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Unblocking Emotional Wealth: Jon's Radical Approach to Rapid Healing
05/03/2024
Unblocking Emotional Wealth: Jon's Radical Approach to Rapid Healing
What is financial Therapy? Can it help lower your financial stress and Anxiety? Find out in today's episode. Are you tired of traditional therapy sessions leaving you drained rather than healed? You're not alone. Many find that rehashing old wounds with "experts" costs a lot—emotionally and financially—without providing the relief they need. But what if there’s a breakthrough method that changes everything? Meet —a groundbreaking approach designed for those who feel stuck in a cycle of unresolved trauma. Jon Connelly, a pioneering therapist, introduces this transformative technique that focuses on present healing rather than past suffering. Want to learn from RRT: Find out about this training In this powerful episode, Jon will share: ✔️ The limitations of traditional therapy, which often forces survivors to relive their traumas—something that rarely fosters genuine recovery. ✔️ How RRT quickly dismantles emotional blocks, accessing the mind's control panel to induce healing. ✔️ The link between resolving inner conflicts and achieving financial clarity and abundance. ✔️ The power of a supportive community that propels each member towards positive transformation. Jon's mantra? "The solution to being in pain is not to be in pain." Embrace RRT and start living the empowered life you deserve, uplifted by a community that champions your growth. Curious to transform your life? Tune into this episode to discover a revolutionary path to healing and empowerment. The answers you’ve been seeking are just one listen away. Join us and step into your power. Transcript... [00:00:00 - 00:00:01]Yeah. Thank you. [00:00:01 - 00:00:04]It's lovely to be with you, dear. [00:00:04 - 00:00:10]Yeah. I began my career doing. [00:00:13 - 00:00:21]Child protective service work with families where there was some kind of allegation of abuse or neglect. [00:00:21 - 00:00:23]I did that for a number of. [00:00:23 - 00:00:26]Years, moved on to work with runaway. [00:00:26 - 00:00:38]Throwaway teenage kids who basically ran from really ugly situations. For the most part, I became interested in. [00:00:40 - 00:00:46]Getting people who had been through various kinds of trauma. [00:00:48 - 00:00:49]Better, and found. [00:00:49 - 00:00:58]That when I tried to learn what the world was doing about that, and I did learn it and try to. [00:00:58 - 00:01:01]Do it, but I just found what. [00:01:01 - 00:01:22]They were teaching me to do, and what seemed to be being done was causing people that were already experiencing a significant amount of pain, a significant amount of additional pain. So much so that it's not unusual. [00:01:22 - 00:01:26]For me to ask somebody who's gone. [00:01:26 - 00:01:30]Through the horror of being raped. [00:01:34 - 00:01:34]If. [00:01:34 - 00:01:44]That was the worst thing ever. And often the answer I get is no. What was worse than getting raped was going into therapy. [00:01:47 - 00:01:49]That's an astonishing thing to hear. [00:01:49 - 00:01:51]It certainly got my attention. [00:01:52 - 00:02:01]So I was interested in developing a whole new perspective, a new way to. [00:02:01 - 00:02:03]Think of things, a new way to. [00:02:03 - 00:02:09]Do things in order to get change to happen. So it's really very different. [00:02:10 - 00:02:16]People know about counseling therapy that it generally takes a. A long time. [00:02:16 - 00:02:18]It is about developing. [00:02:20 - 00:02:36]Insight and trying to figure out what things happened previously that are causing problems. Currently. It's generally significantly painful and expensive, and it usually doesn't work. [00:02:37 - 00:02:39]Other than that, it's pretty good. [00:02:40 - 00:02:43]So I thought, well, it won't be hard to be. [00:02:44 - 00:02:48]To find something that would be better than that, because there's everything wrong with. [00:02:48 - 00:02:50]That and hardly anything right about it. [00:02:50 - 00:02:54]And so I just revamped it and. [00:02:54 - 00:02:57]Began to rethink the whole thing. [00:02:57 - 00:03:00]The way that therapists seem to be. [00:03:00 - 00:03:07]Viewing things is that people are troubled from prior experiences. I'm speaking particularly of the way they. [00:03:07 - 00:03:12]Deal with things like trauma, grief, sexual. [00:03:12 - 00:03:20]Trauma, wartime trauma, death of a loved one. And most of what's going on seems. [00:03:20 - 00:03:24]To me to be suggesting that the. [00:03:24 - 00:03:29]Reason people are still bothered by something that happened that was disturbing is because. [00:03:29 - 00:03:35]They didn't release all the feeling. [00:03:35 - 00:03:47]And so the therapist goes to try to get that individual to re experience the worst moments of their life so that they can feel it more deeply and express it more completely so that. [00:03:47 - 00:03:58]It will be released. I don't think that that makes sense on any level. If you've ever had a relationship with. [00:03:58 - 00:04:08]Somebody who would fly into rages, would you feel like, wow, he just experienced a great rage and smacked me and screamed. [00:04:08 - 00:04:12]And so now I know he's going to be great because I'm sure he got it out. [00:04:13 - 00:04:14]Yeah, exactly. [00:04:14 - 00:04:16]No, so the whole notion we get. [00:04:16 - 00:04:21]It out by experiencing and expressing it, it's just incorrect. [00:04:21 - 00:04:26]In fact, the more people rage, the more they rage. The whole idea that the solution for. [00:04:26 - 00:04:30]Rage is rage, followed by the solution. [00:04:30 - 00:04:45]For grief is grief. And the solution for feeling terrible about being raped is to feel terrible about being raped. Think of something better than that. [00:04:46 - 00:04:54]So what I came to understand is that when somebody is experiencing some kind. [00:04:54 - 00:04:57]Of emotional turmoil that's coming from within. [00:04:57 - 00:05:01]The mind of the person that's experiencing it. [00:05:01 - 00:05:06]And the reason that matters to me is because if that person wants to. [00:05:06 - 00:05:10]Get clear and not be troubled, I. [00:05:10 - 00:05:13]Have access to what's troubling him. [00:05:13 - 00:05:17]What's troubling him is the way his mind is processing. [00:05:17 - 00:05:21]And I know how to have an effect on how mind is processing so. [00:05:21 - 00:05:23]That he's no longer troubled, which is. [00:05:23 - 00:05:26]Another difference between what we're doing and. [00:05:26 - 00:05:30]The way counseling therapy works, is counseling therapy. [00:05:30 - 00:05:41]And by the way, the educational system, the people who are the practitioners don't take responsibility for making it happen. [00:05:41 - 00:05:54]Blame the people they were not skilled enough to help, calling those people unmotivated or resistant. We're not ready for change with the process I'm teaching. [00:05:55 - 00:06:00]The facilitator always takes full responsibility for getting people better. [00:06:02 - 00:06:03]So if you'd like to be with. [00:06:03 - 00:06:05]Somebody who thinks it's your job to. [00:06:05 - 00:06:08]Get better, that's available in what most. [00:06:08 - 00:06:13]People offer, if you'd like to be with somebody who knows that it's his. [00:06:13 - 00:06:18]Job to get it better for you, then that's where we come in. [00:06:18 - 00:06:21]And the differences are that the RRT. [00:06:21 - 00:06:25]Process is fast, meaning, generally, if people. [00:06:26 - 00:06:28]Book appointments with me, they begin and. [00:06:28 - 00:06:30]End on the same day. [00:06:31 - 00:06:34]So as opposed to a year and. [00:06:34 - 00:06:40]A half a day, significant difference there. [00:06:40 - 00:06:43]Two, the process of going through this. [00:06:43 - 00:06:49]With rapid resolution therapy is generally people. [00:06:49 - 00:06:54]Like, laugh a whole lot more than they cry. And if they cry at all, it's. [00:06:54 - 00:07:10]Generally tears of relief