finances before, during, and after a breakup 01:20 Most common mistakes people make in a realtionship that would affect them after a breakup 02:30 Falling into dynamics with a partner around finances 3:30 How important is it to have some sense of financial independence in a relationship? 5:50 What causes people to not discuss finances? 07:00 The impact of our family history on our relationship with our finances 08:00 How to prepare to get out of a relationship financially without it being financial infedelitly 10:10 If you know a seperation is coming, how can you start to prepare financially? 11:50 The power of awareness and communication 12:30 When someones afraid to look at their financial situation, how can they get started? 14:20 What are some ways to start saving when you are in an abusive situation? 15:10 Red flags for financial abuse 17:12 Family/partnership decisions that impact your personal financial life 18:35 What you can do to support yourself when you make big financial/career decisions 21:40 Practical financial steps to take as you begin separating 25:00 The power of choice 26:00 Getting creative and flexible when choosing what to do next 27:30 The power of support 29:00 How to thrive financially after a breakup 30:00 The power of building wealth 31:00 Where you can connect with Leah Podcast Host: Lucy Price Lucy's Links Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email: Instagram: About our guest: Leah Hadley will tell you she is no stranger to financial challenges-she became an adoptive parent to three overnight, got divorced and built her business from the ground up to name a few. These were times when careful financial planning was critical to her peace of mind. Now an award-winning financial planner, sought-after speaker, Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC), and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), Leah is the founder of Intentional Wealth Partners and Intentional Divorce Solutions as well as the host of the Intentional Divorce Insights podcast. She uses her knowledge and nearly 20 years of experience to help her clients make wise financial decisions so they can feel confident in their financial future.
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EP 67: Getting Back Into Dating After A Breakup [W/Ilana Dunn Soloman - Guest Series]
12/10/2024
EP 67: Getting Back Into Dating After A Breakup [W/Ilana Dunn Soloman - Guest Series]
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Meet out guest- Ilana Dunn Soloman! 1:15 How do you know when you're ready to start dating again? 03:00 It's okay to try it out and see how you feel 4:00 Everyone's journey is different 5:45 What do you do when your friends and family are pressuring you to date again? 7:00 As a friend, what can you can do to help your friend through a breakup? 08:15 Common dating mistakes when you start dating after a breakup 08:30 You're actually in a great position 09:45 Getting attached to first dates 10:15 It's okay to slow down and let yourself enjoy the dating process 11:30 Enjoy the new relationship energy 12:00 What do you do when you feel overwhelmed with dating? 12:15 Focus on the facts 13:50 Human's love to make stories 14:50 If the story you're telling yourself doesn't feel good-tell yourself a different story 15:15 How we feed into overwhelm 16:35 The people we love have their own stories too 17:15 The power of discernment 18:00 Trust your gut 18:15 What to do when you're afraid of getting hurt again? 19:45 They want you to be the right person for them 20:45 The power of vulnerability 21:20 What do you do if you're afraid of getting rejected? 21:30 Rejection is redirection 21:45 Rejection isn't about you 22:50 It's not about you 23:20 "I'm looking for a guy in finance" 25:00 In hindisight you may be glad it didn't work out 25:15 You deserve to be with someone who wants to be you 26:15 What are some green flags when you are dating? 29:30 Can you talk about things? Can you navigate life's challenges as partners? 30:00 The beginning should be easy 30:45 Someone being hard to get doesn't make them more desirable 31:15 Can I be myself with this person? 32:00 Do you feel like you have to adjust yourself? 32:30 Where to find Ilana! 33:10 Outro Podcast Host: Lucy Price Lucy's Links Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email: About our guest: Ilana Dunn is a Millennial and Gen Z dating expert and lifestyle content creator. Following a successful tenure running Hinge's social media, Ilana embarked on her entrepreneurial journey, founding her own thriving podcast and social media presence. With a genuine “We’re all in this together vibe” as highlighted by The New York Times, Ilana’s content empowers her audience to navigate life's complexities with empathy, authenticity, and relatability. Seeing Other People Podcast: IG: @Ilana.dunn Tiktok: @Ilana.dunn
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EP 66: How To Make & Maintain Friendships During A Breakup [W/Jewel Hohman - Guest Series]
12/03/2024
EP 66: How To Make & Maintain Friendships During A Breakup [W/Jewel Hohman - Guest Series]
