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Love Thy Neighbor Show

Release Date: 11/13/2025

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

Love Thy Neighbor relationship show intro Colette Jane Fair as therapist co-host Colette Jane Fair book promotion and name spelling Easier book access at thecostofquiet.com Jokes about bad spelling and confidence Florida cold weather shock and routines Comedy song about being too cold Comparing Florida cold snaps to northern winters Liking New York but not winter weather Extreme Florida temp swings vs gradual cold Relationship awareness from doing the show Relationship content as emotional homework Keeping relationships top of mind Social media pushing relationship...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

* Love Thy Neighbor intro with Colette Fair and sold out book party in Maitland * Middle names used on air * Dan originally named Dan Lee before radio * Name came from college musician friend * Dan hated Dan Lee and changed it * Joke about Daniel Day Lewis * Colette knowing little about the hosts * Bear suit embarrassment story * Sudden shift from jokes to tragedy * Local therapist murder suicide case * Therapist client boundary risks * Story appearing in social feeds * Avoiding news for mental health * Garbage in garbage out media rule * Balance between news and sanity * After hours therapy...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Introduction of Love Thy Neighbor and Colette Fair as recurring relationship expert • Casual emotional check-in with Colette and jokes about free advice and “private” episodes • Shift to self-esteem, confidence, and how aging impacts desirability • Aging anxiety framed as more intense for women and tied to social pressure • Fear of no longer being attractive to a partner despite reassurance • Difference between venting emotions and partners trying to “fix” feelings • Logical acceptance of aging versus emotional resistance • Dermatologist visit and Botox history...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Introduction of Love Thy Neighbor with relationship therapist Colette Fair • Colette managing stress while preparing for The Cost of Quiet book launch • Announcement of The Cost of Quiet launch event at Maitland Mercedes-Benz • Event details: date, time, location, ticket includes a copy of the book • Framing the launch as both a book release and a community gathering • Loneliness discussed as a widespread modern issue • Feeling lonely even within families and long-term relationships • Humor about hiding in the bathroom for quiet time • Phones and constant distraction...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Love Thy Neighbor introduced as a relationship show focused on growth • Financial stress framed with humor about offering creative services • New year positioned as a moment for relationship reflection, not reinvention • Focus on small, attainable changes over drastic relationship overhauls • Comparison between extreme diet resolutions and unrealistic relationship goals • Small, consistent actions compounding over time • All-or-nothing resolutions setting people up for failure • Behavior change compared to habit-building and voting • New year not magically changing real...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Debate over repeating the show title and old-school radio presentation • Traditional radio habits versus modern podcast structure • Adjusting how hosts and guests are introduced on-air • Colette’s media tour to Atlanta, Washington D.C., and Phoenix/Scottsdale • Delayed release of holiday-related media segments • Balancing work travel with mother–daughter time • Family relocation from New York to California and reduced closeness • Ease of travel between Florida and New York influencing migration • Jokes about people “invading” Florida • Media stereotypes about...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Holiday stress, polarized feelings, and relationship strain • Simplifying expectations and focusing on connection • Intentional family time and low-effort activities like games and puzzles • Screen overstimulation making simple activities feel boring • Relearning enjoyment away from devices • Emotional lift after spending real time with family • Effort required to engage in shared activities • Easy entry games and “adult parallel play” options like pottery, climbing, walking • Bonding without constant conversation; Florida weather enabling outdoor time • Casual family...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Low-effort vs. high-effort Thanksgiving experiences • Colette’s relaxed holiday without her kids • Daniel’s stressful Thanksgiving towing multiple vehicles • Different family traditions and conflicting holiday desires • Two opposing feelings about an experience both being valid • Giants’ struggles, game mishaps, and kicker issues • Annoyance at Kansas City’s continued success and Cowboys rivalry • Social media comparison culture affecting relationships • Pressure from idealized online portrayals vs. real life • Comparison in the past (holiday cards) vs. constant...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Audience enjoying the relationship show • Reminder to leave reviews on Apple Podcasts and Spotify • More relationship content appearing in social media feeds • Noting that consuming relationship content can boost awareness • Contrast between relationship-focused and random algorithm feeds • Brief joke about Hezbollah/Hezzy and Mike Tyson’s age confusion • Introduction of the online “Bird Theory” test • Example of a staged bird video illustrating the concept • Gottman’s “bids for connection” explained • Turning toward bids linked to long-term satisfaction •...