and pleasure. And so lots and lots of differences. And the thing is, we've learned that. [00:07:10 - 00:07:16]People who have trained in this process can make a very significant difference for. [00:07:16 - 00:07:21]Others in a relatively short period of time. [00:07:21 - 00:07:36]And by the way, there are two things I'm doing, really. And one is looking to find and cause solutions to people who are dealing with being stuck in emotional pain and turmoil. [00:07:36 - 00:07:38]So that's a big part of what. [00:07:39 - 00:07:44]My life is about. But secondly, and perhaps even more significantly. [00:07:45 - 00:07:47]I'm looking to cause other people to. [00:07:47 - 00:07:51]Have the skill to get other people better because I can't see everybody. [00:07:51 - 00:07:55]So we're getting more and more people skilled in this process. [00:07:55 - 00:07:59]And that's really exciting because people then. [00:07:59 - 00:08:03]Learn to do a profession that is. [00:08:03 - 00:08:06]Really satisfying, really interesting, can be really. [00:08:06 - 00:08:15]Lucrative, and just such fun. So there might be people. [00:08:17 - 00:08:18]In your. [00:08:19 - 00:08:42]Listening audience who might have an interest in at least exploring that. My website is rapidresolutiontherapy.com dot. We have a training beginning in May, and it's called foundation and probably worth a look see. [00:08:45 - 00:08:52]Speaking about that, I should mention we also do something called solutions, which is where we do this process free for. [00:08:52 - 00:09:03]Anybody who wants about six times a month. And people might look at jumping into that. Cause there are people that wouldn't have. [00:09:03 - 00:09:10]The wherewithal to, you know, perhaps pay somebody for treatment. We wanna make sure nobody gets turned down. [00:09:11 - 00:09:15]100% of the people seeking assistance get it? [00:09:15 - 00:09:16]Yeah. Yes. [00:09:16 - 00:09:18]And let me tell you that solutions. [00:09:19 - 00:09:22]Is becoming the place to be every. [00:09:22 - 00:09:30]Like at night, I see it. Well, if you're in United States, it's more accessible. If you are here in Europe, you. [00:09:30 - 00:09:32]May have to be up late at. [00:09:32 - 00:09:34]Night, but it's so worth it. [00:09:34 - 00:09:35]I see two afternoons. [00:09:35 - 00:09:41]Yeah, we do two afternoons. I've seen one of them, but most. [00:09:41 - 00:09:44]Of them, if you turn into, because. [00:09:44 - 00:09:47]Here'S what I like from solutions especially, let's talk about that. [00:09:47 - 00:09:51]And then we jump into more of. [00:09:51 - 00:10:13]The perspective of our, is that rit is such a different way of thinking than what we have been accustomed to as a large society, that when you go into solutions, you just simply get it. The moment that you are in that space that is for free, that John is doing his craft, that is working with other people. [00:10:13 - 00:10:20]You may not have, let's say you don't want to at first just raise. [00:10:20 - 00:10:51]Your hand and say, hey, I'm dealing with this. But you're learning through other people. That's what I have, that's what I found so valuable from solutions, and I learned their perspective. So the first time I learned from RT was by going into solutions and not saying anything but seeing how this worked. Like, oh, they're telling me this is different. Let's see how different it is. And that is why I recommend to everybody, go to solutions if you are not sure, or if you just want to just dip your toe into it. [00:10:51 - 00:10:53]And of course, we're gonna link all. [00:10:53 - 00:11:04]Of that on the show notes. Also, foundations is going to be linked on the show notes. I'm doing that training, just like clinical hypnosis that I did, it's just, it's. [00:11:04 - 00:11:08]A different way of thinking that it's. [00:11:08 - 00:11:13]To me, it's way more useful than whatever I. All the training that I've had. [00:11:13 - 00:11:17]I thank you so much, and I'm. [00:11:17 - 00:11:20]Exciting, excited, and grateful that you