Unraveling Adoption Update: New Book Launch and Other Collaborations with Beth Syverson - Ep 153
Release Date: 07/08/2024
Unraveling Adoption
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In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I, Beth Syverson, provide a detailed update on the latest happenings within the Unraveling Adoption community. As an adoptive mom to my son Joey, we are dedicated to delving into the complexities of adoption and providing support to those impacted by adoption.
Book Launch Announcement:
The main highlight of this episode is the impending launch of our first book in the Unraveling Adoption book series. Titled Adoption and Suicidality, this anthology features stories, poems, and resources for adoptees, families, healthcare professionals, and allies. The book, co-authored by Joey and me along with 14 contributors, aims to open up conversations about suicide, a crucial but often overlooked topic in the adoption community.
The book features contributions from 11 adoptees who share their personal struggles with suicidality, as well as three mothers who tragically lost their children to suicide. Dr. Joyce Maguire Pavao, an adoptee and psychotherapist, has written the Foreword, lending her expertise to the project. The book is divided into three sections: our family story, contributions from adoptees and mothers, and a comprehensive list of resources for support.
Listeners are invited to join the book launch team, where they can receive a free copy of the book in advance and help spread the word on social media. The goal is to reach a wide audience, including therapists, pediatricians, adoption agencies, and individuals with struggling teens.
I also discuss upcoming books in the series, focusing on topics like adoption and sacred plant medicine and adoption and ADHD.
Community Engagement:
Listeners are encouraged to explore the Unraveling Adoption Patreon, where they can support the podcast and gain access to exclusive benefits. I express gratitude to current Patreon supporters and extend an invitation to join the community.
Coaching Services:
As a certified coach, I offer coaching services aimed at validating experiences and guiding individuals towards solutions. Special discounts are available for podcast listeners who book coaching sessions in July 2024.
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📆 Community Calendar: UnravelingAdoption.com/Calendar
✨Healing the Adoption Constellation database: UnravelingAdoption.com/Healing
💌Sign up for our Unraveling Adoption email list: http://eepurl.com/hVIAVX
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RESOURCES mentioned in this episode:
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Join the Adoption and Suicidality Book Launch Team here: https://forms.gle/iTtF7Eu4Ph6EWNNw6
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Hear previous episodes by some of our book’s contributors:
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Addressing LGBTQ+ Adoption Stigmas with Tony Hynes - Ep 93: https://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/26827452
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Exposing the Dangers of Secrets & Lies with Greg Rostron - Ep 97: https://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/27097293
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Coming Out of the Fog with Melissa Brunetti - Ep 106: https://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/27730794
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Investigating Adoption's Fault Lines with Birth Mother Lorraine Dusky - Ep 108: https://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/27854574
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Healing Adoption Trauma Through Alternative Therapies with Ridghaus - Ep 113: https://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/28184255
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Access the Healing the Adoption Constellation Database here: UnravelingAdoption.com/Healing
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Access the Community Calendar here: UnravelingAdoption.com/Calendar
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Become a Patreon supporter here for as little as $5/month: http://Patreon.com/UnravelingAdoption
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Find out more about my coaching here: UnravelingAdoption.com/Coaching
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Other recent podcasts featuring our family’s story:
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Beth and Joey on Charlyn Spiering’s Adoption Uncovered podcast: https://adoptionuncovered.com/2024/05/21/a-path-through-suicidality-with-beth-syverson-and-joey-nakao/
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Beth and Joey on Lisa Ann’s Wandering Tree podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/wandering-tree-llc/s4e6-from-isolation-to-Cnm9A3S5_4D/
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Beth on Speaking of Teens with Ann Coleman: https://speakingofteens.com/141-2/
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Beth on Mee Ok Icaro’s podcast Live Your True Story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZMfoByZRdQ
Other Resources:
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APtitude Support Group for Adoptive Parents Facing Adoption’s Challenges: http://UnravelingAdoption.com/APtitude
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Other Parents Like Me - http://oplm.com
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Heather Ross - Life Coaching for Parents who have a child struggling with addiction: https://heatherrosscoaching.com/
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Music written and performed by Joseph Nakao
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00:00:00 - Introduction and Book Announcement
00:04:50 - Book Launch Team Invitation
00:05:32 - Resources and Ways to Get Involved
00:07:07 - Collaboration with Podcast Guests
00:08:09 - Patreon Supporter Recognition
00:13:19 - Coaching Services Offered