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Love Thy Neighbor Show

• Live launch of “A Corporate Time with Tom and Dan” on Twitch and YouTube • Promotion of free Bad at Business Beerfest (Nov 22) and Sofas and Suds couch races (Nov 23) in Sanford • Both events are free, family-friendly, and include unlimited beer samples for 21+ • “Weird Job Wednesday” debuts with guest Amy Kaufeldt from Fox 35 • Amy shares her childhood dream of spaceflight and how the Challenger disaster changed her goals • Found passion for writing, studied journalism at Miami University of Ohio • Early unpaid radio work at NPR station WMUB; enjoyed radio’s relaxed...

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More Episodes

• Live launch of “A Corporate Time with Tom and Dan” on Twitch and YouTube
• Promotion of free Bad at Business Beerfest (Nov 22) and Sofas and Suds couch races (Nov 23) in Sanford
• Both events are free, family-friendly, and include unlimited beer samples for 21+
• “Weird Job Wednesday” debuts with guest Amy Kaufeldt from Fox 35
• Amy shares her childhood dream of spaceflight and how the Challenger disaster changed her goals
• Found passion for writing, studied journalism at Miami University of Ohio
• Early unpaid radio work at NPR station WMUB; enjoyed radio’s relaxed pace
• Transitioned from radio to TV through NBC internships in Ohio; learned sales made more than on-air talent
• Accepted first TV job in Great Falls, Montana, for $18K; learned budgeting and lived modestly
• Covered Unabomber arrest as first major breaking story; called early years her “media boot camp”
• Promoted to main anchor without a raise; typed scripts on typewriters and timed segments manually
• Reflected that early grind built confidence and skill
• Compared early technical work to today’s automation, saying new journalists miss foundational skills
• Discussed handling online criticism and “keyboard warriors”; shared story of viewer apologizing for rude comment
• Mentioned balance between robotic presentation and human connection on air
• Described seven-hour Fox 35 morning show, expanding from three hours since 2003
• Detailed hurricane coverage shifts, lack of sleep quarters, and constant updates
• Explained teleprompter focus and staying authentic during serious stories like Casey Anthony trial
• Shared story connecting puppy born without a paw to a family with a limb difference; became therapy dog “Charlie Tri”
• Reflected on community impact and importance of compassion in local news
• Mentioned station renovation chaos—lost internet and live shots during broadcasts
• Noted female anchors face appearance criticism; prefers prepping at home to stay ready
• Described field reporting risks: danger, exhaustion, harassment
• Noted pay disparities across markets; few anchors become wealthy
• Discussed influencer hires and decline of passion-driven journalism
• Praised for professionalism and longevity; jokes about “Love Thy Neighbor” six-second kiss
• Interview with comedian George Wallace performing at Orlando Funny Bone with Amy LeCours opening
• Wallace recalls 49-year career with Seinfeld, jokes about being his “kids’ father”
• Talks shift from TV to social media comedy—“funny is still funny”
• Emphasizes work ethic, travel life, and joy of live audiences
• Promotes new show “Clean Slate,” jokes second show is funnier because he’s “naked”
• Shares love for ice cream, weight-gain resolution, and “four L’s”—learning, listening, loving, laughing
• Encourages Tom and Dan to try stand-up; signs off with “I love you, nothing you can do about it”
• Hosts praise Wallace’s energy and liken him to a comedic Michael Jordan
• Light talk on Wendy’s nostalgia—spicy chicken peak, “Biggie” brand loss, fast food decline
• Notes Wendy’s sales down 5%, revenue $1.63B; reflects on inflation and quality drop
• Misses dollar menus and quirky architecture like Alamo-style Taco Bells
• Shifts to Rob Dyrdek discussion—critiques his self-help “wait list” marketing as cultish but disciplined
• Notes grind addiction, unrealistic motivational tone, and monetized positivity
• Compares Dyrdek to Tony Robbins; respect for his structure but dislike for gimmicks
• Listener voicemail revives “white van speaker scam” story from 2000s
• Dan recalls buying “Blue Rhino” speakers in college—real brand, not propane
• Paid $110; they worked fine and lasted years
• Debate whether scam is truly fraud or just markup resale
• Reflection that working products made it feel like a fair deal
• Closing thought: scams persist because “there’s always a chance”
• Show wrap-up and sign-off

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