make. [00:11:20 - 00:11:25]This available to your listeners. [00:11:27 - 00:11:32]There are a lot of people dealing. [00:11:32 - 00:11:38]With what's called iatrogenic illness, and that. [00:11:38 - 00:11:41]Means illness caused by medical doctors. [00:11:44 - 00:11:47]And what I find is that there. [00:11:47 - 00:11:51]Are tremendous amounts of people dealing with. [00:11:53 - 00:11:59]Emotional disturbance that's been caused by people. [00:11:59 - 00:12:02]That they went to to alleviate disturbance. [00:12:02 - 00:12:16]In fact, that's a significant component of what we're addressing, people coming in who have been traumatized by going to somebody else for treatment. [00:12:18 - 00:12:31]And that's seeing people that are licensed and credentialed in psychology, psychiatry, social work, counseling, family therapy. That whole works. [00:12:31 - 00:12:31]So. [00:12:34 - 00:12:37]It'S delightful to offer people an. [00:12:37 - 00:12:50]Alternative that's fast, effective, and isn't painful. The solution to being in pain is not to be in pain. [00:12:51 - 00:12:58]And we're working with people in physical pain from medical issues and emotional pain. [00:12:58 - 00:13:01]From all kinds of things where we. [00:13:03 - 00:13:08]We can make a difference. And I know that lots of folks. [00:13:08 - 00:13:42]Who get to spend time listening to you, my friend, are concerned about financial matters, and we find that when somebody's mind has been cleared, well, of, of course, their relationship with finance, with money then becomes clear. So they become more effective parents, they. [00:13:42 - 00:13:44]Become more effective lovers, they become more. [00:13:44 - 00:13:56]Effective professionally, and they certainly become more effective financially. So we have people like mental health. [00:13:56 - 00:14:01]Professionals who will come in for training. They're doing pretty well in private practice. [00:14:01 - 00:14:06]And then they'll, they'll often let me know. [00:14:06 - 00:14:11]After incorporating this process, their income has. [00:14:11 - 00:14:12]Tripled. [00:14:14 - 00:14:18]Although each person is paying less. [00:14:18 - 00:14:27]Than they used to. But the difference is, if you have an amazing experience and you feel much. [00:14:27 - 00:14:30]Better, you're probably going to tell people about it. [00:14:30 - 00:14:31]Right. [00:14:31 - 00:14:33]And so, although, I mean, because I. [00:14:33 - 00:14:38]Talk to people, like, in mental health, and they say, well, I'm afraid to. [00:14:38 - 00:14:40]Learn to do what you're doing because. [00:14:40 - 00:14:42]I'm afraid to get people better too quickly. [00:14:42 - 00:14:43]Seriously. [00:14:43 - 00:14:46]I'm afraid to get people better too quickly. [00:14:46 - 00:14:47]Yeah. [00:14:48 - 00:14:50]I need to support my children. I need to have enough money to. [00:14:51 - 00:14:52]Buy this and that. [00:14:53 - 00:14:56]It's not a problem to get people better quickly. [00:14:56 - 00:14:59]There's no, you know, we talk about. [00:15:01 - 00:15:06]Lack consciousness and not enough consciousness, or whatever you call that. [00:15:06 - 00:15:10]Well, there's sure as hell enough suffering out there. [00:15:11 - 00:15:14]The whole concept. When a mental health professional is saying. [00:15:14 - 00:15:22]I don't want to get people better too quickly because I'll run out of patience. I mean, you know, I don't think. [00:15:22 - 00:15:31]You'Re going to run out of, you know, I'd like to run out of patients. I'd like you to tell me, sorry, you got to figure something else out because nobody's in pain anymore. [00:15:31 - 00:15:36]Yeah, I mean, that ain't happening during. [00:15:36 - 00:15:43]My lifetime, and I'm afraid it's probably not going to happen within yours. So I think we should just go gung ho, get out there, make a. [00:15:43 - 00:15:51]Difference, and get people living lives in which they thrive and have those things. [00:15:51 - 00:15:55]That have the experience of pleasure. [00:15:56 - 00:15:57]Absolutely. [00:15:57 - 00:16:01]And