In this episode I am joined by Jewel Hohman and we are diving into how to make and maintain friendships when you are going through the emotional ups and downs of a breakup. How to build relationships when you are struggling emotionally with a breakup. Practical ways to cultivate friendship after a breakup. How to know when a friendship is worth investing more into or whether it would be better for you to walk away. How society and social media are isolating us and the effect that has on ourselves and our relationships. Time Stamps: 00:00 intro 02:00 How to make friends when you’re struggling emotionally 04:50 Avoiding other people when you’re going through a hard time 07:30 Numbing out emotions through tech 09:30 You don’t have to show up perfectly 12:30 How we’re undermining the value of friendship 14:50 Were not meant to be alone 16:00 What can I do to connect today? 17:00 What you can do to make friends when it feels intimidating and hard 17:40 You are offering someone a gift 19:50 What you can do if you’re not feeling a lot of confidence right now 23:00 The importance of going to a consistent meet up 25:00 Creating a life counsel 28:00 How to decide what relationships to invest in and what relationships to let go of 32:00 Diversifying investments in friendship 35:00 Where you can connect with Jewel 37:00 Outro Podcast Host: Lucy Price Lucy's Links Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email: Jewel's Links: About: Jewel Hohman is a future therapist, an overly certified coach, and a human-connection obsessed, imperfect human. With a degree in psychology and sociology, a pending master’s, and over 4000 hours coaching on connection, Jewel combines Evidence-Based Self Help and the latest connection research to help people feel delightfully authentic in social settings and make their friendships more meaningful. In a post-pandemic world where millions are lonelier and more disconnected than ever, this conversation is urgent but mostly ignored, and Jewel is on a mission to change that! IG: @connectionwithjewel Website: Podcast:
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EP 65: How To Navigate A High Conflict Divorce [W/ Karen McMahon-Guest Series]
11/26/2024
EP 65: How To Navigate A High Conflict Divorce [W/ Karen McMahon-Guest Series]
In this episode I am joined by Karen McMahon! We are breaking down how to navigate a high conflict divorce so that you come out the other side feeling clear in what you want next and confident in your ability to move forward. Timestamps 00:00 Intro 01:30 Main contributors to high conflict divorce 05:30 Who is responsible for high conflict divorce? 05:55 What can you do to look after yourself when you are in a high conflict divorce 08:00 The power of choosing yourself 09:20 The power of awareness & reflection in advocating for yourself 11:00 What patterns from the marriage can indicate in the divorce 12:00 Discomfort does not mean don’t do it 14:00 Surround yourself with people who support you loving yourself 16:30 People change 17:00 The fear of ending a relationship when you were together for years 19:00 The fear of the idea of something vs. the thing itself 21:00 How our thoughts impact us 22:00 What is the story that I’m telling myself? 23:00 The power of action 25:00 Initial steps you can take to move forward 28:30 Ways to minimize conflict when you are still living with your ex 30:00 Align your actions with your words 31:00 Connect with Karen 31:30 Outro Podcast Host: Lucy Price Lucy's Links Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email: Karen's Links Website: Podcast: Journey Beyond Divorce IG: Journey_beyond_divorce Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/journey-beyond-divorce/ About Karen: Karen McMahon is a High Conflict Divorce Strategist, Certified Divorce Coach and Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. She began divorce coaching in 2010 after recognizing that the pain of her divorce led her on a transformational journey into a powerful and unexpected new life. Karen leads a national team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, clear and confident as they navigate divorce. Karen is the host of the acclaimed Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, and co-author of ‘Stepping out of Chaos: Turning Pain to Possibility” and creator of JBD’s exclusive Elite Divorce Concierge Program.
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EP 64: Why Am I Still So Upset About The Breakup?
11/19/2024
EP 64: Why Am I Still So Upset About The Breakup?
If you are feeling like you have a lot of emotional charge around your breakup, and you feel like it shouldn't be as strong as it is, then this episode is going to explain some of the reasons why you may be having difficulty. Time Stamps: 00:00 Intro 00:00 Why am I still so emotional about the breakup? 01:50 3 reasons why you may be hung up on your ex 2:15 Stages of grief 03:30 intellectualizing your emotions vs feeling your emotions 06:00 Feel your feelings guide 07:00 What story are you investing in? 09:30 What story would feel better? 09:40 Making meaning out of your emotions 12:00 You can feel differently more quickly than you think 13:10 Outro Podcast Host: Lucy Price Links Get the "Feel Your Feelings Guide" Interested in working with me one-on-one? If you are interested in getting private coaching from me then the next step is to schedule a connection call with me. On this call I'll learn more about you and your goals. If we both feel it would be a good fit, then we will get you started with one-on-one coaching. Book a connection call here ⬇️ Breakup Workshop: This workshop breaks down my moving on method (the direct steps you can take to get over your ex and move forward). Workbook included. Get the workshop here ⬇️ Learn more about me and my work ⬇️ Website: Email me your questions! Subject: Question-Podcast Email:
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