satisfaction, and therefore they're better to other people. [00:16:01 - 00:16:03]I mean, aren't you better to people when you're feeling good? [00:16:04 - 00:16:05]I sure am. [00:16:05 - 00:16:07]I'm sure I'm too. [00:16:07 - 00:16:12]I think it would get people feeling better, then they're better than other people and they feel better, and it just. [00:16:12 - 00:16:13]Can spread like fire. [00:16:14 - 00:16:15]And that's the whole point of RRT. [00:16:15 - 00:16:19]That I'm in love to be supporting people as well. [00:16:19 - 00:16:25]I want to jump into one question that I get asked a lot, is. [00:16:25 - 00:16:33]How does RRT works to shift the behavior? So I often am talking about RRT for the emotional release, for the clearing, the trauma. [00:16:33 - 00:16:35]But what is the connection? [00:16:35 - 00:16:47]I want to hear your words in how does RRT works to change a behavior, specifically with money? Let's say somebody has been over consciously. [00:16:47 - 00:16:50]Every time, like it gets extra money. [00:16:50 - 00:16:58]And they just overspend and it has no money extra, and they continue over spending through credit cards or stuff like that. [00:16:58 - 00:17:02]So how do we see it from the RRT perspective? [00:17:02 - 00:17:07]Well, see, I believe that our minds. [00:17:07 - 00:17:09]And by that I mean unconscious outside. [00:17:09 - 00:17:14]Of conscious awareness, cause the behavior that we engage in. [00:17:14 - 00:17:22]And our minds cause behavior often by causing emotion, sensation, thought, impulse, or habit. [00:17:22 - 00:17:27]And. And so if you just ate. [00:17:31 - 00:17:37]A bag of potato chips and an ice cream sundae and regret it, or with. [00:17:37 - 00:17:41]You just bought something that you regret. [00:17:41 - 00:17:44]Having spent the money on, or whatever. [00:17:44 - 00:17:48]That is, I mean, so what caused you to do it? [00:17:49 - 00:17:51]Well, I think the answer is probably. [00:17:51 - 00:18:03]There was an emotion or a thought or a sensation or an impulse or a habit. And what we call all that stuff mixed up is feeling. [00:18:04 - 00:18:07]Why did you do that? I felt like it. [00:18:07 - 00:18:08]I felt like it. Yeah. [00:18:08 - 00:18:25]Well, why didn't you? Because I didn't feel like it. So people are stuck because they're trying to do things that are different from what they feel like doing. And sometimes people can do something different than what they feel like doing for. [00:18:25 - 00:18:37]A while, and then it feels like they just explode right back into where they were stuck. So rather than developing, okay, what I. [00:18:37 - 00:18:39]Got to do is get better willpower. [00:18:40 - 00:18:48]So that I can be really good at not doing what I want to do. And then I want to get really good at doing things I don't want to do. [00:18:48 - 00:18:55]And so if it's successful, I'll be able to spend my life doing things I don't want to do and making sure I don't do the things I. [00:18:55 - 00:18:56]Do want to do so that I. [00:18:56 - 00:18:59]Can have a good life, because the things I want to do are basically. [00:18:59 - 00:19:01]Bad for me, and the things I. [00:19:01 - 00:19:03]Don'T want to do would be good for me. [00:19:03 - 00:19:04]So I have to learn to do. [00:19:04 - 00:19:15]Things I don't want to do and not do things I do want to do. And if somebody's successful with that, they can be successful with it, sometimes even for a long time, but most often not. [00:19:15 - 00:19:19]But there's a grip of, you know, like, there's. [00:19:19 - 00:19:21]And you hear people talk about things. [00:19:21 - 00:19:23]Like, there's part of me that wants. [00:19:23 - 00:19:25]To do this, while some other part of me wants to do that. [00:19:26 - 00:19:27]And there's part of me that wants. [00:19:27 - 00:19:31]To spend this money and waste it on this, but another part of me. [00:19:31 - 00:19:35]Would rather have it saved, and part of me wants to, you know, eat. [00:19:35 -...
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